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Mia and I just hours after the birth
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Mia only a minute old
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Times Have Changed

ellamia by ellamia Talking Back(November 2007) (rank 51st)

Aren’t we glad we weren’t giving birth a 100 years ago where people couldn’t afford doctors and just had to rely on other sources maybe even word of mouth. I have heard and read a few stories about the good old days back in England from my

old nan that passed away recently.

The Pregnancy And Birth
Well it would have been a very dirt y pregnancy for the nine months for the mother to be apparently pregnant women weren’t allowed to bathe or have a shower. The shower-bath is too great of shock to they system and a warm bath is however too relaxing. How can you ever be too relaxed? Also you weren’t even allowed to think about bathing at the beach as ocean swimming could cause illness to the fetus.

Once your labour started you were in for an experience as there was no heat in the birthing suite not even if it was winter or cold weather. It was thought that heat could make the mum-to-be and baby loose their energy. But this was probably the least of the mum’s problems.

When labour was over grease was applied internally and externally as it was supposed to be quite soothing. I don’t think so!  Then the mum was then washed down with some red wine and some water. The mum then wasn’t allowed to leave or move from her bed for 24 hours after the birth. Then after the third or fourth day after the birth her dress could be changed as it was said she was to wear the same dress with blood and sweat on for days.

Mother At Last
Well when that had trouble breast feeding, they had no one to turn to like these days. Not even Minti. You couldn’t use nipple cream like you do now as it was said to poison the baby if they were teething. If medicine was to be given it had to be by the nurse. And back in those times women didn’t do the washing either it was the man now how come that doesn’t happen these days? It was apparently perilous to the women to do the washing.

So conclude this. Think that we are lucky we have nice public and private hospitals with all the staff equipped to do our births and after care.

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emmysmum
November 2007 | emmysmum
Re: Times Have Changed
times most certainly have changed, and for the better i think!
Great advice!
Cheers


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Izzy
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | Izzy
Re: Times Have Changed
I've heard about that culture that doesn't allow women to bathe during pregnancy.. I can't remember which culture it is though.


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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | nell18-3
Re: Times Have Changed
I'm so grateful to have born when I was!!!!!!!!
How scary does all that sound
xxx


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boredmum
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | boredmum
Re: Times Have Changed

Thank god I didnt live back then!

Thanks for sharing that with us, it was an eye opener!

luv Dee



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      ellamia
November 2007 | ellamia
Re: Times Have Changed
Thanks Dee,

Yeah I am thanking I live in todays society.

Love Kell


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merlin0903
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | merlin0903
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thanks for sharing this little look back into the past, just makes you more thankful for having everything we have now



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      ellamia
November 2007 | ellamia
Re: Times Have Changed
Thanks Kate,

Yes it does make you more thankful for having what we have now.

Love Kell


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angieh
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | angieh
Re: Times Have Changed
Nice story, it's always thought provoking about how times have changed.


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      ellamia
November 2007 | ellamia
Re: Times Have Changed
Thanks Angie,

Yeah its so amazing that things have changed that much in time.

Love Kell


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Domestic-warrior
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | Domestic-warrior
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That was really interesting...didn't know the hygiene was so poor.....wonder if a lot of women died from infection then.....My Husband reckons i would have died if i had of given birth to my first bub 100 years ago.  I had a post-partum haemorrhage and lost a lot of blood, scarey times eh?  Ta for an interesting read.

Julie.



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      ellamia
November 2007 | ellamia
Re: Times Have Changed
Thanks,

Yeah I had no idea hygiene was that poor until I heard all the stories, I was quite amazed. I think there were alot more baby deaths back then as in still borns because of the equipment they didnt have not sure about the infections in women.

Oh wow that is scary to have a haemorrhage.

Love Kell


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ajv00
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | ajv00
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What an insight it sure does make u appricate what we have now.  Oh how times have changed.

Take care - Angir



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      ellamia
November 2007 | ellamia
Re: Times Have Changed
Thanges Ang

Yes it does make you appreciate what we have now.

Love Kell


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winja
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | winja
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great stuff kell. my nan still feeds me sum of the old wifes tales, she said that i couldnt have a bath lol


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      ellamia
November 2007 | ellamia
Re: Times Have Changed
Thanks Nat,

Yeah i could imagine your nan telling you a story or two haha.

Love Kell


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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | cazza
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Great article and yes they did have it hard, but look at this way we wouldnt be here if they didnt go through the hard times ....

and im pleased i didnt live in those days either lol....... and the nurses dont get enough gratitude like they should, so we all need to say thank you to them all,....

xxxxx cazza


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      ellamia
November 2007 | ellamia
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Thanks, and very true if they didnt go through this we wouldnt be here. Yeah the nurses should be treated better than what they do for the crappy job they have to do.

Love Kell


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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | Kellzacar
Re: Times Have Changed
Hi there ,

Great info here  . . . My grandmother used to tell me stories as a youngster that made my hair curl, especially when it came to women's hygiene, pregnancies etc . . .

I for one am GLAD that I live in today's society as I wonder if I'd have coped 100 years ago . . . Although saying this its amazing what us women DO cope with when we need to . .

Cheers Kellz


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      ellamia
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | ellamia
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Ah the stories we used to hear cracks me up. I am glad too that we live in todays society. Yes we are strong people so I think we could live in anything.

Love Kell


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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | Ngairi
Re: Times Have Changed
Fantastic info.Great read.  Leisa


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      ellamia
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | ellamia
Re: Times Have Changed
Thank you it was also a bit of a laugh at the same time :) Glad you enjoyed.

Love Kell


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