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Supplementing Breastmilk vs. Mother's Intuition... my experience

Kate by Kate Speaking(July 2006) (rank 500+)

So your Doctor says you should supplement your baby.....?

I took my 10 day old baby to have her first check-up with my hospital assigned pediatric doctor.  Without asking me how breastfeeding was going or how many wet/dirty diapers she was having etc., he simply weighed her and told

me that my milk was not good enough and that I would have to supplement her diet with formula.  (She had not yet gained back all of the weight that she lost after delivery.)

I left the doctors office dejected and horrified at the thought that I'd been starving my baby!   I had always wanted to breastfeed for many reasons, but was by no means anti-formula... especially if it was going to put my baby at a dissatvantage.  I bought some formula, took it home, and after struggling with trying to get my bub to accept it, felt overwhelmed and stressed right out.  

I sat down, calmed myself and slowly discovered that my "mother's intution" was trying to tell me something.  I felt that I just needed to keep breastfeeding... after all, aside from using a nipple sheild (God's gift to sensitive women!), breastfeedeing was going great.  Ava liked it, ate alot, had plenty of wet diapers, and seemend normal and happy.  Sure enough, within three weeks of her birth, she was off the growth chart!  Healthy and sufficiently chubby!  With no suplement.  I realise that everyone is different, and that breastfeeding is not an option for everyone; so please don't take offence if you are one of those women.

So here's my ADVICE (and it goes for everything, not just breastfeeding):

I don't reccomend going against what your doctor tells you; but if your intuition is telling you something else - don't ignore it!   Research, get second opinions..advice etc.  You have those thoughts and feelings for good reason... have faith in yourself and your capabilities.  You were made to do this!

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exquisite-flower
November 2006 | exquisite-flower
Instinct

...It is the best way we can care for our children, it is inherent and it existed before doctors etc refined their practise of medicine...

Great thought and advice.
Peace
EF.x 



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dramamom
November 2006 | dramamom
Excellent
Great advice.  Every new mother should remember to trust their instincts.


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mcm
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2006 | mcm
Trust your instincts.
So right. Nobody knows their baby like their mother does. Thankyou for sharing your story. I think we should trust our instincts and do what we know is best for our baby, for our children.


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hrs2004
4.46 (Good) | July 2006 | hrs2004
How terrible for you

I can't believe that you were given such poor advice. Ok, I can. My mum was a first time mother when the medical profession believed that colostrum had no nutritional value and took the baby away to give her formula for her first three days, banning my mum from breast-feeding. Nowadays, this had been proven to be complete nonsense and, although I am basically pro the medical profession, I think that there will be other errors along the way. I am a great believer in the fact that a person who spends 100% of their time with a baby is more likely to be alerted to potential problems than a health professional who sees them for maybe ten minutes. Sure, listen and discuss advice. Do not dismiss it out of hand, but do question anything that you are unhappy with. Breast feeding and learning to be a parent is hard enough as it is, without someone else putting a downer on what you think you are doing well. Well done for sticking to your guns.

One small point I do want to add, though, is for mothers not to be scared of supplementing their feeding. As a contrary point, a recent newspaper article I read suggested that there are parents that are not being given enough support when they are breast feeding, and be it through poor technique or other, the baby is becoming dehydrated. The good signs to watch for, as you said, are wet nappies. If it is coming out, it must have got in there somehow! Just be sure that there are sufficient wet nappies/ diapers.



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nomes
4.50 (Excellent) | July 2006 | nomes
don't get in the way of a mother's intuition

I agree with Izzy.  Babes do lose weight after birth and gain it back later.  More often than not, our bodies adjust to what the baby needs.  I also had an experience where a nurse came to my home advising me something wasn't right.  On a second visit from a different nurse, I was told he must have been confused as to what stage we were at. 

It's a great story to share to remind us all to stay intune with our intuition.



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Izzy
4.42 (Good) | July 2006 | Izzy
Great advice.

I have never heard of a pediatrician recommending formula supplementation at such a young age.  Babies loose weight after birth and gain it back a week later and then just starts to balloon before slimming again when they become mobile.

Also, breastmilk adapts to baby's needs so it's much healthier. If baby needs a lot more calories, mom makes calorie rich milk. I'm sure there are medical reasons for some babies to have to be supplemented by formula, but a normal healthy baby shouldn't have to.

Good for you and your baby for sticking to it!



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      sillyboho
2.08 (Poor) | July 2006 | sillyboho
Great advice.
everyone i know (including me) was told to supplement right away.

ha!

my new baby isn't going to the ped at all.


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           Izzy
4.00 (Good) | July 2006 | Izzy
experience

I wasn't implying that pediatricians never advice women to supplement with formula. I was making a statement according to my own experience.



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