How to fall pregnant

 for young woman like myself, its a big step to fall pregnant, and trust me im well aware of what i will be up against. me and my fience have been together for 6 years now and have been trying for 2 years. the 1st year was the worst year of my life, nothing was happening, i tried everything and anything but still nothing. my sister recently fell pregnant, which a doctor said would never happen. i asked her what she did and how she did it, all she said was "i was so down because i would never be able to have my own baby... but we stopped trying and look what i have now" the best advice anyone could give me, i havnt fallen pregnant yet but both me and my partner dont even think about it anymore. im going to have the time of my life while im young and when the time is rite it will happen. thankyou for all of you comments its really helping me get through it!

thanks a lot for the advice why didnt i use the site sooner

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short and sweet, good advice

LOL!!! We know people arnt all the same n this lil piece n the answers to it prove that lol tried n tested LMAO

I saw the topic heading and thought this will be interesting.. LOL

But being that it is not what I thought.. LOL I will say that the hubby and I tried for four years.. We did not do the counting or checking as to when I was ovulating.. But it was always a thought in my mind.. When will it happen will this time be it... After four years the hubby and I think it is not going to happen. He buys me a dog... Well what do you know I had something else to think about and two months later I find I am pregnant.

I will try to explain my sweeping statement.."Stop Trying"

Over the years we have heard how many women have thrown away the thermometers, charts,given in to adoption only to fall pregnant soon after.

I always left it to "God" never planned,never took contaceptives. I had 2 children within ten months of each other within the first 2 years of my marriage. I was married twice over a 40 year period to 2 very hot blooded men.

My  Daughter started planning & trying in the 1st year of marriage, They tried everything over a period of 12 years costing in the region of $50000.00 before being told by a specialist to consider fostering a child because it was never going to be possible, but no reason could be found besides the anxiety & stress they were both living with, (when to perform & for how long & what position & what to to be eating etc)

They have very good friends as neighbours who had also been trying for 3 years but could not afford IVF etc. Xmas 2005 the girls got together and decided that was their destiny ,so be it and became the streets babysitting service, there was no need for contaceptives as they couldn't fall anyway.

Xmas 2006 they held a street party and got very very drunk as they were both non drinkers it didn't take much. They are both due within 4 days of each other last week in September.

I am not sugesting everyone become drunkards but one must admit one couldn't have been more relaxed than that and getting pregnant was the furtherest from anyones mind that night or morning..

I think this sentiment may be ok for those who have just tried to conceive for a short while. But as months become years, "just relax" just doesn't have the same ring anymore. I know of some people who gets offended when they get told to relax and let things happen on their own.

Personally, I think you're idea is on the right track. I think couples must be given other suggestions/options/ideas along with the advice to just relax and be spontaneous.