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First Time Mum's

cheleinkal by cheleinkal Young Parent(July 2006) (rank 16th)
All $ values are in Australian Dollars.  Nappies = Diapers in Oz Speak

I am a first time Mum who in a previous life was some what of a "Super Nanny" with about 15 years of experience under my belt.
I thought Mother hood was going
to be a breaze, and to be honest, the manual, nuts and bolts of it is, but when it came to making smart  money saving purchasing decissions, all my experience meant diddly squat.  I had been working for people who had more money than I did to play with, so I was flying as blindly as any new Mum with no experience at all.  After 7 months this is what I have discovered.

Use the cheapest nappies you can find for the first few weeks after birth (especially if like me you are out of hospital withinn 24 hours), because they poop as much as they wee, and that's every 5 minutes.  Buying Huggies (The most expensive) is NOT value for money at this time.  They poop tar, the nappy will litterally be dry but black and you have to change it, I used Baby Love and went through approximately 3 boxes.  My baby was small though and was slow to gain weight through breast feeding difficulties, so you may go through less boxes if you have a bigger baby  (mine was 6lb12oz or 3 and a bit kilo's).  The absolute best value for money and quality nappy's and I will sing their praises day in and out I think they're great, are Woolworths/Safeway's Select Brand Nappies.  They come in all sizes and they are really really great quality and sooooooo cheap.  I pay $19.00 for 52 crawlers size, they never leak, they are soft, they look good (pictures on them grip tabs etc.), the new born ones even have a dip in the front to avoid contact with the belly button, Huggies don't.  (I discovered them too late to take advantage of that belly button dip....next time).  

The Coles Brand of Baby Wipes are the best quality and the best value, they also smell lovely, (though I haven't tried the Woolworths/Safeways ones yet).  They are very very moist, you can buy the plastic container and then refills, (3 for approx. $10.00 regular price), I actually got on to them when I was a Nanny .  I found that the Huggies ones were too papery and tear easily, which is the last thing you want happening when you are using a wipe, they are also a lot dryer.

I can also report that the Coles Brand of Nappy San is just as good as the real thing for a 3rd of the cost

You may also want to buy some Nyle infant nose drops as my bub had a panic attack when only 2 weeks old, when she had a stuffed nose and couldn't breath whilst on the breast and didn't realilse she could breath through her mouth when off the breast, she actually passed out which was terrifying for me, but for the short while whilst she was unconcious she breathed naturally through her mouth which was the bright side. The next day I got the nose drops, they worked brilliantly and I suggest it is better to have them & not need them than to need them & not have them,  I had to use Vicks Vapour rub which is probably a bit strong for a young infant, but it was all I had at the time.  I will be more organised next time.  No one had suggested this to me before I had bub, I wish they had.

Baby Towels with the little hood in the corner are FANTASTIC & if anyone asks what you want, get a few of those.  You don't need to bath bub every day/night, they don't get that dirty, however using a night time baby bath wash with lavendar scent is a great way to relax a bub who may be difficult to get to sleep.

A lot of babies sleep better when swaddled in a wrap (flannel or muslin, depending on the temperature), my bub however for all my years of swaddling practice of course going to be the exception to the rule. I ended up using baby sleep bags from day 3. I only had big-ish sized ones (she's still in them at 8 months old) but I tucked the sleeves underneith her and the left over feet ends under her and she slept very well in them. Infact after a few weeks she knew that when she was in the bag it was time for bed, so it actually helped settle her, she knew what to expect.  To buy new these bags can be expensive, I got nearly all of mine 2nd hand from friends or from thrift shops.  She wore a different one each night, incase she  chucked, sweat or dribbled on it)

Bibs, I have found that my preffered style of bib are the over the head (juat a head hole) types are my fave as they don't come undone and are easy to whip on and off and cover a lot of shoulder as well as under the chin.  Second place are the valcro joint ones, I have decided that I don't like the lace up ones.  They made me nervous when she was a new born that she might somehow strangle herslef with them.  I don't know how real this fear was, but that's how I felt and it's best to avoid anything that might make you nervous I think.  You will need size apropriate bibs, My newborn dribbled when she fed (still does in fact).  When breast feeding I placed a hand towel under my boob and under my daughter otherwise I had milk pouring right down my belly wetting us both through.  If she didn't wear a little bib during feeds I had to change her clothes as she would be soaked around the neck.

I don't know about the rest of Australia, but my first Mothers Group was told to wash things in hot soapy water and forget about steralising.  My baby has had no colds, infections or anything, she is the only person in our house who has skipped the flu twice whilst my Hubby and I sneezed all over her.  I think it makes sense to build their immune system instead of  making it more susceptable through sterilisation of anything and everything.  Just a tip.

That's it.  I hope I have helped some one.

Good Luck.     
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cazza
November 2008 | cazza
Re: First Time Mum's

Excellent advice for a first time mum and for others that may want to let first time mums know what to have for bub in the first few months.. well done on such a great article..

xx cazza



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whome
January 2008 | whome
Re: First Time Mum's

GREAT ARTICLE. and pics too thats good thaks for sharing



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dannii17
January 2008 | dannii17
Re: First Time Mum's

hey great tips,im going to be using the aldi barand nappies.you get 52 in a pack for $16 and they are a great nappy.Thanks for letting everyone know about the huggies wipes,ill know not to use them now.Great advice



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LibbyS
October 2007 | LibbyS
Re: First Time Mum's
Thanks so much for sharing!


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sarahkate2202
July 2007 | sarahkate2202
Re: First Time Mum's
 I agree that the coles brand wipes are great, great value, soft and moist.  I was using huggies and getting irriatated at spending so much on something that gets thrown out in two seconds, they are advertised as the thickest wipes, I dont think they are... Nappies are something I tried the store brand ones, and a few others,  but I have to stick to Huggies there, all the others we have had leaks with.  But great advice.. Keep it up. 


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MummaBear
July 2007 | MummaBear
Re: First Time Mum's
I breastfed, co-slept, used cloth nappies, used wet washers instead of wipes, never had to pay for bottles and dummies, never steralised anything, and I can tell you now she didn't cost much as a baby.  All her nappies were handed down to me from other people so I didn't have to pay for them.  Otherwise the op shops sell them for about 50 cents a nappy.  I think people can and do get carried away with a new baby.  A lady I know who is due in September with her first has spent $10,000 on the nursery.  She has painted the walls, bought matching, chunky, heavy wood furniture including a cradle, a cot, a baby wardrobe, shelves, big change table, she has everything matching like a night light, bedding, wall boarders, I can't remember all the other things but it's hugely a jungle theme in the room.  She has stocked up on disposable nappies, nappy wipes, bought a nappy station and a nappy disposal unit.  She has bought about a dozen bottles of all different types, tins of formula already purchased as she will only breastfeed for 2 weeks, that's been decided already.  I could not believe it when she said she spent $10,000 and she hasn't even bought a pram or car seat yet, and will be buying the Outlook Window Shades for the car at $54 each (although they are great value for money).  It's her choice of course, but what I find amusing is that people spend all that money, then complain about how much babies cost.  She has already filled the drawers with things like singlets and neutral type clothing, all from Pumpkin Patch, Osh Kosh, Fred Bare, and other top quality brand name items.  I've offered clothes and blankets that are in perfect condition but she says nothing but the best for her baby.  Then goes and gets all upset that the baby is already costing so much and it's not even born yet.  Childcare fees are going to be around $250 a week and the baby will be in daycare from 6 weeks.  Babysitters every Friday and maybe even Saturday nights will be around $50 for the night.  Well, babies don't have to cost that much!


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JadieLady
3.00 (Average) | October 2006 | JadieLady
couldnt be more right.
i think i have ranted about the sterilisers not being sterilsed bit before, but as for nappy wipes,the woolworths brand a good. they are quite thick as well as cheap. just as good as huggies. in fact, we just bought a box of 240 wipes for just under $20 (aus of course). jsut to clarify, this contained 6 , yes SIX  of the normal size packets in it. the huggies brand for half as many, 3 packs in the plastic packagin, costs about $14.  and i swear by babylove. i use safeway brand in our nappybag as we rarely go out long enough to cange him and forget to change the nappy size over  to the bigger one. safeway are cheap enough to buy a small pack to stock the nappy bag with. I just dont use them when he sleeps at night, as he for some reason pee's a storm. even huggies can leak soemtimes. but not babylove.


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peachynowamum
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | peachynowamum
i wish someone warned me
out and around town relise bubs is hungry u give her a feed and next thing you know your shirt, your babies neck and and shirt are soaked lol (blush)


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MumKim
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | MumKim
thankyou.
Thanks for your advice. I will have to remember to re- read it again in December just before bub is born.


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michellei
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | michellei
Thank You
Thank you for a very informative and fantastic article.
Where were you when I needed this advice nearly 2 years ago...



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JadieLady
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | JadieLady
You are right about the money saving!
I have always used Babylove, they are better (in my opinion) than huggies and heaps cheaper. i did use huggies for a bit, but switched stright back to babylove. my son pees too much in one go for the store brand ones, and snugglers are absolutely AWFUL! there were no huggies or babylove so we figired that snugglers were the next best reputable brand. they were like tissues and fell apart! i also use the coles brand nappy wipes, i find they are heaps better and are fantastic for removing stubborn poop. in the early days it really didnt matter. until my son was about three years old he was wearing my little brothers old babygear, and noone knew the difference. they jsut grow out of it too quickly. my sister is now using those clothes with her about-to-be baby.


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hrs2004
3.64 (Good) | July 2006 | hrs2004
Saving money
I think that if you go in to having a chold with the wrong attitude, you may as well just throw money out of the window. When people asked if I had decorated the "nursery", I asked them what age they were when they remember the wallpaper in their bedrooms. No one could cite earlier than maybe 5 or 6. I just added stickarounds to the wall in a Winnie the Pooh theme - cost about £7, and can be removed from the walls in seconds. Why redecorate, apart from to make the parents have a lovely room to gaze at? The same can be said for all manner of baby products, most of which can be found substantially cheaper. My only exceptions are health and safety. Cots (good second-hand ones are fine, though) mattresses (always new, always good quality) and car seats (the best safety rating is far better than worrying about whether I need to wake the baby up to get them out). Apart from that, shop around, make use of anything people can help you out with and be sensible! Well done.


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      hrs2004
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | hrs2004
Saving money
In addition to this, I wanted to add how sensible you have been. Children are expensive and when you reuse something, or get something cheaper, it just feels so much more satisfying, doesn't it! I am never more pleased than when I have got a bargain. So, do the nursery (after all, it is a lovely symbol of your new life!) and enjoy your time, but don't feel pressurred in to getting everything matching and perfect and new because that is what the manufacturers pressure us in to thinking is the only way to show that we are good parents. As long as a baby has love, and the parents are happy, the material things are less important.


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Izzy
4.00 (Good) | July 2006 | Izzy
Saving money

I agree with the idea of buying cheap store brand diapers. It also makes sense to buy in bulk. Also, try online merchants because you may find cheaper diapers. I myself buy Huggies for my son. I tried out a few brands and went back to it.  During my son's early months of life, I bought the big pack of diapers online at amazon.com and paid about $30 (US dollars) for a pack of 192 count huggies (size 1). I am just using this as an example of how much savings is possible on some online merchants.



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