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NUT FREE HOME - FOR CHILDREN WITH PEANUT ALLERGY

Tammy13 by Tammy13 Talking(February 2008) (rank 87th)

 

The choice to make a “clean and clear” your home from nuts is excellent! This is what we did, and LIFE (at home) is much easier! I have heard of so many stories of accidents that happened in children’s homes, just because the house was not

“clean” from the anaphylaxis allergen!

Please keep your home NUT FREE ZONE. Don’t allow anyone to bring you foods that have nuts. Your friends and family will get used to it eventually.

There are 2 reasons to do that:

1)      The obvious reason – IT IS SAFER!!!! We can all make mistakes, so by making the home nut free – you eliminate that! Be firm about this rule! It is not easy but eventually everybody learns and respects it. We had a problem with a family member that kept bringing to our home foods with nuts (like cakes and such). Initially we politely explained, and explained and explained… and then, at my son’s birthday party that family member walked into our home with a sweet desert that had nut traces. My husband and I looked at him, and he said “oh, just keep it in the fridge and eat it later when the child will go to sleep”. At that point I was so upset from the continuance ignoring of our rule, that I dropped my manners, and told this family member “please take it out and put it in your car so you will take it back home when you go”. That family member answered “but it will go off in the car” and I answered “well I’m sorry, but we asked few times not to bring anything that has nuts or nuts traces and I will not put it in my fridge”. Well – that incident helped. And this family member doesn’t bring any more nut foods into our home.

2)      The second reason is your child – your child, once stepping out of his home, is surrounded by NO! “No we can’t buy this ice-cream – it has nuts” “no don’t touch it, it might have nuts” “no, we don’t know what it’s made off” etc. so let your child FEEL GOOD in his own home. Let him go to the fridge, the candy draw or wherever you store food, and take it freely without having to ask you if it’s ok. It is mainly because your child is a CHILD, and it’s harder for him/her to accept. Your child goes through a lot of bad and sad feeling when he/she is watching other kids eating whatever – when he/she can’t. So at least at his home – he doesn’t have to feel bad or sad.

 

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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | llmunchkin
Re: NUT FREE HOME - FOR CHILDREN WITH PEANUT ALLERGY

That makes perfect sense, and good on you for taking a stance against anyone who doesn't respect your wishes.  It is your home, and it is great that all your food stuffs are safe for your child/children. 



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fairymama25
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | fairymama25
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Hi, thanks for the good advice, my daughter had multiple allergies with very serious reactions. Luckily at home and in my parents home, we dont buy anything she is allergic to. I find it alot harder at my inlaws, and visiting friends. Had to threaten my MIL with not going to visit them ever if they didnt try and understand how dangerous these foods are. I don't go to peoples houses who dont understand, its just simplier! Em x



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      Tammy13
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | Tammy13
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well done ! I had the same problem with my inlaws... :) funny that...! I also had to make few unpolite sayings at some stage to make them understand and it took them approx 4 years to understand. their house is not nut free but when we come, which is rare, they make the effort to serve nut free dinner and to keepall the nut things away. we didn't even go to my brother-inlae wedding because the menu was NOT nut free...

all the best!



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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | Kellzacar
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Hi there,

Thanks for writing this article, I have a daughter with multiple food allergies and we have taken multiple precautions within our home BUT visiting is a nightmare for us as most people don't really understand just how complicated and serious food allergies can be.

Cheers Kellz



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      Tammy13
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | Tammy13
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you're right, visiting others is a nightmare! to be honest, we discovered that we choose who we want to be social with based on their understanding and open-mind/heart to this issue. If there are people who don't realy care - we just don't go to their place. Maybe it sounds selfish to some people, but when it comes to my son's life - that's what counts!

People thing that ALLERGY is sneezing, itching etc. they don't understand and sometimes don't want to understand that ANAPHYLAXIS ALLERGY is a matter of life and death.

Thanks for the visit and the comment!

Tammy



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lillkatheryn
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | lillkatheryn
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My girl has both egg and nut allergies...Though we keep nut products in the house they are out of reach, and I usually keep them hidden.  Though she is only 2 and I try not to buy food that has egg in it.  But what I do, which I think is good is when someone is eating something that she can't I give her something that she can, that way she does not feel "left out" and she is also getting exposed to having to deal with that issue.  She is really good about it, but it is hard at times.  Thanks for writing it!



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