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Global Guardians - 1 See The Invisible People

llmunchkin by llmunchkin Young Parent(March 5th) (rank 4th)

 

This isn't eloquent, nor well planned; neither is the life of the invisible people...

We live within a five minute drive of the CBD of the largest city in Australia. 
The last bastion of leafy suburbs across the water from the concrete jungle.
My rule is to cross the bridge for recreation and entertainment purposes only.

A month ago, my circumstances changed and I have made the trip regularly.
I now carry collected coinage en mass from around the house before I venture out.
To oblige those who are less fortunate and lack the comfort and safety of a home.

On the first occasion that I ventured to meet a person of misfortune.
It was a man that expressed in writing that he wished to journey home.
I almost didn't as I thought what purpose would he really use the gift for?

As I lined up waiting to order a cappucino to warm me on that chilly day.
I realised I'd be home soon and it was none of my business what this man did.
His gratitude for that small donation, was warmer than any takeaway cappucino.

Yesterday, MicroMe accompanied me, and met those who are ignored by many.
A gentleman who may have had a habit; blessed us and bade us a good day.
We made our way toward the hospital; donated to Il Porcellino and wished together.

We spied a silver haired man, who hid his head in his hands seeming ashamed.
He was clean and well dressed, not a a gentlemen of the streets, but out of luck.
His sign said he didn't want to ask for help, he was so sorry and trying to get work.

Something about him struck a chord in my heart, he truly looked like a good man.
People threw small coins in his box, never looking; he tensed and cringed each time.
Leaving a respectful distance, I put some goldies in MicroMe's hot little hand.

MicroMe boldly strode over and held out the money; there was no reaction.
He took a step closer, tapped the man's shoulder and beamed his brightest smile.
He didn't flinch when the man jerked in fright; leaning forward he said 'here you go'.

That bright beaming smile, spread it's magic glow, and that sad face warmed.
My little man was thanked and his hand was duly shaken, and our day was made.
My heart was heavy when I left this man, however we will look for him again.

They keep company with Emporio Armani Express and Prada shoppers.
Well heeled men and women rush past, seemingly oblivous on a daily basis.
Where 7's Sunrise and The Morning Show welcome in the day - Martin Place.

Of course they are amongst beautiful, historical Sydney Architecture.
They aren't far from beautiful Hyde Park and the lovely Botanical Gardens.
I am sure they didn't plan to have that lifestyle when they were children.

Remember next time you see someone less fortunate, it isn't their choice.
Don't pretend not to see them; don't wrinkle your nose; don't laugh at them.
Show respect; teach your children to show respect; help however you can.

  1. Contact your local government, or search online for charities in your area.
  2. Donate anything; time, money, blankets, clothes, furniture, other resources.
  3. Sponsor a street kid/youth, help toward their accommodation and education.


It is never too soon to start creating a world that you would want to live in!

Luisa Foliaki - Mother of MicroMe

 

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August88
5.00 (Excellent) | March 8th | August88
Re: Global Guardians - 1 See The Invisible People

Now the rents are going up so high and the government are trying to stop inflation by hitting the lower income (huh) we will unfortunately see much more of this. It is so sad. What a lovely kind act that you did. I really get annoyed that people ask for money in the streets when it is so hard to come by. So many people asking for $2 on the street and I think why should I give you money for nothing. They should go to centrelink. They need more affordable accomodation and food vouchers and I hope that the government does come up with a plan to help the homeless people and I wish they would stop taking money off the battlers like the senior pensioners and the carers. It made my blood boil when I read that in the newspaper this weekend.



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      llmunchkin
March 9th | llmunchkin
Re: Global Guardians - 1 See The Invisible People

Hi Lynette, the economy is in a slump or heading for one, and of course it means that those who do it tough do it even tougher.

Apparently often those who approach you in the street are more likely to want to spend their money on dubious things... Which is why I often didn't give money to anyone.  However now, I have no problem making eye contact with anyone who seems in need. 

I try not to judge anyone and if I give my money to them, it is to make myself feel good, and I don't care what they spend it on.  A smile costs nothing, and neither do a few kind words, I have yet to be abused or rebuked for saying, 'I'm sorry, I have no spare cash today, but I wish you well.'

I certainly hope that they can come up with an alternative that does not affect the carers and the pensioners.  It is a very unfortunate world when we don't look after our own, let alone others.



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      Domestic-warrior
March 10th | Domestic-warrior
Re: Global Guardians - 1 See The Invisible People

A good way you can give money to the homeless or needy people is to buy 'The Big Issue' if you ever come across it.  Half of what they make, $2, goes to the person selling it and they are usually homeless.  The mag is only $4 and a really good read too.

That way you know the person is trying to help themselves.



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           Domestic-warrior
March 10th | Domestic-warrior
Re: Global Guardians - 1 See The Invisible People

Sorry, 1st link didn't work....try again



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                llmunchkin
July 4th | llmunchkin
Re: Global Guardians - 1 See The Invisible People

I think they are trying to make it hard for you!  Let's see if

this one

works, (they were redoing their website).




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MrsSanders
5.00 (Excellent) | March 7th | MrsSanders
Re: Global Guardians - 1 See The Invisible People

Lui, this is the Charity I worked for way back in the 80s, thought it might interst you.  http://www.cyrenians.org.uk/news/understandinghomelessness.html .

It was an amazing experience and a real eye opener.

Luv, Winnie.xxxx

 



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      llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | March 7th | llmunchkin
Re: Global Guardians - 1 See The Invisible People

Thanks Winnie, I just had a quick look, I do find it interesting, and I will look more closely.  xox



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Frontier
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | Frontier
Re: Global Guardians - 1 See The Invisible People

This is a nice, thoughtful story we shouls all put into action.



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      llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | March 7th | llmunchkin
Re: Global Guardians - 1 See The Invisible People

I agree entirely... But hey, you probably figured that one out already!  Thanks for the comment mate.



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janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | janicepovey
Re: Global Guardians - 1 See The Invisible People

This is a heartfelt article and a subject that sadden's me  and makes me immensely angry. That ,in this day & age and in this so called lucky country, that there are those, our fellow man....homeless & starving.....it just shouldn't be.

I also remember what Bob Hawke said Cazza and your so right 20 years down the track....nothing has changed.....out of eye sight....out of mind!

Lui, you have had some beautiful responses here and there are so many wonderful and caring people out there that do help....but there are those who simpley ignore the less fortunate....it's like if we come into to close contact, we might catch what they have.

Many years ago while working in Centrepoint, i came across many less fortunate than myself and helped as much as i could, when possible.... even today i give when possible...either by food ( even if it is just one can)....clothes....blanket's....and even just $1 here or there to charity.....it's not much, but  if everyone that could, did the same....it surely has to make a  dent.

I don't know if anyone remembers a few years ago on "60 minutes"....they done a story on 3 men....1) a doctor....2 a lawyer  and third one i can't remember....who were living on the streets because  of events that had happened in their lives that were out of their control.....through Ray Martin doing that story....the 3 were gainfully employeed once more and got their lives back on track. Their story really touched me  but i thought at the time there are so many thousand's out there, that are not doctor's or lawyers, in need of a break.

I'd better get off my high horse, hey....i agree with all your suggestions Lui....but i feel the main one is to contact your local  government....over & over again....unless we have volume's of voices speaking up for the less fortunate....nothing will change.

I wholeheartly agree with your last sentence "It is never to start creating a world  that you want to live in! 



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      llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | March 7th | llmunchkin
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Well, I guess it is only roughly about .05% of the population that are homeless in the Lucky Country.  Whether or not that includes people in shelters or temporary emergency housing I am not sure... Either way, that 100,000 people is far too much.  Regardless of the circumstances that led them to this path, they shouldn't be abandoned by the rest of society.

The human rights of murderers and rapists are well taken care of, yet we strip these people of their dignity because they have nowhere to call home?  Don't get me wrong, I am not picking on Australia, this is a global problem, and in some wealthy western countries I am sure that the problem is worse.

This isn't just the middle aged men that people imagine, this is children, teenagers and women as well... People who were forced to leave home because of bad circumstances, lack of money, broken relationships, so many reasons.  Ours is not to judge, yes we need to be wary and wise, but not heartless.

Thank you for sharing my disappointment in the governments that allow this, and my outrage at the people who couldn't care less.  xox



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Domestic-warrior
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | Domestic-warrior
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I read this last night but wasn't able to comment.  Fantastic article and i could just imagine Jaydee going up to the Man, what a great kid....my guys are a bit too shy and i doubt they would do that but we can always lead by example, right?

As Winnie said there are some that shirk the system but most have a story to tell, and i think being a square peg in a round whole society is extremely difficult and some people just don't make it through.  But they are human too and humans need love, kindness, compassion and support to survive emotionally just as we all need food, shelter and clothing....

One last thing, sorry to bleet but i always look at people like that and think they were somebody's baby once........and can feel some sort of compassion, even if their predicament is self inflicted because it is a skill to cope with life and some people never learn those 'skills' and i think it all boils down to resources.  Less money beind spent on Statues and more money being spent on Statures!!



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      llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | March 7th | llmunchkin
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Well, normally he wouldn't, but we had a little discussion about it from further away, then I stood a couple of meters back, sort of dive tackle distance away should intervention have been required. 

He understood that the man was sad, and I said, let's see if you can make him happy.  (Nanna has taught him about happy and sad, we have since added mad and funny to his repertoire, so he can see those feelings and understand them).

Everyone was somebody's baby, you are right... They should all be someone to somebody still, and some might be.  According to the AFP, an average of one person is reported missing every 18 minutes in Australia alone.

Not everybody has someone to turn to in their time of need.  I agree entirely with your stand on spending money on statures not statues, and I grit my teeth every time I see how much is spent on fireworks each year.

 



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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | llmunchkin
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Thanks Teshia, it was just a bunch of random sentences, I jammed it together as I was telling Jaydee's grandparents about what a great little guy he was when I needed to count on him.  I swear, there was pure light surrounding him when he beamed down at the man, and I was so proud that he wasn't afraid, and trusted that I was nearby to protect him.

I can just imagine you carrying muffins and water, it must have been hard telling people that they had to move on.  Living where we do, and walking to work, I don't see this ususally either... I am sure my workmates that travel through the city do have the opportunity to see it, though they may not notice it anymore. 

As a 20yr old trying to get on with your life, you showed a good deal of compassion.  If every single person with a home did the same, it would make a huge difference.  These people aren't in a situation to help themselves, so it is up to us who are able to put pressure on the Government to resolve these issues with a long term solution; not just get them off the streets for big occasions.

Thank you for your feedback, I really appreciate it, as it seems to be a topic that most people would prefer to sweep under the carper, or toss in the 'too hard' basket.  xox



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      toosh
March 6th | toosh
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It was awfully hard telling them to move on knowing they had nowhere else to go other than down by the river in the cold. On particularly cold nights I would take a thermos of hot chocolate just for them, I got to know a few of them well & there life stories were amazing. Why people would like to sweep all of this under the rug is beyond me - if everyone listened to the stories of just one of these people that were down on their luck & helped in whatever way they could (be it big or small) the world would be a much better place! xxoo



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toosh
March 6th | toosh
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Lui, what a fantasticly heart warming advice article! I do not venture to the city very often (and only to town once a fortnight) so I do not come across this personally any more, but when I worked in security I did see some of this. There would be homeless people sleeping in skip bins or on the back steps of businesses at night that we had to move on - I could see no harm in letting them sleep somewhere warm but the business owners paid for us to remove them - I would always carry a batch of muffins and some water with me to give them as I told them they had to find a bed somewhere else, and tell them where to go to get some help. This was not by any means a LARGE city either, just a medium sized country town that had become inundated with tourism making rental prices sky-rocket and sending people onto the streets. The town did have a wonderful community help program that gave food vouchers for Coles, but they were very short on housing. I only wish I could have done more to help in my time there, but as a 20 year old trying to find herself I moved on and built my own life. I always think about those I came across and wonder if they ever got help & made it.

Thankyou for writing this wonderful article to remind us all that we are so very fortunate & should do all we can to help those less fortunate. I can see the smile on that man's face as Jaydee handed him some "goldies" and it's just made my week!

Teshia xxoo



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      llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | llmunchkin
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Oops, I replied above; thanks so much for your feedback...It is great to hear from everyone, and to see that so many people ARE AWARE. xox




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MrsSanders
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | MrsSanders
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Excellent advice, to look at those that surround us is to see the world as it really is. I have my regulars, that get their baccy and smokes, then I have the eaters who wish for a cuppa or chocolate. I have two youngsters who will not seek aid yet,I understand why, and that is fine. When Ruth and I first approached them and got chatting, they did not want money so much as food. So on a Thursday when we do the shop they meet us and they pick up the basics from us when we leave. Bread, cold tinned meat, fresh fruit and some bottled water. It all comes to less than £10, less a night at the cinema or a video evening. 

There are those who will try to work the system, but the majority have a tale to tell, and there is little between theirs and ours except life circumstance. I worked with the homeless, and learned much from their lives and how things can go so wrong. Shirkers there are, but in reality the majority are lost to a world that does'nt see or want to. A smile costs nothing, but can evoke a feeling of worth, in a section of society who feel worthless. They could be our children, our parents our brothers or sisters, in the blink of an eye life can change and does. It is a complex issue and never black and white. Thankyou for sharing.

Luv,Winnie.xxxx.



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      llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | llmunchkin
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Why am I not surprised Winnie?  You are an extraodinary woman, and your compassion for other's is wonderful.  I think that your lovely girls will reflect that compassion and share it for future generations, and that is what it's all about.  Each cafe cappucino I give up is worth an average of $3.  Now that doesn't sound like much, but giving up 2 a week, is $312-  I could invest that in myself, and use it for something in the future, or I can indulge myself, and invest it in making someone smile for a moment.

There are already too many people from generation Y (why give a shit), running around out there, we need to re-educate them.  Humans depend on each other to be the best they can be.  When we turn our backs on a person in need, we are really letting down the whole global community, not just that person.  We are in a privileged position with our safe, comfortable homes, and our computers and plenty of food.  We can be clean, we can choose what to wear each day, and we have the luxury of boredom.



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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | cazza
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Great article on how it seems to be  a high stats in the mainland.. As a ex ward of the state,, i came in contact with many street kids and adults and its not a pretty sight.. But saying that yes i agree we shouldnt turn a blind eye. One thing that sticks in my mind is the promise that Bob Hawke made just before he was made the prime minister years ago, that he said before he was elected,, No child would live in Poverty, and we have no one living on the streets,.. Now 20 years later and the stats are as high as what they were back then,.. So yes we can keep Donating , and helping those unfortunate,, But its a about damn time the Government made it easier for everyone to live comfortably and not have to live like those on the streets... Interest rates are climbing and no Job is secure,, so what hope does our children have in todays society.,. as we can teach them to give to those that need it, and hope and pray that we never be like those that sit on them platforms or sleep under bridges...

xxx cazza

 



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      llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | llmunchkin
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Hey Cazza, coincidentally the ABC 7.30 report had a story on the homeless tonight.  Here is the link to it in case you didn't catch it, I think you would find it interesting.  Currently 100,000 people in Australia homeless and it is growing.

You are right, we can all only do a little bit as individuals (which adds up to a lot more than nothing), however interest rates and general rises in the cost of living are putting the pinch on many families. 

We need to hold the government to it's promise and ensure that they tackle this problem, and support them in our local areas as well.  It is up to all of us to do whatever we can to improve our own communities.  Could you even imagine it?  I can't, it would be so scary, and cold, and frightening.

 



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           cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | cazza
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Thanx but no thanx to the link as i have lived it..

 



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                llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | llmunchkin
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I thought you might be able to offer them feedback as to whether they are barking up the right tree, or just wasting resources on the wrong things.



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emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | emmie
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Hey Lui ,

Fantastic advice i feel sorry for homeless  people you dont see many around here though . It doesent take   much to give  a little something to somebody less foortunate than ourselves . XX



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      llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | llmunchkin
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Thanks Emz, I think not everyone agrees, however they've only voted low without any feedback, so it is hard to see their point of view.

As Arna mentioned, it is a fine line to walk, and it is easy to be taken advantage of, and I used to be very concerned about that.  However now I think everyone deserves to be treated with respect and given a chance, jjust as we would like if the shoe was on the other foot.



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