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Depression my experience!

Amerlinwinga by Amerlinwinga Talking(March 2008) (rank 123rd)

This is how i feel and understand about my depression! I believe in some time in our lives we can all feel a little depressed or little sad, may that be through lossing a loved one or even a stage in our lives where you cant think of getting out

of. There is many other reasons we can feel like this but it is to much to cover.

I believe that its one thing to suffer when things happen but another when you have to deal with it day in day out and never knowing if you are going to wake in a good state of mind or a depressed state of mind. Its the not knowing that is the hardest thing for me and my family.

Unless you have experienced it or know someone close to you that has experienced it , its hard to understand when your mood can just change from a simple thing happening or just nothing at all.

It is a medical condition and there is alot of medication out there as well. I find there is a lot of trail and error as its hard to find the right mix for certain people. one can work good on someone and another not so good so thats why it can be quite unstable for a while,  until doctors get it right.

Depression as i understand it is a chemical imbalance in the brain which may cause extreme sadness, being very unhappy with life in general and for me most of all feel very unmotivated. Depression is quite common and there was a time when it wasnt spoken about but this day and age it has become alot better but not as it should but thats just my opinion.

There is a depression that we are all aware of and thats post natal depression which usually occurs after a women has had a child. Now that im on this subject i found for myself that when i was pregnant i wasnt as depressed and after having my children doctors where suprised that i hadnt suffered from it. It actually went away for a good while. It has now come back and it did so approx 18 months after my last child. Strange to go through 3 years without it and all of a sudden dealing with the whole thing again.

Avoiding situations which may contribute to the depression. Is my aim to achieve but its really hard to do this, because you try but sometimes it just fall in your lap.

There is nothing to be ashamed about if you have depression and it doesnt make you any weaker than anybody else. I have found alot of my friends around me feel like this and thats because of there illness.

This is just my experience and just wanna add that there is so much help out there you just have to ask and there are also alot of books that you might wanna read.

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2BeautifulGirls
March 2008 | 2BeautifulGirls
Re: Depression my experience!

Good on you Tee....

I suffed a mild drepression after my grandmother passed away in 2003, my GP didn't want to put me on medication but gave me the tools to help recognise it and deal with it effectively. 

It is great to see you share your experience with it and I hope it makes you stronger to make more people aware of it.

Michelle



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janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | janicepovey
Re: Depression my experience!

I also have suffered with depression & your so right, unless  you suffer or know someone who suffers with depression, it is hard to understand.....but articles such as your's, for people to read....brings awareness & hopefully understanding.

Good one!

Cheers Janice



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      Amerlinwinga
March 2008 | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression my experience!

Thanks Janice,  I  hope this will encourage other people to reach out for support or help! I hate to think there are people still out there that are hiding behind this terrible thing , where there is so much help out there they just need to reachout.

Thanks Janice take care and thinking of you always Tee xxxxoooo



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pavementcracks70
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | pavementcracks70
Re: Depression my experience!

thanks for sharing this heartfelt piece

rue



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      Amerlinwinga
March 2008 | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression my experience!

Thanks Rue and thanks for taking the time to read it!

Hugs Tee



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mum2four
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | mum2four
Re: Depression my experience!

Thank-you for sharing your experience,I also suffered depression and still feel I have my bad days and times even after so long.People  who suffer depression are looked upon like loonies sometimes,but you never know depression strikes anybody and out of the blue.I did a anxiety and depression course when I had it ,as I also had panic attacks.There was this lady had it all ,money, great family,big yatcht anything she wanted but she was stuck down with depression and really had a hard time coping with it .All her money couldn't buy her happiness and a life without depression.

                                                                          Thanks Cham



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      Amerlinwinga
March 2008 | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression my experience!

Cham,  Well said.....  All her money couldn't buy her happiness and a life without depression. That is a big statement how many times do you hear us say only if i had money things will be better but reality is its not going to fix the in balance in our heads.

Thankyou for sharing this thats great!

Hugs Tee



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mummy2girls
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | mummy2girls
Re: Depression my experience!

great to read your experiences and it's good that you're so open about it.

lol xxxx.



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      Amerlinwinga
March 2008 | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression my experience!

Haha! I have to be otherwise i might be expalining all the time why i just bit someones head off or why im so quite (and not in the shits) and most common one for me is always telling or saying what i think without thinking how that person might feel about what i have said. lol

Hugs Tee



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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | nell18-3
Re: Depression my experience!

Great article

Depression is something i definitely didn't take seriously until I was diagnosed with it myself and I was relieved it was depression as I actually thought I had lost my mind

xxx

 



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      Amerlinwinga
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression my experience!

You are so right about thinking you are loosing your mind! But must admit it still feel like im loosing my mind some days but at least i can put this now hand in hand with my depression.

Hugs Tee 



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boredmum
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | boredmum
Re: Depression my experience!

Great article hun. Thanks for sharing your story.

Dee



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      Amerlinwinga
March 2008 | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression my experience!

Thanks Dee,

Thankyou for taking the time to read it.......................Hugs To you Dee xxxooo



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winja
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | winja
Re: Depression my experience!

terrifc advice hunni

the fact that depression is sooooo missunderstood is diffucult to say the least!

when you feel down and ppl always want an answer "why" u feel crap and u have no reason wahtsoever its hard to explain!

thanks for sharing your story and making it understood that ppl suffer in all differnt ways! the more ppl who step out of the shadows the better we will understand this horrible illness.

xxxnat



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      Amerlinwinga
March 2008 | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression my experience!

Nat,

You are Right  "the more ppl who step out of the shadows the better we will understand this horrible illness." says alot and as far as explaining how you feels sometimes you are right about that i cant explain why i feeling the way im feeling.

Thanks Hunny!!!!!!!!!!

hugs Tee



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Libby24
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | Libby24
Re: Depression my experience!

i know how you feel. i am the same. And the bad thing is even now after being diagnosed with PND 6 years ago i still get made to feel ashamed and told to get over it.

I have learned that i need a support group which i have put in place with my hubby as my main support and a few friends and family. family mainly for my kids.

great article.

Luv Liz



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      Amerlinwinga
March 2008 | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression my experience!

hi Liz, 

Our support groups are the most important part of our therepy i personally think anyway bec with out them we would most likely be alone bec most cant handle it and its easier to leave. People that understand and support are out heros!

Hugs Tee

P.S I think if someone now told me to get over it i would actually go over the edge and go off haha

 



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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | Kellzacar
Re: Depression my experience!

Hi honey,

I have suffered from depression for the better part of 20 years . . In the beginning I felt ashamed and embarrassed but I quickly learnt that it is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about . .

Well done on a Great article . .

Cheers Kellz



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      Amerlinwinga
March 2008 | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression my experience!

Kellz im glad you dont feel ashamed bec if there is more people that come out and tell someone more the will have a support base. And most of us need that to get through the tough times.

Hugs Tee



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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | cazza
Re: Depression my experience!

Great Advice and well done on not being ashamed, as you say there isnt nothing to be ashamed about...

xxxx cazza



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      Amerlinwinga
March 2008 | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression my experience!

Thanks Cazza! Yep there is nothing to be ashamed of! Its better to let people knoe rather  than snapping at them wen you are on bad day lol!

Hugs Tee



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