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Fatherhood - 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

Ravenheart by Ravenheart Talking(March 10th) (rank 187th)

Breastfeeding can be a very time consuming and tiring activity for your partner and she needs all the support you can give her so that she has the strength to do it for as long as possible.

This will benefit both your baby and your partner for many reasons, and these 4 simple things will make it so much easier.

1.       Breastfeeding mum’s need plenty of fluids so by simply offering to get her a drink when you see her breastfeeding will make her feel loved, cared for and refreshed. As she can’t walk around while breastfeeding she can’t get a drink her self but she will also probably not want to ask you for one every time for fear of becoming a “nag” or bossy. A simple cool glass of water can make all the difference!

2.       As well as needing plenty of water to drink mums that breast feed need to eat regular healthy meals. Helping out with the cooking or making lunches / breakfast when you can will make things hat little bit easier for your partner to sit and relax as she is breastfeeding.

3.       Help our with the household chores and caring for other kids in the house, because breastfeeding can be so restricting to your partner (sitting in one spot feeding for sometime up to an hour) simple things like sweeping or washing dishes become much harder to do, so help out when you see something that needs doing.  And as for other children, it’s going to be up to you to be their primary carer at least for the first few weeks because a newborn bub needs 24 / 7 care.

4.       Last but not least, just be there for her. Be her rock to lean on when she is down or feeling overwhelmed, be supportive, encourage her and tell her when she is doing a good job. Mum’s tend to think we are never quiet doing a good as job as we could be. We just need that little bit of support and encouragement to help us establish our breastfeeds.

I hope this help the new and old fathers support their partner to breastfeed for as longs as she can.

 Written by Angela Parker

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PHOENIX
5.00 (Excellent) | March 15th | PHOENIX
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

Excellent advice

Research has shown that mothers who are supported by their parnters to breastfeed are 10 times more likely to succeed. Another thing I found helps is getting the dads to read up on breastfeeding (just a little about the benefits and the common problems) because when you have a highly emotional mum who thinks she's tried everything the dad may remember something that could help.



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      Ravenheart
April 25th | Ravenheart
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

Thanks, yes it makes a lifetime of difference if u have the support you need.

xoxox



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MrsSanders
5.00 (Excellent) | March 13th | MrsSanders
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

Excellent advice, thankyou for sharing. I think advice for Dads is equally important, after all they are Parents too. LOL.

Thankyou for sharing your tips. Luv,Winnie.xxxx



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      Ravenheart
5.00 (Excellent) | March 13th | Ravenheart
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

thank you winnie, yep dad are parents and should help out as much as they can

xoxox



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Amerlinwinga
5.00 (Excellent) | March 12th | Amerlinwinga
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

Great advise! Well done..... I wasnt a breastfeeding mum but i can see how these things would of supported breastfeeding  mums. Thanks for sharing Hugs Tee



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      Ravenheart
5.00 (Excellent) | March 13th | Ravenheart
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

thanks tee, i would write one on bottle feeding support but i dont know much about it

xoxox



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alishas-mummy
5.00 (Excellent) | March 11th | alishas-mummy
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

excellent advice !

i think this article was very accurate, because these were exactly the things that my partner did to help me !

good work ! keep it up ! xox



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      Ravenheart
5.00 (Excellent) | March 13th | Ravenheart
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

Thank you, xoxox



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avanliamsmum
5.00 (Excellent) | March 11th | avanliamsmum
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

Helpful husbands are a necessity when you have a newborn! Great advice for men while the mum is breastfeeding.



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      Ravenheart
5.00 (Excellent) | March 13th | Ravenheart
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

thank you, i hope sum dad read this and help out a bit more lol

xoxox



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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | March 11th | cazza
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

Great advice  and i was so Blessed with a supportive Hubby when i breast fed my 3 children, sure does help heaps...

xxxx cazza



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      Ravenheart
5.00 (Excellent) | March 13th | Ravenheart
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

thanks cazza, yes u are very lucky. hold on to him

xoxox



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janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | March 10th | janicepovey
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

Thanks for sharing this,,,,,some great suggestions set out in your 4 tips, to help Mum's.....and should many dad's out there.

I agree with kellzacar & ravenheart.

Would be good if you could do a follow up article, on 4 tips of how to include dad's in the everyday events of bub's life.

Janice



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      Ravenheart
5.00 (Excellent) | March 13th | Ravenheart
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

thank you for taking the time to read and comment janice, xoxoxoxox



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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | March 10th | Kellzacar
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

Hi there,

Thanks for sharing these great tips and I am sure that many mums and dads will find it very useful . . . One of the things that also hear said a lot by dad's is that they often feel left out so much themselves . . Do you have any tips for the dads to help them feel more included.

One of the things that I suggest to dads is they too can help with breastfeeding by helping put bub in position and helping with attachment and also another way is too sit with mum and bub talking to bub softly as bub feeds . .  any other tips would be great . .

Cheers Kellz



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      Ravenheart
5.00 (Excellent) | March 10th | Ravenheart
Re: 4 Simple tips for dad's to support their partner breastfeed.

Thanks Kellz, and your right, dads often get depressed and fell very left out. like they arnt needed by the baby. I suggest making some things dads responsibilty like for eg,

dad baths the baby, thats his job. or mum can express milk for dad to feed in a bottle even if its just one a day maybe after the bath, that would give the dad a good hour or so with the bub and give mum a well needed break to.

xoxox



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