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GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

Kellzacar by Kellzacar Talking Back(April 13th) (rank 500+)

Hi there - I vividly remember as a child waking up in middle of the night screaming out in agony because of pains in my legs. I felt unable to walk afterwards, as my legs would be so very sore. I remember these pains as if they were yesterday. Seems strange to remember them so vividly but they were a pain that haunted me for most of my childhood.

So far my children have been lucky and seem to avoided these horrible pains and I for one am glad that they haven’t suffered as I did. I wish I could say the same for other family member – sadly their children have not been so lucky. My eldest niece suffered from these pains and would often spend many sleepless nights with either me or her mum holding her.

Did you know that growing pains are considered to be very common? It is thought that up to 1 in 5 children will suffer from growing pains at least once during their primary school years, that is a large number of kids and it really makes me wonder why.

Do we know what causes growing pains?

Well this is something that continues to be debated throughout the medical community. Growing pains are thought to be related to high bouts of exercise but sadly this does not always seem the case. In most cases there seems to have been no one particular thing that has stood out. Then in some children growing pains have been associated with abdominal pain and headaches; this may suggest that growing pains may be part of the way in which a child may responds to stress.

Some other causes are thought to be:

  • Muscular tiredness – It has been thought that by doing more physical activity than usual may cause your child's muscles to become tired BUT many have thought that this is untrue as most children do lots of exercise of different days and only some of these children suffer from these pains.
  • Poor posture – As we know quite often many of our children have poor posture. Poor posture is the way our children stand, of and walk. It has been found by many that poor posture puts an extra strain on our children's muscles and also in turn their bones. There are also some children whose feet roll in (with very flat feet) . If your child has this problem then  may have more trouble with growing pains than other children
  • Emotional upset – Another thought is that stress or unhappiness may trigger some of these aches and pains. However this is not always the case as many  of  the children who suffer from growing pains do not seem to be stressed or unhapy

What are the symptoms of growing pains?

Most children will often complain of a burning sensation that runs up and down their legs, mostly in the muscles of the thighs, calves, feet and sometimes in their joints. The pains can also occur in other parts of the body such as their stomach and arms although this seems to be unusual.

The pain seems to come mostly at night and usually wakes the child from a very deep sleep. This often leaves the child feeling frightened and miserable. Growing pains are also common in the daytime although rarely severe enough to interfere with daytime activities.

In most children the pain is irregular and unpredictable as it often tends to come and go. A child with growing pains is usually quite happy to allow you to massage the painful areas. Massaging the area helps us as parents to distinguish between growing pains and a more serious condition, as children with leg pains due to a more serious cause will usually avoid letting anyone touch the area.

Are there any tests to determine growing pains and can they be prevented?

Sadly at this stage there is no test to determine growing pains although your doctor will occasionally order an x-ray or blood test to rule out anything more serious such as a fracture or inflammation and Restless Leg Syndrome.

Sadly there is nothing you can do as a parent to prevent growing pains and most parents find this the most distressing part of all.

Please remember that it is always best to seek medical advice if:

  1. Your child’s pain is persistent.
  2. Your child’s pain is still present in the morning.
  3. Your child’s pain is severe enough to interfere with your child's normal activities.
  4. Your child’s pain is associated with an injury
  5. Your child’s pain is accompanied by other signs or symptoms, such as swelling, redness, tenderness, fever, limping, rash, loss of appetite, weakness or fatigue

Is there anything you can do to help your child when they are in pain from growing pains?

Most doctors have been known to say that there is no specific treatment to help with growing pains. However when I was child my grandmother would do a few things that did sometimes help.. Some of these things are:

  • Gently massaging the affected area
  • Placing a nice warm heat pack on the affected area
  • Alternating Heat and cold packs
  • Elevating the affected area (i.e. Leg)
  • Stretch out your child's legs like you would for a cramp
  • Reassuring your child that it will not last forever in a calm voice

Sometimes in severe cases a doctor may prescribe a mild analgesic, although this is not a recommended course of action.

I hope that this will help some mums and dads out there. Growing pains can be frightening for first time parents as well as seasoned ones. Sadly some kids tend to get them worse than others. As an adult I do still suffer from some occasional cramping in my legs, whether or not this is related to the severe growing pains that I had as a child in not known.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and I look forward to your feedback……….

Cheers Kellz xoxoxo

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Libby24
5.00 (Excellent) | April 23rd | Libby24
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

sadly  alexx gets these really bad every 6 months. he grows up to 10cm in a week or so. we have to sedate him and keep him off school as he cannot walk and is crying most of the time. i got told by a doc that he is a wimp and to get over it as he found no reason to be crying or in pain. We allow him to pull his matteres in our room and sleep in with us and chris gets up and massages his legs when he is in distress. i will add this has happend since he was a few months old. he also gets really bad cramps too. ( my poor baby)

great advice kelz



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      Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | April 23rd | Kellzacar
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

Hi Liz,

Some doctors can be so very cruel can't they . .I am so sorry that poor Alex has to suffer, perhaps a warm bath and a massage may work wonders with him . . I hope he doesn't have to suffer much longer . .

Cheers Kellz



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rissa1112
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | rissa1112
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

thankyou i have been searching every where on more advice and tips on pains and i even minti mailed others who had the same problem thankyou

larissaxx



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      Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | April 16th | Kellzacar
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

Hi Larissa,

Thanks so much for your feedback and I hope that you got what you needed . . .

Cheers Kellz



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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | Ngairi
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

My eldest has these occassionally in his knees. It is very painful for him. The youngest has them as well. Massage works well.



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      Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | April 16th | Kellzacar
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

Hi Leisa,

Thanks for your feedback . . . I hope your son doesn't suffer with these for too much longer and I am glad that massage helps  . .

Cheers Kellz



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vlooi
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | vlooi
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

Very interseting, Kellz.. I never suffered, thank goodness, but I do suffer from restless leg now!  2 of my children had abdominal migraines - in fact, my daughter is still suffering from it.  Seems strange that they complain of "tummy ache" but in reality it is migraine!  Well written.



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      Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | Kellzacar
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

Hi honey,

Thanks so much for your feedback. Abdominal migraines really are so very cruel . . I suffered these as a child so your daughter has my sympathy. As for your RSL I hope that you are able to get some relief as I see first hand how cruel it is . .

Cheers Kellz



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           vlooi
5.00 (Excellent) | April 16th | vlooi
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

Thanks,  It is my hubby I feel sorry for, because he is the one that gets kicked at night!!  Occasionally it has kept me awake, but on the whole, once I am asleep it only bothers him and not me!



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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | nell18-3
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

I remember this when it was me suffering and now I'm watching the kids go throught the same

To think when I was young I was told to stop moaning its just growing pains !!!! LOL

xxx

 



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      Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | Kellzacar
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

Hi honey,

Thanks for your feedback . . I too find it amazing when we look back on our childhood and see how so many different things were often just ignored and growing pains were one of them . . sometimes I think some doctors really just don't seem to care . .

Cheers Kellz



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      robalman
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | robalman
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

I can only imagine what the pain is like as I didnt have the pain as such but I can imagine what it was like for all those kids that were just told to put up with it.

There has been many a time throughout the night and early hours that I have woken to comfort my son. He has forgotten the time I have invested in his life but I never will.

Robert



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robalman
5.00 (Excellent) | April 14th | robalman
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

My young bloke went through this as he was growing up and we too asked the quack if there was anything that could be done. The answer he gave we found unsatisfactory and treated the same as per your advice. It didn't get rid of the problem but it made life more livable for him.

I was one of the lucky ones that didn't experience that sort of pain as I grew up.

Otherwise, I am sure many parents will find great relief from your writings. "Yet Again"

Well done.

Robert



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      Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | Kellzacar
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

Hi Rob,

Thanks so much for your feedback . . I think its really sad when doctors dismiss growing pains as just a minor ailment as many children suffer severe pain from them . . Good on you for finding things that helped.

Cheers Kellz



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Ravenheart
4.57 (Excellent) | April 13th | Ravenheart
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

i get restless legs it isnt nice. great advice.

xoxox



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      Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | Kellzacar
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

Hi matey,

My hubby suffers from RLS and I see him suffer and I really feel sorry for him . . sometimes he has to go for a walk as its the only way he can get some relief . . Sometimes at 2am he will go for a walk around the block . .

Thanks for your feedback and I hope you don't suffer to badly

Cheers Kellz



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mumof2b
5.00 (Excellent) | April 13th | mumof2b
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

I suffered terribly from growing pains as a child and still do to this day, although not nearly as bad but still as often. Mine are cause from either coldness or muscle tiredness. My Mum would sit on my bed of a night and rub my legs while I'm crying out in pain, now hubby does it, although like I said the pain isn't quite as bad. 

Sadly both my boys have shown signs of it also. Zak was about 3 when he got his first growing pain but hasn't has any since, thank God....and I truely mean that. Luke however has had a few just recently. It's horrible to see your child in that much pain, especially so young.

I recommend to anyone suffering them to go and see a naturopath.....I did in my Teens and it was the best thing I ever did.

Amanda xxx



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      Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | Kellzacar
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

Hi Amanda,

Thanks for your feedback . . . Growing pains are so cruel . . .  And thanks for the idea of going to see a Naturopath as I wouldn't have thought of it . ..

cheers Kellz



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      robalman
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | robalman
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

There must be something in this Naturopath stuff because someone recommended that I should do the same for my RRV.

Robert



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monyq83
4.81 (Excellent) | April 13th | monyq83
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

Wow Ive never seen something written on growing pains that is so in-depth. Well done :)



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      Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | Kellzacar
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

Hi Mony,

Thanks so much for your feedback . . Growing pains are really cruel and sadly there isn't a lot we can do BUT I believe the more we know about them then the more we may be able to do . .

Cheers Kellz



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cazza
4.80 (Excellent) | April 13th | cazza
Re: GROWING PAINS – How well do you understand them?

Great advice.and i remember those days with brodie, and he couldnt even walk and went back to crawling after being walking for 12 months,, It sure is scary, and makes you feel helpless.. But with your info here, sure is going to help parents on here, and i wish i had this info when brodie was little... thank God the girls never got them...

xx cazza



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