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Keeping Children Safe on the Internet

shazD by shazD Walking(April 2008) (rank 500+)

Keeping our children safe is ultimately the parents responsibility. If we take our kids to the park, It is up to us to make sure they are safe. If we let them sleep over, It is still up to us to ensure it is a safe environment. Anywhere we take

our children, we constantly lookout for and ensure their safety.

Then why is it different when we enter the online arena.

If you were at the park and saw a complete stranger talking to your 13 year old girl, You would be going over there and finding out what they wanted with your little girl, Many people would be incensed to catch a 37yearold man befriending their 12 year old boy. Why then is it an invasion of privacy to look at your Childs internet history, chat logs and text messages.

There are many programs that promote safe internet viewing, But the main way to ensure your child's safety in implementing ground rules first and foremost at the start of the child's internet experience.

Maintaining control over your child, especially over the internet, is not only safe but I believe is mandatory for good parenting.

I know some people will cry control freak or parental smothering, but If it protects the child, they will appreciate it when they are older.

The biggest problem is that many children know more about computers than their parents.

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cazza
May 2008 | cazza
Re: Keeping Children Safe on the Internet

great info, and i should pass this onto my sil as she is so naive when it comes to her daughter on the net.. and they both believe that when someone says that they are who they are, they believe them..

I have 3 children, and they are not to chat online to no one., unless they are family

xx cazza



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August88
April 2008 | August88
Re: Keeping Children Safe on the Internet

The difference between them talking in person and on the internet is that they are not sitting right there but the main thing that we need to teach our kids I think is to not give out too much information so that they can find them, eg school, sporting clubs, areas they visit and this is the hard one. Plus they should never ever set up to meet someone. SCARY but it happens, they groom online too! We can't always control it. We need to talk talk talk to them. So hard with teenagers that will barely grunt an answer to your question. Thanks for bringing it up but the only way is to not have them access the internet I think. Unless we can be standing over there shoulder I guess.



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electrifying02
April 2008 | electrifying02
Re: Keeping Children Safe on the Internet

my daughter is only three and she is always talking to strangers i have to break it out of her ,you never know these days



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      shazD
April 2008 | shazD
Re: Keeping Children Safe on the Internet

It is hard to tell little ones the diffrence between being polite and friendly and the dangers of strangers. I think we all whish we could go  back to the days of knowing everyone in the street and being able to safely go down town at night.



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