I heard that They taught me that in my high school. I had to watch a two hour video about the importance of telling someone if you got raped.

thanks for sharing, it motivates a person to become responsible and response-able (Seven Habits of Highly Effective people by Stephen R Covey).

 And I agree with you, we human got great gift to control how we feel and act.

ITS THE SAME HERE HUN BUT I THINK WHEN SOMETHIN LIKE THAT HAPPENS 2 PEOPLE U CAN NEVA FORGET IT OR REALLY GET OVER IT IV NEVA FREAK OUT DORIN SEX BUT I CANT WATCH ANYTHIN WITH THAT KIND OF CONTENT BUT AS U SAY THE BEST THING IS JUST TO TELL URSELF U NEVA DONE ANYTHIN WRONG AND THEY CANT HEART U NOW IV BEEN MARRIED 3 YEARS NEARLY MY HUBBY HAS KNOWN SINCE THE BEGINNIN AS I WANTED HIM 2 LOVE ME NO MATTER WHAT AND WHEN U HAVE FOUND THAT PERSON WHO DOES LOVE U FOR U IT MAKE IT ALL BETTER AND MAKES U THINK NOT ALL THE MEN OUT THERE R BEASTS ANYWAYS I HOPE U R COPIN OK LUV MAGGIE XXXXXXX

your story relates to mine. I would rather not go further in details but yup. I overcame it saying it wasnt my fault but it still tends to haunt me

hmmm thats so sad what happened to you and I am glad you shared your story I know things in this world are uncertain and hope kiara never goes through what you went through, (kia kaha) stand strong you seem to be a very strong woman and I applaud you for carrying on with your life.

its a good one. i never had such experience but a good adivce for every one coz future is uncertain

yes well said, thanks for sharing. im sure this advice has help many people as well

 Well said.

Great advice. Thanks for sharing.

thank you for sharing. What you've said is right on, and right on the money. All the best, and many great nights of healing to you.

excellent article/advice i have been through the same thing 3 times and know how hard it is to say something to anyone so i admire your courage to be able  to get throught something like this and write about it to help others thank you for sharing

Well done for having the courage to share this and help others.

Peace
EF.x

It's great that you had the courage to share this.  I'm sure it will be lots of help to others. 

Great article Liz

I admire you for sharing this

I have strong views on this myself after being badly hurt in my marriage, but a bit too raw for me to dwell on here in the open, just wanted to say thanks for writing this

xxx

thanks for sharing this,

xoxoxox

Great article Libby. Yeah, your partner does have to have some or alot of understanding of what you're going through etc, adn it's not nice to be raped is it?