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For new mums (and dads!)-- Laundry

JadieLady by JadieLady Young Parent(August 2006) (rank 19th)

When the people stop coming and doing your housework and stealing your newborn, it can be hard for some mum's to find a routine that works for them. Mine for the most part is do what my little monster tells me too. for now. :) I found the hardest thing

to get done is hanging out the washing. I can't leave my baby inside where he can get into all kinds off horror (pull tv off cabinet.... licking heaters is a favourite..) and i cant let him loose in the backyard as its full of ponds rocks and creepy crawlies.  i found a porta-cot solved all my hassles.  a foldable portacot can be assembled andfpacked up in a matter of second, gives bub somewhere safe to play and chew on stuff where he can still see you, and you know he can't get into anything he shouldnt! It also provides bubs with sunlight. sunlight is important as it is the only natural way for the body to produce vitamin D. Vitamin D is produced in the liver and kidneys after the skin has absorbed sunlight. it is reccomended that babies get a minimum of 5 minutes of sunlight in winter without sunscreen, and 10 in summer. this times are not long enough to cause sunburn thankfully. and most of all the kids love it :)

Another thing- don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it. there is nothing worse than spending the afternoon cleanin and then bursting into tears as your partner comes home and leaves a trail of clothing throughout the house. Get your partner to help with some little things, it will ease the pressure you will undoubtedly feel here and there. but most of all remember a good mum has dirty floors and happy children :)

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lexiw
September 2007 | lexiw
Re: For new mums (and dads!)-- Laundry

Great idea I used the same thing at my MIL's to let my little man be outside with out the dogs trying to lick him to death PMSL

 Lexi xxx



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Lozmac
January 2007 | Lozmac
Fussy bub
I have a baby who does not like being put down at all, i take him outside with me in his pram and he just screams from the time we get out there until i pick him up. its very fatiguing and makes the job (amoung others) harder and longer. ive asked for help only to be abused for doing so. now im lost, could anyone else suggest what i could do to make my household work easier to get through?


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Jessgore
November 2006 | Jessgore
Good advice...
Porter cots are great.. I remember when I used to be so tired I'd pop him in the porter cot while I took a cat nap on the sofa.. And not just for that they are so easy to pack up in the car for when you go to other peoples places and it is time for a nap... Great things they are


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Frontier
November 2006 | Frontier
Good advice
You have found a sensible approach for bubs and you.


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shoolacy
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | shoolacy
Help

Oh yes im very afraid to ask for help Hear is the chain .... If your asking for help your not coping....If your not coping with all that needs doing something is being left out.... If something is being left out the child must be lacking something.... If the child is lacking something your not been a good parent and next thing you know bub has been taken new mums especially need help esp if just out of hospital but sadly in this circle people talk "yeah I was at ... helping her with some house work" yup seems harmless but the one wrong person in my family circle will be more than happy to pounce on it :( She has one adoptive son and will be getting another next year but unfortunatly due to age cant adopt babies youngest age for her is like 5 and she cant have her own I understand it may be hard but she really needs to love her adoptive child and soon to be children as if they really are her own for her own happiness as well as theirs. I really do believe asking for help is becoming more difficult in this age esp for other mothers in a situation similar to mine



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gr8est
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | gr8est
Jaundice
yup bub needs fresh air some sun to prevent jaundice plus this way you will always have an ear out or an eye on them!


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TheMentorMom
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | TheMentorMom
Laundry
I certainly agree that you have to be able to ask for help.


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      JadieLady
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | JadieLady
Laundry
Seven months on and i still do  but shhh... don't tell the super mums out there!


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           Frontier
November 2006 | Frontier
Laundry
I'll give you another vote here for admitting you ask for help... but I will keep it our secret .


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