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Bath Aid which I also used when changing nappies and dressing my daughter
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My poor neice after a 'reflux' episode
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Surviving Reflux: My facts (PART 1)

Kellzacar by Kellzacar Talking Back(May 6th) (rank 500+)

 Hi there . . .  As many of you know I am the mum of a reflux bub although these days she is considered a toddler as she is 24 months old. For so many parents the word “reflux” simply means a baby who spews a bit after

feeds BUT for others like me it means hours and hours of screaming, violent vomiting and listening to their baby gulping down liquids over and over.

It means knowing the difference between ‘wet’ and ‘dry’ burps and knowing what to do if our babies/toddlers and children aspirate. It means taking serious first-aid courses and ensuring that EVERY person that has regular contact knows how to do infant CPR.

For some mums “reflux” means making radical changes in their lives. It means routines that CAN’T be broken, spew clothes in every room in the house and so much more.

For some mums “reflux” means hours upon hours of doctor’s appointments and a list of medications. It means experimenting constantly with things you can do to help your baby/child. It means not letting any one who is ill even with a minor cold near their baby as anything can trigger the reflux and make things a whole lot worse.

For some mums the word “reflux” also has another name and that name is one that sadly most people have never heard of. This name is familiar to me and my family and friends and it should also be familiar to you. It is Gastroesophageal Reflux Disease.

Here are some tips that I have learnt to help me cope with Gastroesophageal Reflux. I hope these tips can help other mums out there that live with this:

Before Solids and Mobility  - flat is bad

  • Where at all possible keep baby elevated during feeding. I found it best to keep my daughter in a sitting up position against me.  (hint – I used angled bottles which were great. Sadly the only place I could buy these was on eBay, but they were well worth it see attached pic)
  • After every feed keep baby in this same position for at least 20-25 minutes.
  • When bathing use a bath aid (see attached pic) so that your baby is still elevated. I even had a spare, which I used when drying my daughter.
  • When changing my daughter’s nappy I also used the bath aid so that she was not lying flat.

Floor time is very important in your child’s development but with Gastroesophageal Reflux most babies don’t like it and cry in pain. So to combat this we had play and floor time on my bed. It was soft enough so that it didn’t hurt my daughters sensitive belly yet firm enough for her to still learn the basics like rolling over.. .Etc . . . .  My daughter made all her milestones well ahead of time.

I am doing this series in a group of three so that it gives parents etc time to digest all the info ..  Part 2 will follow shortly. Thanks for taking time to dread this and I look forward to your feedback . . .

Cheers Kellz xoxoxo

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superpo
May 6th | superpo
Re: Surviving Reflux: My facts (PART 1)

Thanx for sharing. I'm sure there are other parents out there who deal with this (I have been lucky enough not to.) and this would be very helpful for them. I don't think a lot of people are aware that reflux can be this bad. I certainly wasn't.



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      Kellzacar
May 6th | Kellzacar
Re: Surviving Reflux: My facts (PART 1)

Hi there,

Thanks for your feedback . .  I hope that my articles do help other parents out there going through this as you are right, there are many that don't realise the extent that reflux can get too . .

Cheers Kellz



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           superpo
May 6th | superpo
Re: Surviving Reflux: My facts (PART 1)

Well, I am certainly interested in finding out what you have to share in parts 2 and 3.

It must be horrible for you, too, because this is painful for Sumara. It must be awful for her. Don't you wish you could just go through it for her? The worst I've ever had to go through was some horrible shots of antibiotics when my daughter had a bad case of strep,  and I wanted to take them for her. But that was a one time thing! This is something you and Sumara have been dealing with since birth! I can't imagine...

Thanx again for the article. I appreciate that it was well-written as well!



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cazza
May 6th | cazza
Re: Surviving Reflux: My facts (PART 1)

great advice, and my caitlyn had reflux but not as bad as miss sumara, as i have had heard her fire engine screams, and found it heart wretching...

xx cazza



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      Kellzacar
May 6th | Kellzacar
Re: Surviving Reflux: My facts (PART 1)

Hi Cazza,

Thanks for your feedback . .  I know how hard it was for you to listen to Sumara's screams of pain but you kept it together and I was so proud of you as you know we try hard to keep life as normal as possible for her . .

Cheer Kellz



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Ravenheart
May 6th | Ravenheart
Re: Surviving Reflux: My facts (PART 1)

great advice kellz.. im glad my kids didnt have reflux. it must be frustrating T TIMES

xoxoxox



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      Kellzacar
May 6th | Kellzacar
Re: Surviving Reflux: My facts (PART 1)

Hi honey,

Thanks for your feedback . . Living with reflux can certainly be frustrating BUT my heart goes out to Sumara and all children that have to suffer through this . .

Cheers Kellz



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Libby24
May 6th | Libby24
Re: Surviving Reflux: My facts (PART 1)

wonderful advice kelz. a, so happy that Sumara is getting so big and well.



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      Kellzacar
May 6th | Kellzacar
Re: Surviving Reflux: My facts (PART 1)

Hi Liz,

Thanks for your feedback . . We are winning the battle with Sumara's weight etc now all we have to do is conquer the pain so she can sleep without being too uncomfortable . .

Cheers Kellz



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