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listen to what your body is telling you

anniebabe by anniebabe Talking(May 8th) (rank 82nd)

today i was touched by so many people both on minti and off minti

my eyes feel so heavy from all the tears that have spilt over.

i went to the toilet and cried and tried to pull myself together because i work with the public and i had to put on a brave face

after speaking to a stranger that was work related he agreed to participate in my work project as long as i did him a favour

without thinking i agreed and he thrust a pamphlet into my hand and proceeded to tell me his story

he found his soul mate after so many years apart he was her first boyfriend years ago at school. they met up at a school reunion only for her to die 6 years later

i have always told people that doctors are not gods  and that you must listen and be in tune to your own body

this could help save your life just because a test comes back clear it doesnt mean that it is clear.

all this means is that nothing showed up on the test this time around

it is very important that if symptoms persist you need to seek medical advice

change doctors if you have to .

i for one was in my early thirties when i was literally on the floor clutching my tummy in agony. i was nauseous and i couldnt even walk over to hubby who had just come home from work and was in the toilet.

i pulled the phone down from the bench to ring the doctor. he gave me an injection to stop the pain and a referral to the specialist

i had an endoscopy that is a camera placed down mty mouth right down to my stomach. the doctor gave it the all clear. but when i was still having trouble months later an aquaintence told me that it sounded like an ulcer. she told me to have another endoscopy and ask for a biopsy

thats when they take sample of the tissue and test it. well the specialist argued that i was too young to have ulcers and that  i had already had 2 or 3 endoscopys and there was no reason to have another.

after my insistence the specialist performed another endoscopy but this time took a biopsy he found that i had heli cbater polory which is a stomach bateria and one in ten people have it which is quite common yet not many people are aware of it. if it goes untreated it can lead to stomach cancer. it doesnt mean that you can get stomach cancer but the chances are increased

he also found that i had leasons  which means that they could lead to ulcers. you see i at the time was on various medication and these were some of the side affects

today i was touched by this gentleman. he not only gave me the paphlet "growing awareness of ovarian cancer" by the national ovarian cancer network but he gave me a photocopy of the newspare article about his beloved

there is a picture of him and his 3 chidren which his beautiful wife embraced them with all the love she could offer as a step mother.

he wants women to be more aware of ovarian cancer as this is a silent killer and there is no early detection. there are symptoms of bloating  tiredness and other symptoms that unfortunately are dismissed  as food related and other problems. one way to be tested is to order a blood test called a ca125

 a pap smear  doesnt rule out ovarian cancer a pap smear is only helpful in ruling out cervical cancer

its very important for women to know this. ideally it is much better for a woman to see a female doctor only because a male doctor cannot know what its like to menstrate. so how can they be as sympathetic.

if there is any suggestion of ovarian cncer either through pelvic examination or ca125test its imperative that you seek referral to a gynaecololgical oncologist as soon as possible

about 75% of women diagnosed will be at the advanced stage where the cancer has spread and is very difficult to treat successfully

when ovarian cancer is diagnosed at an early stage the outlook is exceedingly good with as many as 90% of patients being cured unfortunately only abot 25% of diagnosis are at early stage

the incidence of ovarian cancer increases with age most cases occuring after the age of 45

however it can affect women of all ages. with the youngest reported case in australia being an 8 year old girl 

most of this article was written from my source but satistics and symptoms were taken from source  pamphlet" growing awareness of ovarian cancer website for everones info is www.ovca.org.au

cheers annie

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janicepovey
July 9th | janicepovey
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

 An excellent article.... very well written.....more awareness and  more people talking  about this silent killer, will undoubtly save more lives.  Isn't it a shame that the simple blood test ca125, isn't  done when we ladies have our pap smears done. I didn't know about this test, thankyou for the information.

Cheers Janice



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      anniebabe
July 9th | anniebabe
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

i myself only found out what the blood test was called back in may. i knew you could get tested but i didnt know what to ask for at the doctors . if you dont present with symptoms doctors then think your a hypochondriac

but at the end of the day you have your own life in your hands so it doesnt matter what the doctor thinks of you or anyone else for that matter. that is why its important to "listen to what your body is telling you"  it could save your life

cheers annie



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llmunchkin
July 9th | llmunchkin
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

Annie, what a great advice article about a very serious illness... There is quite a bit of discussion about it in the media now, I wonder if your colleague is in part responsible for that.  How sad his loss is, but how wonderful that he is carrying on building awareness as a legacy to his soul mate.  Thanks so much for sharing their story, made even more poignant by your own personal input.



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      anniebabe
July 9th | anniebabe
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

he is one of many on this campagain. he actaully wasnt my work collegue he was a stranger. i was on a work assignment and had to stop and talk to him in another unrelated matter that i was on contract for my work.

thats when he said he wil give feedback on this other unrelated work matter if i  did the favour and read his newspaper article as well as the  cancer brochure.

what touched me so much was that  a man was geniunely concerned about womens health issues

annie



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mcm
May 12th | mcm
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

So very true.

Trust your instincts. Its amazing that as women, we can have our body know what to do when in labour even if we have not done it   before. And we have instincts in how to protect and to nurture.

We know more than doctors about our own bodies. It is true.



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      anniebabe
May 13th | anniebabe
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

remember  that a lot of women gave birth without doctors being present thats how "midwives" came into the picture.

especially in villages where doctors were too far away they relied on "one of the older ladies' to deliver the babies

yeah there were a few problems but like you said when the time comes to give birth its our bodies that know what to do.

your right on when you say our instincts help us nnurture and protect

cheers annie



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jenaya04
May 8th | jenaya04
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

Hi

This is really good advice and one we should all be "pricking" our ears up to and taking notice of. Ovarian cancer is so scary, as you said, many women have no idea until its too late. Hopefully with time, they will find a better way of diagnosing. Again, good advice.

Joxx



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      anniebabe
May 12th | anniebabe
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

jo i do so hope they find a way to detect it earlier or even find a cure for all cancers. more so for our new generation. its sad that so much effort goes into research and yet foods are being modified. the atmosphere is being poisoned and the list goes on

i dont want to sound pessimistic but really we need a full shake up in the way society is heading. its great to still see dedication in some people. it almost restores our hopes and beliefs in mankind.

 



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AZMom
May 8th | AZMom
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

Great article to raise awareness.

I do disagree on one point you make, I don't feel the gender of a Dr really matters too much.  I had a female OBGYN and she was the worst Dr I have ever seen. I now have a male OBGYN and he is wonderful!,  I do not doubt his knowledge or ability just because he is anatomicaly different.

Lorna



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      anniebabe
May 8th | anniebabe
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

yes i agree with you that there are exceptions to the rule and it goes both ways.

some male doctors do have the insight., and valid point even moreso than some female doctors.

cheers annie



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cazza
May 8th | cazza
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

Hi there,,

Great article and advice...

xx cazza



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      anniebabe
May 11th | anniebabe
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

thanks cazza

when you see someones pain at "losing a loved one" then it is very touching.

i have been affected by this. its a feeling that is so hard to explain

annie



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Kellzacar
May 8th | Kellzacar
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

Hi there,

Thanks for sharing with us . .  This is really great advice and I hope that many members read and take this in . .

Cheers Kellz



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      anniebabe
May 10th | anniebabe
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

yeah kellz its like prostrate cancer men are starting to become more aware and less embarrased in being tested.men are also becoming more aware of their bodies and that is so important

cheers annie



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Libby24
May 8th | Libby24
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

great advice.

 



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      anniebabe
May 9th | anniebabe
Re: listen to what your body is telling you

thanks libby i was so touched yesterday by all this so even though i was aware of ovarian cancer and even though i tend to listen to my body sometimes i do put off having "tests done" because im busy working or "i will get around to it" and before i know it months go by.

cheers annie



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