I am writing on experience here.

i am going to write a few article on this this one is about tearing after having a child.

After I had my son who was my first child I tore really badly. sadly this wound became a cyst and my doctors kept

putting me on anti biotics but nothing helped (till i had my daughter and it burst while giving birth) So basicly s e x hurt really badly. it hurt to a piont i was crying in pain. If you have a tear after your child is born do make sure it has healed well before continuing your s e x life.

This is how we over came our problem.

Firstly we tryed different poistions. i wont go into detail as children can read this. but on the net if you look up the karma sutra book if gives you idea of poistions. also the group here spice up your life is a good place too.

Lubricant. get a good one. I prefer the "wet stuff aloe vera" as i am hp sensistive. they are best bought from adult shops rather than the supermarket.

go to adult shops. dont feel embaressed. they have alot of knowledge there and alot of the time they can help you out. you can also get some really nice nighties there.

Dont be afraid to tell your partner that hurts cause he doesnt know.

and lastly take it slow. dont rush things as you can do more damage.

good luck and enjoy s e x again after having a baby.