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Stay Away from Oleanders

superpo by superpo Talking(July 2008) (rank 142nd)

As a parent of a child that likes to learn about new things by putting them in her mouth, I wanted to share some information that isn't as commonly known as I once thought. I want everyone to be aware of how toxic the oleander plant is.

I've

always needed to keep an eye on my daughter because even at the age of six she will surprise me and chew on things she shouldn't. When she was a toddler it was much worse. Thankfully, at that time we were living in a place where none of the plants in our yard were toxic. I know I had to be constantly vigilant with her to try not to miss anything going in her mouth, but I wasn't always successful in catching her before putting some plant part in her mouth. Since then, we have moved and there are several flowering shrubs in our backyard here in the sub-tropical climate where we live that I wasn't totally sure of the identity of. Although I thought I recognized all of them, it took my mother showing up to think about it and point out that three of the shrubs were the extremely toxic oleander.

If you live in a cooler climate, you may not need to concern yourself with this flower and its poisonous ways, but it might be good to know what it looks like just in case. My husband ripped them all out today while I was at work, so I can't post my own photo like I planned! But here is a link to some oleander images. The whorled leaves were what convinced me that this was the same plant I had in my backyard!

Thankfully, my daughter hasn't eaten any plants in ages, and my son, who is younger, never picked up that habit, so they did not poison themselves in the six months it took me to make this discovery! The advice I would like to impart here is that the oleander plant is EXTREMELY toxic. Every part of the plant is toxic, and a single leaf is enough to potentially kill a small child. And to me the real kicker is that the smoke can also be very toxic. That's why we made the decision to remove the shrubs in our yard. Everyone may be past the stage of tasting plants at my house, but the fact that something beyond my control, like a fire, could be deadly to us because of the fumes led me to the decision not to have it around.

There are many plants that can have adverse affects if ingested, and if you are a parent who has a "taster" like I do, you might want to familiarize yourself with them if you haven't already. Here is a link to some plants that you may not want to have around, or at least not at toddler level.

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Iriny
January 2009 | Iriny
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

WOW, thanks for the heads up, i'll be more aware from now on,



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      superpo
January 2009 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

There's nothing that changes your outlook towards plants like having a toddler that wants to put them all in her mouth!

Thanx for reading and commenting!



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Jaylah101
November 2008 | Jaylah101
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

This is why this site is so great! sharing this sort of information can save ones life.  Living in australia we have all numerous genres of deadly nightshade, toxic berries, and in my street alone there would be an Oleander in every second house.



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      superpo
January 2009 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

Yes, there are certainly many plants that can be potentially dangerous, so for the most part I just try to make sure the kids don't put any of them in their mouths, OR I try and at least find out about what's in my own yard.



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griz
November 2008 | griz
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

I remember my mum telling me not to touch oleander when I  ws a little kid. They usedto grow everywhere around my place.



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      superpo
November 2008 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

You see them in the roadway medians around here a lot. I think they are a pretty and hardy plant so they're popular for landscaping, but I really don't want any in my backyard!

Thanks for commenting!



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exquisite-flower
November 2008 | exquisite-flower
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

Great reminder to all who have gardens to be aware of what exactly there is out there and to be careful. 

If people want a safe replacement Marigolds are good - I think they can even be used in salads??

Peace
EF.x



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      superpo
November 2008 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

Really? Marigolds? For some reason I thought they were mildly toxic. I'll have to look it up. It's good to know about plants other than oleanders, though! As far as edible ones,  I know Chrysanthemums can be eaten.

Thanx for the feedback!



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nabutters
November 2008 | nabutters
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

this is great advice!! thanks for sharing



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      superpo
November 2008 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

Thanx for reading! I always appreciate people taking the time!



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rcp-432
November 2008 | rcp-432
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

i have only just found out i have 2 of these big ones in my backyard there coming straight out first thing  thank you so much for writing this or i wouldnt have know



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      superpo
November 2008 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

Wow! Well, I'm glad I could be of help! I hope you don't have too much trouble getting the roots out! These things can be a chore!



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           rcp-432
November 2008 | rcp-432
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders
the two trees we have are 7 feet tall and 3 foot wide definetly a chore will send the kids to my mums while we remove them foe health safety


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pavementcracks70
July 2008 | pavementcracks70
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

excellent reminder, got me thinking what plants are outside......gosh i'll have to check.....

thanks for the link, i do recognise some...scary isn't it?.....

thanks for sharing, rue



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      superpo
July 2008 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

I hope it helps! You must not have a big "taster" on your hands if you haven't had to think about it seriously yet!

It is kinda scary what some of these plants can do, although I still think oleander is the scariest!



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janicepovey
July 2008 | janicepovey
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

 This is very helpful advice for parents, the oleander plant is extremely dangerous.

Thanks for sharing.

Cheers Janice



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      superpo
July 2008 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

Yes it is! Quite a few people seem to know already, but I thought I'd put it out there just in case there were a few who didn't!

Thanx for reading!



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Ravenheart
July 2008 | Ravenheart
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

Thanks heaps fpr letting us know!

xoxo



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      superpo
July 2008 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

I hope it was helpful! They are a pretty plant, but bad stuff!



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Rukia
July 2008 | Rukia
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

my FIL and my dad (they went to school together) both studyied plants and animals at uni. so as a child both hubby and I were told about all the bad plants and animals. My FIL has a book that has about 500pages on plants and another on animals.

they are so handy to have cause there are so many that are poisionous. Like most aust native plants.

(My hubby said to google FOX BAIT for australia, poision 1080 is from eucalptus (sp) and something else. it kills the foxes but not native animals)



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      superpo
July 2008 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

You are lucky you learned about it growing up! That way it just comes naturally to you. I think it's good information, but I am terrible at identifying plants and it's been a chore to try and learn this stuff since I had kids. It's been necessary though because of my daughter's tendency to "graze."

Thanx for adding your comment!



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kseers
July 2008 | kseers
News Break

Just thought I'd add that ABC's Gardening Australia is meant to be looking at poisonous and allergy plants tomorrow (6.30 ABC)



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anon
July 2008 | anon
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

Thankyou. We found out through my MIL as when we bought our house she came round to inspect of course and made the discovery and let us know immedietly. And when we moved in it was removed very promptly. Thanks again for sharing ths though!

Karen. xx.



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      superpo
July 2008 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

Sounds like a familiar story! I do feel better now that they're gone. Thanx for the comment!



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kseers
July 2008 | kseers
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

Thanks for sharing this - I only just came across Oleander in a book I was reading and thought, "I must look that up" and here, you saved me!  Thanks for reminding us of this.  When we were little my mum took my brother to the doctor because his eyes were dilating strangely and it turned out it was a plant in our garden that is used in medicine by eye doctors - weird huh!  But I think it can also make you hallucinate - soemthing to be aware of!



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      superpo
July 2008 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

I'd be curious what the plant your brother ate was! There are several that can make kids sick, but thankfully not many that are as lethal as oleander. At least, not that are common, I don't think.

Thanx for commenting!



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cazza
July 2008 | cazza
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

Great article and advice..

You would hope one day that the government would provide pamplets on this and give to every parent that is unaware,...

xx cazza



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      superpo
July 2008 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

That's a great idea! I can't be the only parent with a child that wants to eat everything leafy! It seems like something that could easily be distributed at well-baby checkups or immunization time.



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lindterbean
July 2008 | lindterbean
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

 Thanks for bringing this up. And thanks especially for the link. Good to be mindful of the parks and playgrounds as well.



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      superpo
July 2008 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

Yes, parks, playgrounds, or even friends' or relatives' houses are all potential spots for plants you aren't necessarily thinking about. It can be hard to keep track of all of them though!

Thanx for reading and commenting.



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emmie
July 2008 | emmie
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

Great advice , kids are terrible when it comes to putting things in their mouth i know mine are.

Thanx for sharing.

 



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      superpo
July 2008 | superpo
Re: Stay Away from Oleanders

I hoped someone would find it useful, although I imagine oleanders aren't all that common in your neck of the woods?!

Thanx for taking a look!



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