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Depression

Amerlinwinga by Amerlinwinga Talking(August 8th) (rank 176th)

Depression

I and others i know have suffered from depression, there are many types that are hard to work out sometimes and thats why some don't get the right treatment for themselves.

I know i feel sad a lot in a week i probably 4 days out 7

but some days by mid day i am feel a little better. We can all feel some kind of sadness when we are faced with problems, personal, environment, death loss of a person or even a pet. If you suffer from depression already this could send you over the edge and you can have a relapse of depression or even increase the level of depression. 

If you don"t suffer from depression imagine a real low time in your life like loosing someone you love, and that feeling of emptiness, scared nerves, and not knowing what to do next. Feeling you cant face the outside world, cant be bothered looking after yourself, lack of motivation to clean even have a shower. This is how i do feel when i wake in the mornings.....I do have a sign fridge that say:  IT WILL BE OK ....ONE STEP AT A TIME.
 

Years ago Depression wasn't treated a a serious medical condition but this day and age it is considered to quite serious. Years ago you where to go home and put your feet up and it will pass but now there are so many options that it does take a long time to get it right.


In this day and age there is a lot of help out there and most of the help is in front of us but we don't know where to look and who to turn too. Some people understand and some just can't work out why you are always so unhappy. I have a personal problem where i am really depressed and in front of people or people I'm talking to on the phone i act like everything is ok and fine, but inside I'm a troubled individual.

Depression has alot to do with the imbalance of hormones in our brain, there are many sign of depression most are very much alike, sadness, having no motivation and feeling extremely tired all the time,and you really believe that things aren't going to get any better.

I have read that that more women suffer from depression then men. But because women can suffer post natal depression it bring or levels a little higher. PND can come and leave and never return, this is a whole new subject.
 

Only a certain amount of people are correctly diagnosed, because it can be mixed up for other illnesses like fatigue, real bad pain in the body and most of all sleeplessness. Some day i just don't feel like getting out of bed but its my kids that make me get up, otherwise i would probably sleep all day or just lie there not wanting to do anything.

Things i go through is lack of motivation, feeling sad, Sleep all day some days for weeks and  other just cant sleep, Feeling tired all the time, feel worthless and guilty for things that i shouldn't and the big one is feeling like my life isn't worth living.

I do have my good days and i have my bad one but i can usually tell when i do wake in the morning. And i deal with it as it comes and goes.

Depression can be past  on through your genes where if mum or dad have it you will have a high chance of having it yourself. If your hormones are changing all the time esp when you fall pregnant and after having your baby can also trigger it off. Abuse of drugs and alcohol can also contribute of the imbalance.

Most common Depression of late has been cause  society changes, Struggling to pay bills, living life with all that types of stress can trigger it of and with that you start to feel negative experiences and anxiety.

Seeking help for these symtoms you'll need to go and speak to your doctor . I'm sure there are other places as well but not sure on those.

This Illness is becoming more common as the medical profession are more aware of this condition, where years ago they weren't as aware of this.

There is nothing to be ashamed about if you have depression and it doesn't make you any weaker than anybody else. I have found alot of my friends around me feel like this and thats because of there illness.

For all those that do suffer, keep working at it and step by step day by day it will get better.

Links to some of the info that i have in my article piece.

www.healthinsite.gov.au/topics/Symptoms_of_Depression

www.abc.net.au/health/library/stories/2007/06/05/1944066.htm

www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/bhcv2/bhcarticles.nsf/pages/Depression_different_types

www.reachout.com.au/default.asp
 

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Kristian
November 16th | Kristian
Re: Depression

Thanks for your thoughts and feelings here. I can relate to so much of what you have written. I know I need to take that step and seek advice but I feel embarassed and somewhat ashamed. I am supposed to be a "big strong man" but feel like a little lost kid at times. However your article has helped and now I feel I am nearly ready to take that step. Thanks again



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      Amerlinwinga
November 17th | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression

My hubby was the same but he took the huge step and went and i tell ya our lives is so much better bec it doesnt only affect the person themselves it affects everyone else around them. If you ever wanna talk just minti mail me sweet!.

Tee



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janicepovey
October 24th | janicepovey
Re: Depression

 Excellent article the topic of depression use to be sweeped under the carpet, I think people are more open to talk about now and it is article's like your's that help do that.

I wish you well.

Regards Janice



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spinnychic
October 24th | spinnychic
Re: Depression

What a great article...I suffer too from depression and have found that life is definetly easier now I have the kids to get up in the mornings, although I would also like to stay in bed under the covers at times too...

Thanks for your words it is always nice to know you are not on your own out here in the world...

Cheers Spinnychic



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nabutters
September 6th | nabutters
Re: Depression

thanks for sharing this...i dont feel too alone now...i have just recently started anti depressants so this i can realate too.....

thank u.....great article...

naomi xxx



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winja
August 19th | winja
Re: Depression

hunni.... its perfect, i have no words for once.

this will help ppl

xxxnat



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HarrisonsMommy
August 19th | HarrisonsMommy
Re: Depression

thank you so much for sharing this Tee!  There is still a stigma with taking anti depressants.  And there shouldn't be.  Depression is a disease.  A treatable disease just like diabetes or anemia or low thyroid.  It is true that it may take some trial and error to find what works for you but it is out there.  And the first step is admitting there is a problem and seeking help.  this will most certainly help people out...Well done Tee



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lonely28
August 11th | lonely28
Re: Depression

Great advice there miss tee!!! Depression is something that needs to be stopped from being swept under the carpet. This article will surely help people out there suffering from depression.... firstly by letting them know that they are not alone!

Well done tee,

fi xoxoxo



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Kippa
August 11th | Kippa
Re: Depression

Hi sis

agreed that you hide it from all of us, but when you are feeling like this we are here for you. Good article and glad you found the time lately to write it. Well done.

xxAnneka



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nell18-3
August 8th | nell18-3
Re: Depression

I used to suffer from depression, I don't look back now but I do think depression is hugely under rated

Its a terrible condition and needs love and understanding from all those around you

Great article

xxx

 



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      Amerlinwinga
August 8th | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression

Glad to see that you have over come this terrible condition. You are such a strong and inspirational person. Support plays a big part and there is nothing worse than feeling alone.

i have learned that i need to open ME meaning letting people into my life when depression has set in. I was and still am sometimes a very close person and its hard to let people in when i'm in a down.

Thanks H it means alot to me.

Hugs Tee



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exquisite-flower
August 8th | exquisite-flower
Re: Depression

Great advice - it has obviously helped others here (from comments already made) and your friendship and support has also helped others - so well done to you.  I am sure there will be many more in the future who will draw strength and comfort from your words here.  I certainly have today.  So thank you from me also.

Peace
EF.x



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      Amerlinwinga
August 8th | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression

I hope to be able to show that people with depression aren't alone.... I am glad i have been able to help my dear friends with the downs and the extreme ups but in that they have helped me just as much. Sometimes we forget to say thank you to those that have helped and they haven't realised. I'm glad you have read it and taking something out and we are always here for everyone.

Hugs To you

Tee



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loopylisa
August 8th | loopylisa
Re: Depression

Good read.I suffer from depression as does my mum and sister so there's definately a 'genes' thing going on.It's such a hard thing to deal with and sometimes really hard to explain how you feel.You have obviously suffered a great deal with the illness yourself.

Lisa xx



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      Amerlinwinga
August 8th | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression

Lisa we usually cant explain how we feel because we really don't know why we feel like that. And sometimes it is really hard to explain to some that has never suffered or doesn't know anyone that has suffered from depression or even read about it b4.

I do seem to manage a lot these day not like 2 years ago i couldn't seem to manage it at all. Step by step i'm finding new ways and news supports to deal with it better.

Hugs to you lisa

Tee



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winja
August 8th | winja
Re: Depression

great adivice hunni and you are a great one to give it!

you have helped me so much with my own depression and got me thru some of the lowest moments ive ever had...

luv ya girl!

xxxnat



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      Amerlinwinga
August 8th | Amerlinwinga
Re: Depression

You are so welcome hunny! But i let you in on little seceret..... You help just as much even though i don't seem to be down i am and just through our convos you help me just as much.

With each other and alot of other people i could name we will get through it. Love you morer lol....

Hugs Tee



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