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New mom advice. |
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Anonymous Author (August 8th) |
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Dear Fabi,
Sometimes I see my baby and I cry. I feel like I don't love her.
Like if she belongs to someone else and I'm just a caretaker.
Why do I feel so strange and angry at my baby?
I am horrible.
Anonymous
Dear Mom,
Do you know how special you are? You care so much about your baby
you are seeking advice right now.
You unselfishly gave 9 months of yourself to this child.
Being a mom is H A R D work, first give yourself some credit for that.
If she is your first baby you probably have never felt the baby blues.
It actually makes you feel sad, angry, frustrated, and very emotional, all at
the same time. Its confusing. But its not you.Its the imbalance of hormones in your body. sometimes It lasts
for years. But you shouldn't let it. Being a mom seems awful when you feel this way—But, its not your fault sweet mother.
Please, please see your doctor he/she will understand and render the care
you need. As a friend I can guide you to seek medical advice and tell you that
it will be the most responsible and loving thing you can do for both you and your baby girl.
Please let me know how you feel later.
Dear Fabi