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New mom advice.

Anonymous Author (August 8th)

Dear Fabi,

Sometimes I see my baby and  I cry.  I feel like I don't love her.

Like if she belongs to someone else and I'm just a caretaker.

Why do I feel so strange and angry at my baby?

I

am horrible.

Anonymous

Dear Mom,

Do you know how special you are? You care so much about your baby

you are seeking advice right now.

You  unselfishly gave 9 months of yourself to this child.

Being a mom is H A R D work, first give yourself some credit for that.

If she is your first baby you probably have never felt the baby blues.

It actually makes you feel sad, angry, frustrated, and very emotional, all at

the same time. Its confusing. But its not you.Its the imbalance of hormones in your body. sometimes It lasts

for years. But you shouldn't let it. Being a mom seems awful when you feel this way—But, its not your fault sweet mother.

Please, please see your doctor he/she will understand and render the care

you need. As a friend I can guide you to seek medical advice and tell you that

it will be the most responsible and loving thing you can do for both you and your baby girl.

Please let me know how you feel later.

Dear Fabi

 

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