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My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

janicepovey by janicepovey Minti Founder(August 2008) (rank 29th)

 

             We were a young and struggling family....many a day it was a fight to put  food on the table. At times it was a meagre meal, but always a healthy one.

As was the play lunch & lunch I sent

to Primary School daily with my son.

For about three weeks my son came home ravenous for something to eat before dinner, this had me a bit puzzled as I knew I was giving him enough food to get him through his school day.   After questioning him one afternoon, to my surprise,  I  found he had  been  sharing  his food with  a  young  boy  who was  coming to school,  without  any  food.

On visiting the school the next day around lunch time, with  another lunch in hand,  I  discovered to my disbelief  and shock,  what my son  was telling  me was true. I  found my son sharing his lunch with a young boy who looked liked he was starving.

Picking my son up from school everyday,  I  soon made a effort to befriend this boy's Mum, who also looked like it had been a long time since she had had a decent meal. She was just skin & bones.

She was a Mum bringing up her son on her own and  finding it hard to get a job. The government assistance she was receiving was keeping a roof over their head and after paying bills, there wasn't much left for food or clothes.

This broke my heart but as a struggling family, I couldn't  see how I could help on my own.

At a Mothers Club Meeting, consisting of ten members, we put together a plan to help this proud & loving Mum trying to do the right thing by her son, in hard times.

Not much could be afforded by any of us, but we agreed on  $3 per month....giving the Mum $30 per month.   

For one year, we helped this lady & her son out, till she  found a job. To see the remarkable change in this little boy's personality, physical well-being and his school, was so touching.

My son had recognised the need for  compassion & caring for others.

On our own we may not be able to achieve a lot, but by pooling our resources and working as a group we can make a difference to many people who are in great need.

Like World Vision 

http://www.worldvision.com.au/childsponsorship/sponsorachild.aspx?souce=1168  

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carole32
October 14th | carole32
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

This leaves me speachless, and now that I have wiped the tears away. THANKYOU for telling a wonderful inspiring story. I wish we had more in the world like you both.



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      janicepovey
October 16th | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 You are a sweetie Carole and I thank-you for taking the time to read my article. You have me blushing this way . It was my son who drew me to the plight of this little boy and his mother and is to him I am thankful we could help in some small way.

Love Janice



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mystikal
July 24th | mystikal
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

What a loving soul - he learnt from the best of the best! xo



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      janicepovey
August 14th | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 You are to kind Mel.

Love Janice



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wildice
July 5th | wildice
Wow ... Aren't kids amazing

Janice, your son must have learnt so much whilst growing up in the environment that he did (now that I have read your other story) with you and his father. I find it amazing that some (I would like to think many) children feel such compassion for others. What a wonderful insight you two have shared with eachother.



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      janicepovey
August 14th | janicepovey
Re: Wow ... Aren't kids amazing

 Thanks Kelly, your thoughts mean a lot to me.

Love Janice



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anybodydoforhelp
October 2008 | anybodydoforhelp
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

children learn from how their parents treat others. And this story is well. by reading that i hope it may work



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      janicepovey
April 2009 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 Thanks for taking the time to read this.

Cheers Janice



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rose04
October 2008 | rose04
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

The apple doesn't fall far from the tree...Children learn from how their parents treat others.Obviously you are a very kind and thoughtful person who has a wonderful son...you must be very proud of him.It is so nice to hear stories like yours and to know that people still care about others.

Well done!!



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      janicepovey
April 2009 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 Thankyou Rose and yes I am very proud of son.

Cheers Janice



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Jessgore
October 2008 | Jessgore
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

You did very well with you kids and should be proud...



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      janicepovey
December 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 Thankyou dear Jess but time it was my son that gave me a gentle reminder on compassion.

Love Janice



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surfybabe123
October 2008 | surfybabe123
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

What a story. That is so nice of you and all the other mums. It just proves everything is starting to get to expenisve for people like that..



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      janicepovey
November 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 As a group we were able to help a couple of people less fortunate that ourselves.

Cheers Janice



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bigmama
October 2008 | bigmama
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

This put a lump in my throat, and it is so wonderful to see people like yourself take time and effort as you and your group to help a fellow person in need, my hand goes to you.

Yvonne



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      janicepovey
October 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 Thanks Yvonne for your lovely response.

Cheers Janice



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Vet-Trin
October 2008 | Vet-Trin
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

THis proves that even though we may not be able to give that little bit could meen a lot to  someone else even if is to just show that someone cares.



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      janicepovey
October 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 Feels good to be able to show someone that they are cared about.

Cheers Janice



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smells
October 2008 | smells
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

What a great story. I wish my boys will grow up to be as caring as janice's



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      janicepovey
October 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 I'm sure your boys will grow up just as caring, sweetie.

Love Janice



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joeanne
September 2008 | joeanne
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

This is so good to hear that there are people that really care and want to help others. You are so Great for doing this and your son You  should be so proud of.



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      janicepovey
October 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

Its a great feeling to be able to help others out, that are worse off then yourself. Thankyou for your lovely thoughts.

Love Janice



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rcp-432
September 2008 | rcp-432
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.
that was an excellent article and great to hear that your son had picked up on that and then all you and friends helped this women


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      janicepovey
October 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 As one person I could not have helped this Mum in need but as a group we managed to help her and her son out til they got on their feet....which was a lovely feeling.

Love Janice 



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RachBess
September 2008 | RachBess
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

Lovely story Janice.   How very proud you must have been & obviously still are!  Harv has done the same for a little boy who just forgot his food one day & I remember how proud I was of him to halve everything he had in his lunchbox - but to be able to help the whole family must have been wonderful.   Rach xx



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      janicepovey
October 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 I can truly understand how proud you must have been of Harv when he shared his lunch with someone, Rach.

Love Janice xxx



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exquisite-flower
September 2008 | exquisite-flower
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

This is beautiful.  I think it is a mark of what kind of parent we are when our children spare a thought for others. 

Peace
EF.x



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      janicepovey
October 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 Thankyou for the compliment.

Love Janice



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boredmum
September 2008 | boredmum
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

What a great story Janice. You must be proud that even at that age you were bringing your son up to show compassion for others.

Great advice, well done & thank you for sharing.

Dee

xx



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      janicepovey
September 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 Thanks Dee, I was so very proud of my son for showing compassion for the little boy, especially when he was going without to share his food...makes one really think.

Janice xxx



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           boredmum
September 2008 | boredmum
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

That it does... You have done a fantasic job Janice. I bet he is proud to call you mum. Look after my adopted sis please she needs it too.xoxooxo



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                janicepovey
June 26th | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 We both are trying to do our best for your adopted sister.

Luv ya xxx



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natelz1
August 2008 | natelz1
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

What a wonderful Story.



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      janicepovey
September 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 Yhanks Nat from one so young I had a gentle reminder to help others in need.

Janice xxxx



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pauline27
August 2008 | pauline27
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

What a thoughtful, kind son you have, At our church we have afood box and we bring food to put into this boxand when it is full one of our members take it to the foodbank and it is distributed to families who have a need, Several of the churches are involved in this work, When everyone does a little it mounts up as well as reminding us that there are those who have a need

Love Pauline



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      janicepovey
September 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 I like the sound of what your church & others do....you are so right if everyone done a little it would soon mount up.

Love Janice



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nell18-3
August 2008 | nell18-3
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

What a great reminder to us all to take a good look at all those around us

Thanks Janice

I know exactly where your son got his compassion from !!

xxx



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      janicepovey
September 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 Thanks Helen, it doen't take much to help and make someone else's life a little better.

 xxxx Janice



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      pauline27
September 2008 | pauline27
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

So do I Helen

Love mum



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Kellzacar
August 2008 | Kellzacar
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

Hi mum,

What a truly inspiring story . . . A gentle act of kindness can go a really long way, its such a pity that you don't see much of it these days, I am sure that if we did there would be far less poverty in Australia and abroad . . .

Cheers Kellz



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      janicepovey
September 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 I truly believe that if  ALL  Australians chipped in just $1 & one item of food there would be a lot less  poverty and less hungry people....it take a lot for one person to make a difference but as a group we can make a huge difference.

xxxxJanice



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nabutters
August 2008 | nabutters
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

beautiful story from a beautiful woman!!

love naomi xxxxxx



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      janicepovey
September 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 Now I am blushing!

xxxxxJanice



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llmunchkin
August 2008 | llmunchkin
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

I guess that old saying, 'the apple doesn't fall far from the tree' certainly applies here.  No matter how tough we think we have it, there is always someone in a worse situation that we can help... Thank you for sharing this lovely piece of advice. xox



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      janicepovey
September 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 Yes there is always someone worse off then ourselves...thanks for your lovely words you make me blush.

xxxxx Janice



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August88
August 2008 | August88
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

That's a lovely story Janice. Unfortunately it is happening a lot now and at the primary school a group of us mums volunteered to do a breakfast program when my kids were going there. The foodbank donated bread, milk, spreads, sometimes fruit for kids to take for morning tea. We were in a low income area so all the kids knew they could come early to school and be fed breakfast. It made the attendence rate better too. What a good hearted son you have!



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      janicepovey
August 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 Lynette, it is such a shame this sort of thing happens, in our day & age....you would think in this country of our's that has such wealth, no-one would go hungry.

I'm glad there is Mum's like yourself volunteering to give children a breakfast and a good start to the day.

Regards Janice



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cazza
August 2008 | cazza
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

To Mum

What a beutiful story and you are a supurb mum to do all that and teach your son such a great  Gift to show so much compassion..

xx cazza



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      janicepovey
August 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 Thanks Cazza, to see  the difference in this dear Mum & her son after 12 months....was just beautiful to see.

Janice xx



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Rukia
August 2008 | Rukia
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

what a beautiful story. thanks for sharing

 



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      janicepovey
August 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 Thakyou for taking the time to read this article.

Regards Janice



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fiedo
August 2008 | fiedo
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

Gorgeous advice,., and i teach my 3 the same to show compassion and caring..

Bet your son has grown to be a  fine man,....

cheers

fiedo



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      janicepovey
August 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

 I am so very proud of  my son, as i'm sure you will be the same with your 3 children.

Cheers Janice



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anon
August 2008 | anon
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

Thankyou for sharing this Janice, what a truely touching and inspiring story, I know a lot of adults would not do half of what your son had done, there are some that can truely learn alot from our children. It is also a testament to what a wonderful and caring enviroment you have nurtured him in. Well done.

Karen. xx.



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      janicepovey
August 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

Thankyou Karen for the compliment, though it was my son who brought the plight of the little boy...home to me.

Cheers Janice



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kseers
August 2008 | kseers
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

Brilliant article Janice!  Thanks for sharing that encouraging and empowering story.  What a gift that was!



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      janicepovey
August 2008 | janicepovey
Re: My Son reminded me of Compassion & Caring.

Thankyou kseers, it was a great feeling to help someone, less fortunate  than us.

I enjoy your empowering blog on "Ideas for Awareness"

Cheers Janice



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