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i went out this morning to do my thursday ritual (paybills, pay rent buy food ect) and as i was sitting out side of a coffee shop with my son waiting for my father when i saw a woman out the corner of my eye with a very sad look
in her eye. she cam over to me and told me how lucky i was to have such a beautiful child. she then went on to tell me that her husband and her have been trying for a child for 5 yrs and had no luck. she told me she sees young women everyday with their children and its hurts her and at the same time makes her smile. she knows deep down she might never have children but it makes her smile when she sees parents laughing and comparing stories and secrets with each other.
i look at my son and realise she is right i am lucky to have a beautiful child and the thousands of women across the world who do the same thing with thier child. her sadness really got to me as it wasnt just a sadness that she will ever get over it was a heart breaking sadness.
and then theres the flip side you hear of women who have 2 or 3 children and are trying for more and they cant. why arnt people happy with what they have. im blessed that i have a child and if i cant have another then im even more blessed.
it really hurts to see women who are like this as there is women out there who want children but cant have them.
when you look at your child be thankful you have them and pray those who cant have one is given the chance to experience the joys of what we have.
(August 20th) (
