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Talk About Parenting Decisions

pfallerj by pfallerj Proud Parent(August 2006) (rank 12th)

Today's First Time Parenting Tip - Talk about parenting style...before the issue comes to a head

How will you discipline your child? What chores will he do? What activities do you want him to be involved in? What lessons must he learn, if he learns nothing else from you?

What will you do to make sure you're not like your parents were gosh darnit!

It's good to chat about these things before hand, so that you can be consistent from the very beginning and not feel like you're being forced down a parenting path that you don't want to go on. So when the ice cream hits the mouth for the second time and mom says "that's enough," dad's not saying "but he's just getting started.

It'll help you work together as a parenting team, which is really what you need to do to be successful. For all you single parents out there, you've got it easy. You can run a dictatorship!

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ShellyT
December 2006 | ShellyT
good advice
i agree with what you're saying.


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exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | exquisite-flower
I agree...
...with your single parent comment - how will i cope when I have to compromise?  LOL
Peace
EF.x 


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cheleinkal
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | cheleinkal
hhmmm
Consistancy is key, but you might want to be a bit more thoughtful in how you put things.  I recently had a lesson in the pen being mightier than the sword and if you had a single parent coping with a young baby 24/7 by themselves with little to no moral support or back up, I am pretty sure dictatorship or not, they would not be considering themselves lucky.  They would consider themselves as exhausted, hardworking, brave, struggling, coping and survivying, loving and deserving.

Just thought you might want to consider this.  I am not a single parent, I was raised by one and your comment, tongue in cheek as I'm sure it was, about "making sure you are not like your parents", is the complete opposite in my case, if I'm half the parent my Mum still is, I will consider my child a lucky kid.



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