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2 boys - different ages - can they sleep in harmony?
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Two boys - one bedroom. When is it time to share?

katiepiatt by katiepiatt Talking Back(March 2006) (rank 34th)

Last week we finally took the plunge and moved baby Oscar (1 next week) out of our bedroom and into his brother Archie's room (2 1/2). We've been meaning to get them sharing for a long time now, but have been two scared of interrupting Archie sleep (who is an

excellent sleeper - 12 hours without a squeak) by introducing Oscar, who is a much lighter sleeper, and tends to wake at 5ish and want his dummy, and then want his milk at 6ish etc.

Well I'll tell you what - we're now having the best night's sleep we've had in ages. Oscar seems to be sleeping from 7pm to 6 or 7am, with only minor coughing from both, which doesn't seem to wake the other. I went to get Oscar at 7 this morning, stroked Archie's head and he slept on for another 30 mins quite happily after the interruption.

For us, having the baby out of our room just means I can roll over in bed without fear of disturbing him, and have the light on for bedtime reading (what a luxury!). For Oscar, it means he isn't interrupted by us coming to bed and rattling around. I'm not sure what happened to his 5 and 6am waking sessions - maybe the other room is quieter or darker - I don't know, but long may it last!

Anyway, my advice would be, if you're thinking of putting your kids into the same room - try it! Don't be like us and wait forever, because you're scared, it might (fingers crossed) all go well, and if you're going to do it eventually, why not do it now and let them get used to it as early as possible.

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OCMom
February 2008 | OCMom
Re: Two boys - one bedroom. When is it time to share?

Thank you, thank you, thank you for this posting.  I felt like I was reading my current situation with a slight twist...I have 2 girls, almost exactly 2 years apart, older sleeps great, baby wakes at 5:45 or 6 (best case), baby is in our room...embarrassing part...Mommy and Daddy are on the sofa bed in the family room because we would wake the baby or she would wake us.

The girls turn 1 and 3 in about a month...I think I'm going to work up the nerve to put them together around then and reclaim our bedroom...



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Saraloo
4.62 (Excellent) | June 2006 | Saraloo
Great Move

Glad to hear the move went well for your boys!!! I too have been through a simular experience my two oldest daughters are 2yrs 3mths apart in age and when they were small I liked having them no further than a room away.  Our 3rd bedroom was downstairs and that was too far for midnight calls (i'm not great with the late night calls the closer they are the better for me) so I put them together in the room across the hall from me expecting the same as you, a disgruntled older sibling who also slept very well.  I found instead it went exceptionally well, and now that they are older and the 3rd daughter made her entrance, we gave the oldest daughter her own room and bunked the two smaller girls together.  Well the idea was great but everynight my oldest daughter requests that her sister sleeps with her.  Her sister never refuses the offer and they are best of friends and I think that comes in part from sharing a room early in life. 

We had some friends and family ask us when we were expecting the third if we were going to find a bigger house so each child could have their own room and after the great experience we had with siblings sharing a room I never gave moving a thought. 



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aklei090
4.71 (Excellent) | June 2006 | aklei090
Fingers crossed!

Your article really gave me the push to try this. I have been wanting to put my 2 and 1 year old in the same room but they are the same as your boys. My younger one is a light sleeper and my 2 year old likes his 12 hour sleeps. I tried it one evening a while back and they were upset and both cried on and once one started crying the other did. It was complete chaos but maybe it was the wrong time! Thanks so much for sharing!



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rachelcook
4.26 (Good) | April 2006 | rachelcook
sharing early
I think it's such a wonderful idea, they look like great mates already :) i feel a bit more confident now to give this a go when the time comes!


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katiepiatt
4.46 (Good) | March 2006 | katiepiatt
Naptime vs Bedtime
I would just add, that although we appear to have sorted out bedtime, afternoon naptime is proving a bit more problematic...

Because they don't always want to nap at the same time, and because they don't both nap for the same amount of time, it's hard to wrok out how to stop them disturbing each other (Oscar tends to cry a little bit before he settles which is no good when Archie is just napping). Any ideas?


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      ClayCook
4.62 (Excellent) | March 2006 | ClayCook
Re: Naptime vs Bedtime
Katie - great article. I can imagine the afternoon nap would be an issue if they overlap. Maybe you can hold one off sleeping to a different time? Or maybe even have oscar sleep in a port-a-cot in your bedroom?


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