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Anti depressants-they're handed out like lollies

mellay by mellay Standing(September 2008) (rank 500+)

I was 21 and i had just had my first baby,a girl. i moved to a diiferent town her father was abusive in every way.i had to sell my car i was house bound.i became very depressed and could not have the get up and go to do the simplist

things.i pleaded help to my child clinic nurse for some help.she was at least onto it and put in touch with a post natal depression group therepy.i went to see my doc and told him how i was feeling and he just said take these anti depressants for six months and go off them you'll be fine.i started coming off them very gradually and the side effects my god,i was nauseated head spins jitters and i call them miny blackouts.little did i know of the withdrawal symptoms.i went back on them full dosage,i couldn't take the withdrawals.i could never get enough sleep always needing a nap and i'd sleep for hours.i missed alot of my daughter growing up in those precious years and i do believe because of those drugs anti depressants

i tried so many times over a 10 year period ,but this time, as doctors here have let me down no end and i refuse to see a doc for myself at least the withdrawals were horrific once again but my anger toward doctors made me get through it.if only i hadn't gone on  those things in the first place and if the doc's told what would happen when i went off them.and they brand you with depression like when my daughter died i was just talking as i had just heard the results of her autopsy i burst into tears as they found out unknown cause of death,doc turns around and says "oh Mel your depression's acting up i'll put your dose of medication up"same thing when i was pregnant my son i was hospitalized for 6 weeks before the birth due to pre eclampsia, he said the same thing.being stuck in hospital for that long would depress any body!!

Any how I couldn't feel any better now, i have so much energy i don't know what to do with it.but with the family infected with golden staph at the mo i am kept busy enough! my thoughts are not tired even i  have the get up and go now iam totally a different person and i'm even losing weight.

i just wish i had've tried the natural version first st john's wort and multi vitamins,more couselling and group therapy's available for post natal depression and anxiety, the doctors do not tell you these things and when your down like that you don't think to ask of withdrawal symptoms.all those missed years and missed memories i could've had with my children just because mum was drugged up on anti depressants.maybe i was on the wrong drug maybe i was on the dosage who knows but I'm off those things and for good. my family's life is on the up and will continue to do so.

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Amerlinwinga
September 2008 | Amerlinwinga
Re: Anti depressants-they're handed out like lollies

Thanks for sharing......



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nell18-3
September 2008 | nell18-3
Re: Anti depressants-they're handed out like lollies

When I was put on my anti depressants, I believe my dr had little option because of the state I was in, by I also had great follow up too, I was referred to a psychologist and then onto a domestic violence workshop programme

I did however wake up one morning and decide I was no longer taking any pills I didn't want to be dependent on them. I just stopped taking them, NOT recommended to anyone but it worked for me and I have not missed them since

The dr always told me I had a reactive depression because of the abuse situation I was in, so once I was on my feet, I stopped taking them but I definitely don't regret taking them. I wouldn't be here otherwise and I accept that as a FACT !!!

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kathryn-solaris
September 2008 | kathryn-solaris
Re: Anti depressants-they're handed out like lollies

thanks for sharing your story it is great to know you have found something that works for you, finding something that works can be so difficult.... however i would tread causciously when it comes to inadvertiantly recomending not trusting the medical profession particularly in relation to how your readers (who might be going through the time consuming process of finding the right diagnosis and medication) would view this article. here is some information from Health Insite (an Australian government initiave) on the incoclusive effects of St Johns Wort in patients suffering from mild to major depression and depresive disorders. so sorry if i have offended in any way, my goal is only to give your readers sufficient information to make an informed choice when it comes to their mental health... please feel free to minti mail me privatly if you wish to dicuss this post any further. ::)'s from becca.



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Rukia
September 2008 | Rukia
Re: Anti depressants-they're handed out like lollies

thanks for sharing.

it took my docs 5 years to realise i was bipolar and had BPD.

i always ask for more now.



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kseers
September 2008 | kseers
Re: Anti depressants-they're handed out like lollies

Thanks for sharing your experience and I'm sorry you had such a horrible time with the medications they gave you.  You're right that too often we resort to medication when other therapies are needed - my dr insists that they go hand in hand.  That said there are times when anti-depressants are needed and can make a life and death difference to someone's ability to cope with life.  Even in those cases though, the full effects and options should always be given to someone before they agree to take something, so they know what to expect.



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MrsSanders
September 2008 | MrsSanders
Re: Anti depressants-they're handed out like lollies

Sadly there are Doctors who will hand out anti depressants without looking at the whole picture and the aftermath, can be worse than the depression. The older forms of drugs could be highly addictive, and some of the modern one's can have terrible side effects, for some people.

Good to hear you had the strength to get off them yourself, but sad that your Docs did not look to supporting you through the real emotional issues, before handing out drugs.

Thankfully the practice we attend, has a step by step process in place which is followed before a Doc will resort to giving drugs. Then they have to account to their fellow partners for why they chose to prescribe the anti depressants. I was on anti-depressants following both births, but therapy and emotional support were the first options, then a combined programme of drugs and cognitive therapy. The coming off the drugs was done over a six month period, so that there would be no risk of withdrwal.

So sorry you were treated so shabily. However, well done for getting yourself back on track and taking back control.

Thankyou for sharing. Luv Winnie.x



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