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Sleep Breeds Sleep

KileeGiles by KileeGiles Talking Back(August 2006) (rank 54th)

I have known the words Sleep Breeds Sleep to be true for sometime.  They were words told to us when we visited Ngala (WA's parent resource centre) in Mia's first month.  We had been through a 12 hour marathon of her not sleeping which ended up in us taking

her to hospital thinking something was fatally wrong with our little girl.

Something was wrong but it was with us the parents, not our little girl.  You can imagine our embarressment when the doctor kindly told us that the only thing wrong with our precious angel was over tiredness.  We booked into Ngala the next day for some much needed training.

The day was awesome we learnt so much but more importantly we learnt that the more a baby/child sleeps the better quality sleep they receive and the less tired they become.  I also didn't realise that during sleep is when children process everything they have learned during their waking hours so in the event they don't receive proper sleep then they will struggle cementing the knowledge.

This has been proven again over the past 4 days with Mia having less and less sleep and getting more and more cranky and clingy.  I am not sure what broke the pattern of her sleep but it started over the weekend when she woke up a few times during the night.  She did look like she may be coming down with a cold last week but this never eventuated fully.  This was followed by a much smaller day time sleep.

Each night after got progressively worse with the return of her nightmares/night terrors making it more and more difficult to get her to settle.  It was like having a new born in the house getting up every 3-4 hours.

Perserverence and a return to previous settling techniques finally paid out.  Monday night we became firmer in our settling techniques and as such she only woke a couple of times and slept in for an extra half hour.  Yesterday, we (actually my mother) finally got her to have a decent afternoon sleep and last night she slept through for the first time since Friday night.  It is amazing how much better the world looks when you have had a full nights sleep.

I snuck out of the house this morning at 7am with her still sleeping soundly. 

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August88
October 2008 | August88
Re: Sleep Breeds Sleep

I totally agree with this and love ngala and there work. It makes so much difference when a child is well rested and can just self-settle and makes the whole families life nicer too. Hope she gets back into that good pattern for you very quickly.



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amberdee
October 2008 | amberdee
Re: Sleep Breeds Sleep

Hi. This is very interesting to hear !  My 5 month old daughter has been sleeping less during the day lately, (sometimes only having one nap instead of two, or only half hour or so instead of 1-2 hours) which I thought was because she is getting older and needing less sleep. And she also has been waking more frequenly throughout the night (I just have to go in and put her dummy in and she goes straight to sleep, but we are still getting woken up!). From this advice, I will be making sure she has a longer (and two of them) nap during the day,which will hopefully help her sleep through the night. Fingers crossed!



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lillkatheryn
October 2007 | lillkatheryn
Re: Sleep Breeds Sleep
This is so true, and a great article!!!  My daughter suffered from this several times.  I think another big issue is that most children when they don't have enough sleep, not only can be cranky, but also become hyper!  My daughter had this and the family thought that she wanted to play, when in fact she was over-tired.  And that was hard to get them to listen to me and let me put her to sleep!!!  They have even started that with my new baby, but I don't want it to happen with him either.  It's just one of those things that can creep up on you and before you know it...they are now sleep deprived. 


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Kate99
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Kate99
Re: Sleep Breeds Sleep

I have also found that sleep breeds sleep. Unfortunately my 7 month old, who has been an excellent sleeper, has now decided not to sleep for more than an hour during the day and wake several times each night. Thank-you for prompting me to seriously start some settling techniques. I think controlled comforting starts tonight - wish me luck! :)



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michellei
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | michellei
Sleep Breeds Sleep
To world looks like a much better place when we have the right amount of sleep in our house.
I find the night terrors are the worst - which in turn creates unbroken sleep :(


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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Jessgore
Sleep Breads sleep...

My son used to go days sleeping well and then all of a sudden his habits will change.. For the past two months he has actually finally gotten into a great routine and I am so hoping it will stick, although this week we have had major hic up.... He has been ill...  

Great advice though as I notice that my sons mood and even my own over the past two months has been much better then the past... (exclusing this week).  It is amazing that since he had been getting his sleep he woke up with smiles instead of screams...

Sleep breads sleep.. SO TRUE.....



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Tammy13
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Tammy13
Great Story!
Glad things turned out good for all of you, especially the little one needs her sleep so much! Good Night!


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tracey
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | tracey
Wow!

What a story. And you are right. I believe that when they sleep well, they continue to sleep well. I am contantly reminded of that everytime my youngest goes to bed late. I always think that maybe because she's tired she'll sleep in later. Nope. Never happens.

I enjoyed your post Kelly!



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