Below is what started on a blog and as I continued to answer I thought, this should be advice to others not tucked away in a blog!!!

The Question was asked, “If you could invent one thing?”

For me it would have to be a device that

would eliminate domestic violence...

Maybe it could be placed around the scrotum at birth and triggered when aggressive.

Not really a household thing or anything that would aide me directly but something that is needed to reduce much suffering.

So some would ask, “What do we do for violence towards men?” One suggested alternative was to place such a device around the throat of either.

After witnessing this sort of behaviour first hand (more mental abuse than physical) as I grew from a baby to a child, then from a child to a teenager I could handle no more and left aged 15. I still can not comprehend how or more importantly, why, someone could treat another human being so. Therefore, it is my belief that MAN should NEVER be violent towards a woman for any reason whatsoever.

In a relationship when things are not as sweet as they could/should be, it is the man that should seek alternative accommodation because it is easier for a man to "rough it" so to speak. If there are children involved the decision should be easier. The main family content should be afforded the right to remain as undisturbed as possible. The ability for a situation to scar a child’s mind indefinitely is reason enough to leave their foundation alone. The situation will already be difficult for them to understand, don’t make it harder.

So the suggestion to place the device around the throat does not do it for me as in my eyes, I would still see that as violence toward women. If he doesn't like the treatment he is getting from his spouse, let him be MAN enough to move on.

A bigger problem exists if a woman is violent to a man and we have to ask ourselves why this is so, it would be my guess that she has already been abused in some way at some time in her life and needs support, not punishment.

Many men are evil bas..tards and steps need to be taken to stop the habit of thousands of years.

I know my approach is a bit of an extremist one but a mans brain often lacks the stimulated activity necessary to develop everything else attached to it to such a level that they can be trusted with the woman and children many more of us love.

At least I am 100% sure that the contents of my scrotum would be safe.

I wonder how many could not be so sure??????????????????????????????????????????