Hello to all that read this:

My son was married to a beautiful young lady, they both decided to marry because of a child that was coming to their lives. They married in November of last year, soon after in April he was aired to his new home with the

National Guards-Army. They both knew of the seperation that was to come and in their own way they tried to cope with it. in June my grandson was born healthy and beautiful as can be. My daugther in law two weeks before my son was to come home she decided to leave the home that he with so much love left for her. My son arrived at the airport in September and to find out that she was with someone else. She picked him up but just to give him his son and then dissapear. Soon after she decided to call him and be a victim, she said " why are you trying to keep me from my son, I just want to be with him." My son told her that the doors are open for her when she is ready to return home. it has been the most longest week of my sons life. all she does is call him and cry that she want to work things out with him and she want her son with her. They are still married to this day: My son continues to ask her to please retun home where she belongs and that everything will be forgiven. She rather not because of the new life she has with her new guy whom she calls her best friend.

My advice to my son is to give her an alternative, either her husband and son or a divorce.

I as his mother, I will be with him 110% even more. I told him if she decides to come back I have no grudges agains her, because if she is the woman that he loves than that is the woman that I will love and care for, even if they don't work things out I will still love her because she had my grandson whom I love with all my heart he is just 3 months old, I wish I knew how to help her.