I think its important that we as mothers, in particular, that we remember who we are - you know - before we became mothers. My main priority is my children and my family. But I can see we need a balance also. This means taking time to do things for ourselves as well as looking after ourselves. Its not selfish to eat properly,  to dress nicely and to have your own hobbies.

I have many hobbies - creative and practical eg. knitting, writing and photography. I feel lucky i can pursue these while caring for my children. I am trying to deal with that guilty feeling, that somehow I should be attached to my children. I do know its much better for the whole family to have time to oneself - to remember that mothers are people too - not slaves. Particularly when I stay at home and I am on call to my children 24/7.

Lets get rid of those guilty, selfish and restricting feelings. Respect motherhood, respect yourself as a mother.
As they say -"If mama happy, then the family is happy"