Re: need some advice please
Asked by mrsbargin

Question:
 

ok i am seperated long story but i am concerned as my ds and dd went to their dads yesterday for 2 hours any way i am tring to get to the point

hehe last night when i went in to soy night to dear son he was in a meditation position some thing he has never done before that in it self did not worry me it was his coment that did (please keep in mind my boy is inpulsive) he told me that his dad had told him how a person can kill them selves using their own brain and the power of it feeling rather alarmed that d son may have been tring to see if their was some truth to it i asked him what he was trying to do he told me he was just tring to make hi brain quiet. What concerns me is that their dad has bee talking about how to make bombs with them and guns and now this!!!!

I am starting to think that contact with their father is a bad thing not good.

any advice????

My Advice:
Well the best place to begin i think would be to agree to the others about keeping what goes on in a diary or on calander so you can see when and what happened. The problem is and it could be different to where you are in the world, but the fathers in this day in age have alot more rights in seperations where kids are involved. So the other thing you are going to need is to get advise of a lawyer who will tell you what the next best step is. For me I had to take my kids to the police because he was drinking and my ds broke his arm. They then talked with my ds and they reported it to child safty. I then had to also was advised to report it to child safty. Even though the kids are obviosly in no immediate danger with you this is so it can be on record of what was happening while they are in his care so you can make moves for him to only have supervised visits. I hope this helps.