What do i tell him
Hi fantastic minti mums,
I'm a little stuck.....I am going away tomorrow afternoon for my first weekend away without the kids. Fun for me but the problem is Josh (almost 4) has bad seperation issues. I happened to mention to him that i was going away and i used the example of how daddy went away a few weeks ago and Josh and Amy stayed home and we had lots of fun with mummy and now Josh and Amy will have lots of fun with daddy. Well this morning he got pretty upset about it when we were talking and now he is saying that mummy should stay home and daddy can go away again.
I haven't told him where i am going because i am spending a few days with my sisters who he is very close with so i thought i would leave that bit out.
I guess my question is, do i just leave tomorrow afternoon and pretend i am going out for the night and let hubby deal with it the next day? (if there will even be a problem the next day)
Or do i explain that i will be back in 2 sleeps and just let hubby deal with the tears when i leave?
He has only ever been away from me overnight when i was in hospital having Amy for 5 days and 1 of those days there was a 24 hour period i didn't see him.
Sorry for the long winded question but i don't want him to think i am leaving and not coming back. Also i haven't really mentioned Amy in this question because she will have no problems. She's a daddy's girl. lol
Thank you in Advance
Juzzy xoxoxox
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