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Juzzy
Juzzy | July 1st

What do i tell him

Hi fantastic minti mums,

I'm a little stuck.....I am going away tomorrow afternoon for my first weekend away without the kids. Fun for me but the problem is Josh (almost 4) has bad seperation issues. I happened to mention to him that i was going away and i used the example of how daddy went away a few weeks ago and Josh and Amy stayed home and we had lots of fun with mummy and now Josh and Amy will have lots of fun with daddy. Well this morning he got pretty upset about it when we were talking and now he is saying that mummy should stay home and daddy can go away again.

I haven't told him where i am going because i am spending a few days with my sisters who he is very close with so i thought i would leave that bit out.

I guess my question is, do i just leave tomorrow afternoon and pretend i am going out for the night and let hubby deal with it the next day? (if there will even be a problem the next day)

Or do i explain that i will be back in 2 sleeps and just let hubby deal with the tears when i leave?

He has only ever been away from me overnight when i was in hospital having Amy for 5 days and 1 of those days there was a 24 hour period i didn't see him.

Sorry for the long winded question but i don't want him to think i am leaving and not coming back. Also i haven't really mentioned Amy in this question because she will have no problems. She's a daddy's girl. lol

Thank you in Advance

Juzzy xoxoxox



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simplyme01ca
July 2nd | simplyme01ca
Re: What do i tell him

I know its hard but you did tell hime that you are going away for a bit, leave it at that but make is sound really exciting that he is a big boy staying at home with daddy...make sure you sound really proud and excited at the prospect too...It may work...I do this with my four year old when she has to stay home while I go out somehwere without her.

Anyways, good luck have a great time with your sisters.

T.



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      amb1
July 4th | amb1
Re: What do i tell him

simplyme01ca members advice on this subject is spot on.



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janicepovey
July 2nd | janicepovey
Re: What do i tell him

 Juzzy have a great time away with Sis and pass on my love, please.

You have told him, I would leave it like that and don't make a big deal out of it now....I think I would be just make  out your going out for the evening and let dear Dad explain your couple of days away, after your gone....on your return Josh will realise you weren't gone for good.

Janice xxxx



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      neets
July 2nd | neets
Re: What do i tell him

sending Love back to ya Janice xxx



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diesel05
July 1st | diesel05
Re: What do i tell him

Firstly lucky girl, have a great time.

Sounds like Josh is a lot like my 4yr old.  Don't tell him exactly were you are going if you think it make it worse.  Maybe tell him you are going away as you have and leave it like that. 

I recently went into hospital for a few days.  Just told the kids was going to the doctor obviously they can to see me but only for a half hour or so.  The kids were fine, even though my 4yr old won't let me husband put him to bed if I'm home.

Just make sure you husband distracts them, maybe have something fun planned for him and the kids.  Hope he is fine for you, I'm sure he will be just a little clingy when you get back.

Have fun.



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