thank you i took another test yester day it was positvie im 4 weeks and scared to death of losing he or she  what can i do ps

im only 21 grew up w/out  a mother need advice!!!!!

Stop drinking caffiene immediately, it can put the pregnancy at risk. Elivat pregnancy tablets are the best to take, so if your not taking anything do so immediately, gentle exercise, and counselling to help you through (professional), low your stress levels and keep the news to yourself until you reach 12wks ( I think you said you had an early m/c). Keep your self busy doing hobbies or reading good novels like Clan of the cave bear series by Jean M Auel. By keeping your mind busy, you stop focusing on what might happen. Gentle sex too and ask your doctor for an early ultra sound at 6wks and again at 12wks. Don't be afraid to tell your doctor what your feeling book a double appointment so you have time to talk. I can't remember when you said you lost the last pregnancy but if you lost it a month ago there is an increased chance of a miscarriage happening again. I'm sorry if this upsetting. Talk to your doctor. I sent you an invite to cherubs so you can read my story and others and all the advice that has been posted. Feel free to post any Q's on cherubs, this way you can avoid any insentive comments and get advice from people who have been in your position.

Cheers Raven

i have to go back thursday to make sure my hcg levels are doubling!!!!!! i have been praying every night for a healthy pregnancy so if you could pray for me to i would greatly appreciate it im at wrk now so ig2g ttys!!!!!!

ps thanks so much for your advice!!!!

Hi,

I am writing in response to Raven's comment. I noticed that you have set up a special blog/group for this sort of issue and as I have been through the same sort of thing/s myself a few times, I would like to be apart of this group to contribute, read and help.

So can I just join or do you have to send me an invitation?

Regards, Nicci                                                                                                      

ABSOLUTELY, I'll send an invite right know.

Cheers Raven