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halfacandy
halfacandy | July 14th

How do I answer an eight year old.

Last week my grand daughter and the rest of the family were watching a movie where the word "masturbate" was used in the dialog. She asked me what it meant. Do I pass it off, tell her to ask her teacher, tell her the truth or what do I do? Help please!

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halfacandy
July 18th | halfacandy
Re: How do I answer an eight year old.

 I would like to thank you all very much for your suggestions and let you know "k" has but one parent and he has difficulty discussing things of that nature with her. I'm sure he will find a way. Thanks again.



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Izzy
July 15th | Izzy
Re: How do I answer an eight year old.

Personally, I would want such a conversation between me and my child. So I would suggest that you tell the parents about the conversation and let them decide how best to discuss the subject.



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janicepovey
July 14th | janicepovey
Re: How do I answer an eight year old.

 I presonally feel this delicate subject should be left to her parents to decide how to handle the subject.

For me I feel she is still to young to take in the meaning of such a word.



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mystikal
July 14th | mystikal
Re: How do I answer an eight year old.

My first question would be why an 8 year old was watching that sort of movie... but anyway it depends how your grand daughter's parents want to handle the situation. If you were to explain it to her without her parents permission you could get in to quite a heated debate. So firstly I would approach them and if they wanted you to let her know, then explain it to her. Or alternatively you could take her to go see a nurse who could explain it to her. Alternatively you could just ignore it until she hits age 12ish where it will be explained with parental permission by a sexual ed teacher.



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      Blackcat
July 16th | Blackcat
Re: How do I answer an eight year old.

We actually had the same question asked by our 7 year old son last week.  We were watching Transformers and have seen it numerous times but my son heard the word 'masterbate' in the sentence and asked the meaning.  We didn't go into detail but let him know it is something only for adults.  He was happy with that and asked no more. It is definitly something that should be discussed with the parents of the child as to how open they are with their daughter about those questions and the parents lead.



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      soozntone
July 14th | soozntone
Re: How do I answer an eight year old.

I agree with mystikal..  As long as her parents agree you really should answer her question..  If you don't she'll just ask it again later.

Maybe it's time to get one of those books that explain in childrens terms about the human body..  Try your local library, they should have an idea on which one is best.



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