Finding a job is so tough today.  We were just talking about the huge amount of people that we know relocating for work. If you need to find work, that is what you have to do.  Helping is great when you can.  If you find work and they join you maybe one parent is going to have to stay with the kiddies until they can find good child care that they can afford.  Combining living would save until you get a footing and offering that is helping a lot. Bets of luck!

There are worse things than not being able to find work. Being seperated from your children and partner are one of them. Having a well meaning but nagging family member that thinks they know best insisting that you do what they think is right rather than letting you live your own life is another.

I suggest that you let your daughter and her partner know that your door is open if they need your help, but let them make the decision for themselves about where they want to live.