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work dilemma
hi everyone. long time no talk :)
i am returning to ask for some help on making a decision. next year when my twins go to school i am going to find it hard to work my current shifts and get the kids to school and the youngest to childcare. i am a single mum with little support and no-one to care for the kids during the week. before school care doesn't start early enough for my 7 am start on tuesdays. i also work every 2nd weekend and my ex (their dad) looks after them.
i have to work at least 4 shifts per fornight in my current job (i am doing 5) and i cant change workplace because i will need to apply for a home loan soon.
at the moment i can see 2 alternatives. i could apply for a clinical nurse position which would be full time 8:30-4. pro- would see the kids every weekend and i wouldnt have to rely on their dad; con- my youngest would see me less. anything part time, unless its what i am doing now, would be on a rotating roster and impossible with childcare and school hours.
OR i could do night shift and that would mean that i could still take them to school and pick them up, but it would mean the kids would have to stay overnight somewhere other than their own beds (and i want to avoid them spending time at their dads- he doesn't cope, has a pet rat that runs around the house pooing everywhere, and he hasn't made room for them to sleep comfortably in his 2 brm unit).
i feel stuck. the kids need me, but i need to work to get us a house to live in (our house we have to sell so that i can pay out the separation settlement).
help!
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