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rich115
rich115 | May 2006

Crying Within An Hour of Bedtime

Our daughter, who's 2 years and 5 months has been cutting back on her daytime sleeps. I'm not convinced this is the right age, but it also seems that a side effect is a form of night terror. Several months ago she would wake at about 11pm (after going to bed at 7) crying. She appeared not to be awake, and it would take 10 to 15 minutes to settle her back down. These eventually disappeared. Now, however, an hour after bedtime (8pm) she is waking up crying. She, again, doesn't really look awake, and won't really respond to anything. It takes perhaps 5 minutes to settle her, and she goes back to sleep. Any one with ideas?

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FireFighterDaddy
2.00 (Poor) | June 2006 | FireFighterDaddy
Ease the Restless

Apparently this is a common problem with children between the ages of 2 to 4.  I have been told by my doctor that it is completely normal and sometimes has to do with an independence struggle your child might be having.  In this age range they are continuously exploring the world with a little more independance and while this is a good thing, I have been told, that they also realize that the world has dangers and things they don't understand.  I have been through this twice with my two older daughters my 18mth hasn't started to experience the night terrors yet.  When I was going through this stage, I found that cutting back on the TV they watched helped, as well cutting back on foods near bedtime.  I also tried to reassure them more during the day by giving lots of positive re-enforcement.  Also at this age your child can start to understand more so I would talk to her about things during the day as they came up, and at night I would spend more time in her room right before bed read a story and talk about her day.  I found that it was a chance for me to learn more about how she processed the events we had been through over the course of the day and as I learned more about how she saw things, I was able to know what things she was unsure of what things she might have misunderstood and areas where we needed to boost her confidence .  Just follow your gut feelings and remember that children are sponges and although they seem to be fine with their new found freedom they are also still small and they need your guidence more than ever, it's a big world they just don't understand yet and that can be a little scarey. 



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yumsus
4.00 (Good) | May 2006 | yumsus
Same thing here
Hi rich115, that's almost word for word what happened to our daughter (including timing).

I found that waking her up was more successful in getting her back to sleep. She would stop crying, have a 2 minute cuddle then go back to bed no problem. This however didn't actually stop the cycle repeating. In the end my wife discovered that by limiting her day sleep to no more than 1.5 hours that she would sleep all the way through. Why? Who knows, just glad she's sleeping right through without crying! :) See if it works for you. I'll also ask my wife for the latest advice on this.


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rachelcook
4.20 (Good) | May 2006 | rachelcook
Hey Rich
Someone out there may have had the exact experience. But here's my bit of advice. We have experienced this on occassion with Codi, particularly if he's had a stressful time with a babysitter. I have heard of night terrors and it may be an idea to check how she is going during the day at daycare. I have noticed lately with Codi, he is flying his hands up and down to things he doesn't like, however mainly to stop other kids from bossing him around. Which I have had to watch. A friend of mine, highly skilled in organisational and human behaviour, mentioned "dream talking" to her kids before going to bed (primary school age) and how much of a difference it made to nightmares (one of them changed schools). Here's a link I found which you may like to check out..SleepTalk for Children - good luck


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