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TrishySwishy
TrishySwishy | August 2006

Potty Training?

I was wondering when do most people start potty training? How did you start? What's your technique? How long did it take? Do you use a little "mini" potty or a toilet attachment?

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MumSpeak
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | MumSpeak
Skip to the Loo

Take the lead from your child.  If they are interested it will come a lot more quickly than if you try to force it.  It's no fun if it's stressful and there is pressure.  Lots of positive affirmations work wonders.  It can take a few days or quite a few months depending on the child.  As for potty seats I did not enjoy the thought of emptying them, kicking them over etc so I had a seat that they climbed onto with a couple steps attached to it.  Also when you go out there is often no potty at the shops, restaurants etc and I wanted them to be trained when we were out and about.

 



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squeekenskittles
4.31 (Good) | August 2006 | squeekenskittles
Potty training thoughts
From what I have read most people start potty training around 27 months.  I have a boy who just turned 17 months old and he has shown TONS of interest in the potty so we started training a few days ago and it is going great!  Generally when the children show interest (perhaps they come to the bathroom with you), if they notice their genitals or yours and have started to develop the "NO" I don't want to response then it is about the same time you can start potty training.  Something that I have found EXTREMELY useful not only in the potty training department but in ALL areas of communication with my child is sign language.  This is a big help.  Cuts down on tantrums because you can understand what the child wants and when they want it.  I showed my son the sign for bathroom once and then he started telling me when he wanted to go sit on the potty.  As far as the "mini" potty verses the toilet attachment...it really depends on your child.  If your child is the mirror image of you and wants to be big like you and is an independent child I would recommend the toilet attachment.  My son is uncomfortable with the "mini" potty.  We purchased one a couple months ago thinking he would love it, but we didn't take into account what type of personality he had.   That was $10 down the drain. He wouldn't sit on it at all.  So we gave up potty training until we remembered to get the toilet attachment.   But the first time we sat him on the toilet attachment he peed and within 4 days he has peed once and pooped twice on the toilet (EVERYTIME- telling us through sign language that he wanted to go potty).  I also hear boys are more difficult to train than girls, so most people have to wait longer until the boys warm up to the idea!.  I hope you are as lucky as I am if you choose to start potty training your child.  GOOD LUCK, hope these thoughts help.


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      Kate
August 2006 | Kate
Congratulations!

Seriously, I've never heard of it being that easy!

Nowadays, with pull-up trainers complete with all the bells & whistles, I think we are not giving our kids enough credit.  The latest training diapers I've seen feel "cold" when they get wet... isn't that too late?! How does that help?! 

Most children are aware of their body functions by the time they are 18 months.  That's not to say that they are ready to be trained at that time, but I do think that these "fancy-pants" will actually make training take longer because it allows the child to be lazy.  I know that every kid is different, but if you follow their cues rather than trying every trend on them, toilet training will happen naturally and with alot less hastle.  



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wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | wildrose
Whenever you ready
You can start whenever you and the baby ready. Some people do early as in 12 months some do a little bit later. I did when my son 2-2.5 years old. I used to ask him whether he wanted to go to toilet or not. Or just take him to toilet see whether he would do it. Then let him wore underpants, so he would learn if he's not going to toilet he would have dirty/wet pants.

Here some advice found in Minti you might want to read as references:
www.minti.com/parenting-advice/167/Potty-Training/
www.minti.com/parenting-advice/113/Potty--Toilet-Training/www.minti.com/parenting-advice/701/Toilet-Training/


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      nomes
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | nomes
Whenever you ready

I totally agree with wildrose.  Do it when you are ready, but also when the signs of interest by your child are there too.  I spent months going in sane trying to make my first child sit on the toilet/potty.  In the end, I relaxed.  This link, which is one of three wildrose mentioned, gives a general idea of how to use a stress less approach.  http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/701/Toilet-Training/ this next link www.minti.com/parenting-advice/167/Potty-Training/ is more indepth on getting started, knowing the signs and more hands on approach.  excellent tips on this one.  and the last one www.minti.com/parenting-advice/113/Potty--Toilet-Training/ is also a hands on approach which instills the idea that patience is a must. 

My preference in techniques is the first, only because it worked for me giving little or no stress.  My son used the toilet with a seat.  He did not find a potty comfortable.  He was day toilet trained by the time he turned 3.  We began the stress less approach at about 2 1/2.  My 2 year old daughter has dabbled in the concept. We have got a potty for her too, which she approves of as it has more bum space so it's comfortable. We went potty shopping, and she sat on them all and chose the one she liked the most.  She has also sat on the toilet.  Nothing has happened yet, but I'm not worried.



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