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mrscrumley
mrscrumley | August 2006

Bathtime woes

My 22 month enjoys bathtime, but he hates getting his hair washed. As soon as water touches his head he is crying and trying to climb out of the tub. Any suggestions on how to wash his hair without the drama?

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simplyme01ca
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | simplyme01ca
possible solution...
My 21 month old was the same way, loves her bath but as soon as I go to wash her hair she cries and tries to get out of the tub...What I started doing is to get her look down at her knees and watch the water run off of them.  It works for her but I have to keep reminding her to look down, I also tell her what I am going to do just to reassure her that all will be okay.  I wash her hair as soon as she gets in the tub and I rinse it after she is all washed then she know she can have her bath toys to play with...We do it the same way every time so she knows just what to expect when she is in the tub. 


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Kric
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | Kric
Hair washing

My little girl used to be just like that. What I did was wash her hair before I would put her in the tub. Saved a lot of fuss. I used to do it in the kitchen sink and set the toaster next to it. (unplugged of course and the kind that you could see your reflection in) I am not sure if people still have those, I guess any type of mirror would work if you could stand it next to the sink. This then enabled her to look at herself being a big girl and she got to see the bubbles in her hair.

Good luck



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elizabeth
August 2006 | elizabeth
Same thing

My son loves the water. He is three in september. He splashes his own face, jumps in the pool, blows bubbles, tries to hold his breath BUT when it comes time to wash his hair he screams blue murder. He wont wash his own hair, he hates me doing it and I know that he has never got any soap in his eyes. Maybe it is the sensation of having his head rub or maybe he thinks his hair is going to fall out,(his dad has a fear of going bald if you touch his hair) I don't know. Lets hope they grow out of it quickly.

x D x



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angelmum
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | angelmum
Bathtime woes
I've always given my kids a face washer to cover their eyes with, if they dont have one there is no way they will let me near them, I do it quickly and rinse with a cup, then make a big deal about how easy it was and what big kids they are.


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      Izzy
August 2006 | Izzy
Bathtime woes

I've seen what you're talking about. It's actually a visor so that water doesn't hit the child's face. Great suggestion!



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encorepi
3.00 (Average) | August 2006 | encorepi
Have you tried lying him down
Support his head and lay him on his back to wash and rinse his hair, it is worth a try.


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Blackcat
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | Blackcat
Bathtime woes

My eldest two children were in swimming classes at 6 mths old and didn't mind water on there heads after only a few lessons.  I then took the advice I learned from this and applied it to my third child who is 18 mths old and has only been swimming once (since we know live in Tassie not Queensland) and he can now sit between my feet in the shower with no trouble of water in his eyes.  Find a container which he can hold and punch one or two holes in the bottom.  Then while he is in the bath see if he will hold it above his head and let the water run over his face (have a dry washer on hand if he freaks out a bit so you can wipe his little face dry).  If he won't do that himself while he is occupied playing in the bath hold it yourself but at the back of his head and neck until he gets used to then bring it more forward to the top of his head until over time you can let it run a little over his face.  When he is really use to this punch a couple more holes so more water will come through.  This all may take time but remember to make it fun and exciting and tell him how good he has been.  Hopefully by the end of it you can just pour water over him and he wont even flinch.  I also would use no tears shampoo so you don't have to worry about stinging eyes.  Good luck



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sars
August 2006 | sars
once a wk tops (for hairwashing fuss)
My 21/2 yr old still won't let me regularly wash his hair, once a week tops he hates water on his face or in his eyes! apparently his grandfather doesn't like it and I've spyed his dad in the shower trying to shave and wash his face without it getting wet - very amusing! I figure being a boy (very sexist I know) they're supposed to be smelly aren't they? Just kidding, I'm hoping he'll grow out of it eventually, in the meantime i try to either trick him or tell him to suck it up its got to be done the more he fusses the longer it takes! Telling him it was a waterfall after we had seen one worked for a little while for the water on his head!


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cheleinkal
August 2006 | cheleinkal
Shampoo suggestions
You can hang a mobile or a swirly wind chime ($2- discount shop) from the ceiling above the bath and when it comes to hair washing, have him look up at it, 1. It's a good diversion. 2. water and soap will stay completely off his face.  I use a little water jug that came with my iron (they don't make them big enough to keep your iron filled, but perfect for rinsing little heads), I find that using a jug is a lot quicker and effective than a watering can (but that too is a good idea).  I also pop a folded face washer high on the forehead to prevent any stray drips.  I used this on many I problem child when I was a Nanny)

Another idea is to get a shampoo visor.  They come in all shapes and makes, I noticed you can get inflatable duck shaped ones at the moment in those catalogues people stick in your mail box (Penny Miller or something)  I have a foam one, that I found in a second hand store pre-kids, but fortunately have a baby that loves laying back in the bath getting her hair wet, so have never neded it (will keep incase number 2 isn't that way inclined).

Making a game out of it and puting on a funny voice is also a good and distracting way to get their mind off exactly what you're doing.  I'd often use funny accents and either comically bark orders (kind hogans hero's style) or an airy fairy voice making things up as I go like, "oont know ve make de boobles oon yar ed" etc  Vot ve do know, can't go to bed viss boobles on yar ed?" etc  They are bemused and find it very funny and if you sort of involve them, they may actually suggest you wash it off or pick up the jug and dump it over themselves.

Water in your open eyes does feel icky, soap in the eyes stings and if you are being forced into a lay back position into water even by your trusted Mum it is still out of your control and that is never a comfortable feeling.  So use a soap free shampoo and make it as relaxing and fun and distracting as possible, you will end up enjoying bath time more to as who can supress a smile when you are being silly??



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Izzy
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | Izzy
My son does the same thing.

My son is 16 months and does the same thing. When it's time to rinse the shampoo out, he stands up and tries to hug me and climb out of the tub.  But since he's learning to blow bubbles at his swimming class, things are a little bit (very little) better. I tell him to blow when the water hits his head. I think if I teach him how to close his eyes before the water pours, it may get even better.

 



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wildrose
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | wildrose
Bath toy
Have you use a little watering can, it gives a little spray on the child head. I also have a trick to do the spray on my head first then telling that I'm going to do it on my child's head. It seem work. Luckily I had no trouble. Another trick to make him convenience with drip on his head, try a little drip then make it a little bit more and more.


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