Helpful Children
Our kids have always been tough as nails when it comes to chores! so long ago,we decided that there would be no such thing as an allowance in our home. Instead as they got older and their chores got more plentiful, we opted for the work for what you want routine. It goes a little something like this "Mom! I just have to have that new CD player cause everyone else has it"! Moms reply "ok you know the deal,complete all tasks assigned to you including homework. No whinning, no complaints, and at the end of the month if all your work has been completed properly, then we will get you one." Child "a month!" Mom "are you complaining already?" you get my idea yes? We just thought that this method was a bit better than handing them money , andyou would be amazed at how hard they work for something that they truly want. I do however have a price limit, and they know I will not exceed it no exceptions. I am not saying that this method will work for everyone, but it did work for us.Tweens are so much fun aren't they!
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