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Sharing
Anyone got some tips on sharing? Ive tried everything!
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Sharing
I think if you teach your child from an early age to share, then it won't be so hard when they grow up. I find, if for eg. i'm eating toast, and have 2 slices, and my daughter would like one. I always say, i will share my food with you, and will give you a slice of my toast. If she has toys in her hand, and i ask her if mummy can have one, and i say can i share with you? and she'll sometimes say no, and then i tell her about the toast incident, and then she kinds of understands then.
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Sharing - no, play together - yes
I came from Israel, and in hebrew we don't say "share" to kids. instead we incourage them to "play together". I continued that with my son, even though we're in Australia and everyone wants him to "share" - i kept using the "play together".
I'm basically against the "sharing" idea, because we teach them to "share" things, and we, as adults, give them the opposite example - when i come to your home, would you share your clothes with me, or your car, or your DVD player and so on? we adults don't "share" our "toys" with others. at the most we lend them or we let you have it for a while or we "play" together (watch DVD together).
I usually tell kids to play together and if they want to have something just for themselves - 5 minutes child A and then 5 minutes child B (of course 5 minutes or 10 minutes doesn't really matter).
Also, i'm not sure your child's age, but basically up until the age of 3 - children don't understand the meanind of "sharing" or "playing together" - so there's not much point of pushing them to do so. Instead try to have few alternatives when there are few kids around.
Hope that helped.
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