hi there i enquired the other day for online line jobs and i came across herbal life selling it over the internet customers can only buy over the internet . i spoke to a lady this week and i have misplaced her number but if you are interested i can try and find it again if not she is ringing me back mon week so i can get it  this work pays you on how many hours you are willing to put into it . And its all infront, of your computer

hi there, I no what you are going through i felt the same., so i got a job from home and doing great, i dont ever have to leave my kids. Maybe thats what you need to look into. I can not leave my kids with there dad and i dont think daycare is good for them all the time.I just love being with them and i dont want to miss anything.

hi trixie its samantha here hehe i have quite a few ideas that would probably suit you,what about domestic cleaning for people which they are screeming out for, you get paid really well for that also in home day care were you go into peoples homes and look after there kids while there at work or whatever you could even take your daughter with you if you wanted

I think maybe right now might seem like the right time, but really it isn't for you. I'm not saying give up looking for work, Just wait a bit long maybe. I was supposed to start working again and went for interview after interview. It wasn't for me. When my kids are all at school, I will start looking,  Just not now. Good luck and keep your chin high and if it gets too much, Look after bubs and enjoy her as much as you possibly can, They don't last forever.

Hi,

Don't be too harsh on yourself.  My teenage daughter has had similar experiences.  I think some employers have unrealistic expectations.  I've trained people myself in the day care field and I've  found that nerves make a big impact on performance.  I've always  made allowances and given time and guidance, none of my staff ever let me down.

You can have a lot of help with your anxiety from your local doctor or they can refer to someone who can help you overcome it.  You can get a series of books by Bev Aisbett
that offers sound advice in dealing with anxiety and depression.  They are at the public
libraries. 

All said and done, taking care of your little girl and breastfeeding and giving her a stable
start in life is an incredibly important job.  Never undervalue this.  Take the time to enjoy
your children as they grow up very quickly.  Always remember to be kind to yourself.

Take care, Shazz

Don't get discourage, it is ur first one and maybe u wouldn't have been happy there. Everything happens for a reason, it is because something good is waiting for u at the right time. Take ur time looking for a job that u know u will really like, it is very important. Why don't u look in a daycare center for a job where u could bring ur little one with u. Good luck and don't give up, u are not the problem it just wasn't the right job for u, u just deserved something better. take care.

hI THERE Trixie,are you taking anything for your anxiety?It's just that a new job is nerve wracking enough without this sort of problem........I used to manage a tourist concern and I was expected by the owners to be pretty heartless and ruthless in expectations of new staff.........They would not (even the most ruthless)have been able to make a fair assesment in 3 hrs,employers usually make an allowence for nerves with new staff especially given your inexperience in this field.I think you are better off not getting a job with these employers as they obviously have no scruples.Why not wait until you've finished breastfeeding till you enter the work force....you are already performing one of the toughest jobs their is!!!!!   Office commercial cleaners usually work at night and it pays OK They are usually fun people to work with as well.....I did this sort of work for awhile it is hard but hey you get fit LOL.Colleen's idea about school cleaning is a good one as well.Don't undersell yourself.......Honestly if you don't want to stop feeding (breast)leave going back to work for awhile.take care hugs Merle

I'm sorry to hear your feeling down about not getting the job but it is their loss not yours - something better must be waiting out there for you.  Your obviously doing a wonderful job as a mother or you wouldn't care so much.

Another suggestion for the type of work your looking for that is perfect for the hours you want is cleaning in a school.  Try your local schools in the area and see if they have anything.  Even if they don't now, ask them if you can be put on a waiting list if they have one.

Good luck and keep your chin up.

It is hard any where to find a job when you have kids. It is not you at all. It happens to all of us. I went through the same thing. It took me 4 months of looking for a job every day. I eventually got one. I was straight up. I said I have 4 kids, my husband will look after them when he gets home, Just give me a trial, I'll prove myself to you. Don't put your head down, they didn't deserve you anyway. Just keep trying, you will eventually find something that is suited to you. Good luck job hunting. Just remember keep your head up. I did and I am being rewarded for it now.

I found it impossible to even think about work as I also don't want my son in daycare at least until he can talk anyway. I found also that getting work without experience is almost impossible unless you can find a cleaning job ( they do usually pay well ). I found that to stop feeling useless which is how I felt I am now doing a correspondence course so that when the time comes I can get a good job doing something that I really want to do.

Good luck

 Lexi xxx

Dont feel like this over not getting a job ,as it is hard to get back in the work froce. you will find with most   jobs you apply for will give you two days with no pay and turn around and say you dont have it (the job),so dont feel rejected.

                         Something will turn up for you  its just a matter of waiting until it dose .Theres many teeages that go though the same thing  day after day going for jobs not getting pay for doing the job so you can image what they feel as well.

Have try to do cleaning at night in office blocks and at factorys  they are after 3pm most times you strat at 5pm  ,mybe look in that area for work its just a thought .Theres some nights shifts at some factorys as well so check them out  and also railway station which are three so i believe cleaning the trains after they are finshed.

 well i hope i have given you a few ideas anyway best of luck finding work