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i dont what to do
just wanted to see if anyone had any advice on what i should do well my mil lives with me and my hubby and we don't own our home we rent and now on the lease it states that only the ppl who is on the it can only live there and someone has informed the real estate that she has being living with us for the last 6 months now and they have told us that she has to and she thinks it a big joke if she doesn't go we all have to go and we cant get kicked out cause we have 2 kids and i baby on the way and we trying to help her get her own home but every one we look at its always no but i said u just have to take wat u can find but she thinks its funny she smiles about it me and my mil dnt get a long very well and she is getting on my nerves all she does is sit on the lounge all day and sleep or if me or my hubby is on the computer she always looking at wat we are doing and she gets in these bad moods and my little ones can pick up on her vibes i dnt know wat to do anymore its getting to much
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i dont what to do
well first and foremost, SHE HAS TO GET OUT OF THERE! that is your house and she is invading your space! and as you said, no you cant afford to get kicked out, you are a family for gods sakes, what about your kids??
do you have it in writing that she has to get out? sometimes thats all it takes for it to hit home.
another suggestion, and i dont say this lightly, when the kids are in bed, or better yet, out of the house, sit down with her, and say to her as tactfully as possible, 'get out before we are chucked out' well not in those words but you know what i mean. you gotta say it with such force that she knows ur not mucking around. whats it doing to your relationship with your husband for christ's sake! this might make you lock horns, (which is y i said to do it when theres no kids around) but at least if you do, as horrible as it is, she will know you mean business.
and last but not least, if she still wont bugger off, ring the real estate. more often than not, if you describe to them that you know shes not allowed to be there, but she just wont go no matter what you do, and youreally dont want to lose the house, sometimes they can offer you some sort of alternative.
good luck and i hope it all works itself out for you soon.
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Lexi xxx
