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allyp
allyp | January 2007

Climbing Stairs

I have a real important to ask... My daughter learned how to climb up the stairs today... BOY what fun that may seem like... NOT lol.. She's 10.5 months old and she will nopt stop going up the stairs, my baby gate that I have does not work, there is no where to put it to keep her away from it. I had to follow her twice now so that she would not fall backwards..

How do you help them climb back down the stairs themselves..?

ANY advice would help out alot.. Thanks



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Deborahsc2203
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | Deborahsc2203
Climbing Stairs
i taught my son to get down the stairs by him watching me crawling backwards .. other than that we close the door so he cant get to them


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Marlena
4.55 (Excellent) | January 2007 | Marlena
Climbing Stairs
Austin was the same way he started climbing the stairs at the same age.  You could teach them to climb up and down the stairs, but you still want to be ther when they do.  Even if they know how to climb they dont understand gravity.  Austin was awesome at it, but I found that he would climb down to a certin point thought he was done and turn around to call, but he still had more stairs to go.  So if you want your baby to be safe and not fall I would try to get another gate if you can just in case she is a dare devil like Austin. 


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Wendigo
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | Wendigo
Climbing Stairs - safely

When my eldest boy starting doing potentially dangerous things, like climbing up all manner of things, I had to make a choice.  I could try to stop him from doing it, or I could teach him how to do it safely.  Ultimately, I knew I wouldn't be able to stop him, so I took the second choice.  I was so glad I did.

At a playground I encountered a over-protective mother that wouldn't let her daughter climb anything more than two feet off the ground.  My boy at about the same age was like a monkey, totally confident and able footed.  When the over-protective mother turned her attention away for but a moment her daughter was up high and stuck.  She couldn't get down safely and looked quite clumsy.  She became scared of the height and almost fell several times.

My monkey boy ended up being the saviour of the day.  As the equipment was designed for kids, it was difficult for me to climb up safely, but I gave it a go.  The other mother was too scared to even try.  By the time I got half-way up my monkey had made his way over to the girl and showed her step-by-step how to get down.  When she got to me I decided to just hold back and let my boy show her all the way down, remaining ready to catch her if need be.  She got to the ground without any further problem.

Her near paniced mother praised my boy's climbing ability and commented that her girl wasn't a good climber.  I just explained that he just has more experience because I let him learn how to do it, and maybe her daughter would do better, and be safer, if she had more practise.  The following week I saw them there again, and this time the mother was proudly coaxing the girl to carefully climb safely, a little bit at a time.  By the time our kids were in kindy, the girl could climb as well and as safely as any other kid there.

Be it stairs, play equipment, trees, or whatever, I recommend that you would be better off teaching your child as soon as she starts taking an interest, and give her lots of practise until she can do it safely and well.   Otherwise, she will do it anyway and get herself into a world of hurt.

As for getting down stairs safely, one stair at a time on their bottom works well, or if she is too inclined to stand up and tip forward, crawling down backwards works too.  If you have a bannister she can hang onto, get her using it.



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liddia
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | liddia
Climbing Stairs

Hi.When my son was born we were living in a split level house with about 5 stairs from one level to the next, going down. When my son learned to crawl he also learned to navigate the stairs. on his tummy!! Naturally i used to watch, so that he wouldnt fall and hurt himself, but before long he could fly up and down those stairs in mere seconds. I had a baby gate at the top, but i found it more dangerous than not. One day he had pulled himself up using the gate and it came loose and he very nearly tumbled  head firs t down the stairs. So, down came the gate. As he learned to walk we were always there to ensure that he held the railing , he fell a couple of times, but it was all part of the learning process andmy ex and i were always within an arms reach of him so that he didnt injure himself. That was only 5 stairs. In another house that had far more than 5 stairs we had a problem with my 18 month old nephew. He liked to  be up and down the stairs, and these ones were far more dangerous. My son has a Robosapien, andmy nephew just happens to hate it!!!!!!!!!!.. So..as a final straw my sister put the Robosapien at the top of the stairs. My nephew would see it and would decide it a much better idea to stay on the ground floor!. Not everyones idea of a good thing, but it worked.

Good Luck!!



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pfallerj
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | pfallerj
Climbing Stairs
Check out this advice I wrote about teaching my son to "back it up"


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ckelly
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | ckelly
Climbing Stairs

Yes physically teach them to go backwards, even if it is sliding on there belly. That is how we taught  my son.
At the moment we are trying to teach him to walk down stairs - thats something i'm sure you will look forward to - NOT.
LOL and good luck.



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mommyofone
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | mommyofone
Climbing Stairs
We found a baby gate that actually mounts to the wall.  It is wonderful, there is a little latch that you have to lift up to get the gate off of the hook when you want to move it.
As for going down.  I would take Alexa and have her turn around and say "backwards".  Then I would move her legs a little to show her the right movement and say "down".  This only took a couple of times and she has been going down ever since!
Good luck and I hope all this advice works!


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MadMel
4.85 (Excellent) | January 2007 | MadMel
Climbing Stairs
Hi,
With both my boys they learnt stairs from very early... around the 7 month mark. As soon as they could move. Mum had stairs in her house that we could block.  We taught them backwards too. Just as has been said. They will catch on very quick. Just remember to remind them and say "backwards" when your showing them. That way if one day your too far away to grab them you can just yell out "backwards" and they will remember.
Good Luck!


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      mama03
4.83 (Excellent) | January 2007 | mama03
Climbing Stairs
this is how we taught our kids!  One another thing we did was to let think they were going to fall, just stay right behind them & when they start to lose their balance let them feel like they are going to fall but catch them before they actually hit the ground & don't let them get hurt or scared.  i think it taught them how to catch their balance.


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      allyp
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | allyp
Climbing Stairs

thank you very much

after i wrote this she fell off 2 stairs, my lord shes fast and i went straight to her and her little nose is red but not broken thank god and she's gone right back to it... What a dare devil this girl is lol



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Izzy
3.67 (Good) | January 2007 | Izzy
Climbing Stairs

Wow, she rolling along fast, your little one!!!  My suggestion is to invest on a good sturdy baby gate because you never know when she will sneak in the stairs to climb up. Either that, or block it with something that's hard to move but won't fall on her if you don't need to go up and down much during the day.

As far as teaching her to climb down, here's what I did with my son. Position her so that she looks like she's going to go up. And then pull her leg one at a time and let it touch the next step down. And then the other leg, then the other. Do this for her until she does it on her own. Also, teach her to approach the top of the stairs by going backwards.  If she crawls towards the stairs, make sure you turn her around so that her legs go down first. Again, do this until she does it on her own. By the way she's going, it won't take her long to figure this out. 

Stay safe!!

 



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      allyp
3.67 (Good) | January 2007 | allyp
Climbing Stairs
Thanks Izzy... Yes she is rolling along fast.. TOO quick for my liking lol... I hope this works for her... Little shit that she is, I go over to bring her back down the stairs and she laughs and puts this evil look on her face LOL..


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