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ckelly
ckelly | January 2007

How do I deal with naughty behavior in a one year old

My 15 month old has just started throwing toys, nothing unusual about that, only problem is that he has taken to throwing them at other children or at our dog. He is quite strong for a one year old and throws anything he can move, children’s chairs, plastic Tonka trucks, wood blocks etc. I have tried to smack (well finger tap on his hand actually), take toys away, put my son in time out, get down to his level and tell him its not a nice thing to do.
My main concern is that this will elaborate into violent behavior towards other people, any suggestion on how I can stop this sort of behavior before it becomes a major issue or someone gets injured.



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Deborahsc2203
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | Deborahsc2203
How do I deal with naughty behavior in a one year old
put the toys in a naughty box . ie if he throws them then you put them away so he cant play with them untill he gets rewarded for good behavour you take one out again and so on ,, you will have to be strong and keep repeteing this untill he gets the picture


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nannie0383
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | nannie0383
How do I deal with naughty behavior in a one year old

Through my experiences, the best thing to do with a child that age is to say " No, Gentle", and touch their arm or hand softly, then show him what to do with the object in hand (move the truck back and forth, or stack the blocks). In order for this to work, it has to be done the same way each time. This technique usually takes about 2 weeks of practicing before you see any results. Just remember to be patient each and every time, and remember that he doesn't know that he is doing something "wrong", but is just testing out "action and reaction".

P.S Try not to show any sort of animated face (anger or laugh) that only encourages them.

Good Luck



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primrose1963
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | primrose1963
How do I deal with naughty behavior in a one year old
He doesn't realize he's doing anything wrong..to him its just play.  When he looks like he's going to  throw his toy,  take his arm, give it a squeeze, look him in the eye and with a firm voice say NO..DANGER, and remove the toy from his hand.   If he continues the behaviour, repeat the discipline.  If he does it again, say the same words, but put him in his crib, with mummy said NO.  Let him stay there 5 minutes, and then go and get him.  He may think its a game and challenge you to see what you will do,  and try it again.  Just repeat the  discipline consistently so he knows what to expect, and always follow through. 


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      monyq83
January 2007 | monyq83
How do I deal with naughty behavior in a one year old
i agree, ive done the same thing, but instead i squeezed his hand and said in a stern voice NO! it works wonders.


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Dawn
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | Dawn
How do I deal with naughty behavior in a one year old

Try stopping him before he throws a toy, remove it from his hand and tell him firmly NO THATS NAUGHTY! The tone of your voice will get his attention, and he will understand from that tone that he is doing something that displeases you! It may take a bit of time, because children like to test their parents to see how far they can push! Be persistant and continue to remove the object he wishes to throw while firmly telling him NO THATS NAUGTHY ! He does understand what you are saying!



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pfallerj
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | pfallerj
How do I deal with naughty behavior in a one year old
Try this advice I wrote awhile back

http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/2760/Discipline-at-8-Months/


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lexiw
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | lexiw
How do I deal with naughty behavior in a one year old
I agree with channy at this age a time out dosn't really work so taking the object from him and explaining why then ignoring him would be your best option it has worked for my son who is now 19 months and dosn't throw toys at the kids in his play group anymore.


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madchanny
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | madchanny
How do I deal with naughty behavior in a one year old
my son is exactly the same (hugs) last weekend i visited a friend who had a little girl my sons age, at first he was trying to throw everything at her and then after a while, he calmed down and they started playing nicely together. i think why my son does it is to show off, and the best way to deal with it is to take the toy or object off him and then ignore him, Im pretty sure these things are phases some kids go through and hopefully he will grow out of it soon. xox channy..


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      madchanny
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | madchanny
How do I deal with naughty behavior in a one year old
sorry, i also went through all of my sons toys and packed away all of the small hard ones (blocks, cars etc.) my mum suggested it to me and said to give some back in a couple of months time and see how we go from there. good luck! xx channy!


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