Hello, your not the only one, all 4 of my boys could not wear underpants when they first started training they would go in the undies and then complain they where wet. They didnt like the undies s close to there skin. So l never worried abut putting them into them in the end . Sound like your little girl does not like them , either she cannot get them off in time or just the feel of them next to her skin.

Good luck and let her enjoy her freedom while she is training.

Hi there, I found when I was toilet training my son it was best to leave him pantless until he really knew what he was doing.  He too used too wet himself if he was wearing pants and we found out it was because he was having difficulty pulling his pants down quick enough. He used to wait til the last second before he would rush off to the toilet. Maybe your child is the same?

i am also toilet training my daughter at the moment....but without underpants. I am using pull-up nappies instead. I find that when i assist her every half an hour she will usually do something on potty 2 or 3 times... other times i have only just missed.
I have an advice article on toilet training, although i am not sure as to whether it will be much help to you.
I hope you find a solution soon!
Good luck!