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emmysmum
emmysmum | April 2007

Coke question got me thinking!

Whilst this isn't related to coke i am just wondering....
How many parents don't feed their children a certain type of food because
a) you as a parent don't like it
b) couldn't be bothered to cook it AND
c) aren't willing to pay the amount for the food (including healthy vegies and fruit) that your child would like to eat?

Just a few questions i'd like to be answered HONESTLY!

Thankyou

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mnkygirl
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | mnkygirl
Coke question got me thinking!

as a parent to an food allergy child, there are certian things that do not come into my home, but i eat outside the home and not infront of her. 

but then I hate sweatcorn and cauliflour with a passion, yet i still cook ii for my daughter, as she loves it, because there are so many things that i can't give her, so I have choosen not to deny her the things she enjoys, but there are time that I think, why do I have to cook it, prepare it and then serve it, just to have it sitting there and my duaghter saying I don't want that tonight.



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      MadMel
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | MadMel
Questions for mnkygirl
Can I ask do you not like sweetcorn and cauliflour because you were made to sit at the table and eat it?
My mum has this. She was forced to eat everything on her plate before she left the table and she hates a lot of things. I was never made to eat anything and I love almost everything. Same with my boys...


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5kids
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | 5kids
Coke question got me thinking!
i cant stand yoghury yet my kids love it so thats what they get, cant stand tropical fuits but doesnt stop me from buying it love couscous and so do the kids. actually fish, salad and cous cous is one the kids favourite meals along with sausages and mash, pies and mash/vege and then at least once a week we all try something new like a new stir fry or asian noodles. no harm in trying.


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rosalinda
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | rosalinda
Coke question got me thinking!

Hi Emmysmum.

In all honesty, All 3 of those factors influenced what I fed my daughter... I was mostly vegetarian; so I didn't cook meat for her. When I stopped being vegetarian, I still wasn't any good at cooking it (& it was generally too expensive anyway) so I didn't bother. Being a sole parent, most of the food I prepared leaned towards the cheap. Oddly enough, now a lot of the vegetarian stuff is very expensive... So I've finally learned to cook meat. Tho I still lean heavily on rice & pasta. I will say tho that my daughter often liked things I didn't. So we could go out for a salad & she'd eat all the things I didn't like (we could share one plate); mushrooms, radishes, pickles, capsicum. So that made for an economical treat!
Parenting is hard enuff w/out putting ourselves thru the wringer, trying to keep up w/ all the latest dietary fashions. When I was a child I was fed on lamb chops every nite & lamb roast on Sundays... the vegetables were all prepackaged, overcooked, tasted of bland soap & disintegrated on contact w/ cutlery... That was cheap at the time. When my daughter was a child she was fed on lentils, potatoes, plain yoghurt, brown rice & bean sprouts... She hated it until she left home; then she rang & asked how to cook lentils b/c she was missing them... Just as I developed a passion for lamb chops when I was in my late 30s (I hated them w/ a passion up until then). Tho I still can't come at overcooked frozen veges. Lets just feed them whatever comes to hand (& try to work in something vaguely healthy once or twice a day). Too many kids & parents end up tied up in knots around food. Less stress makes for happier childhoods!



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tassiebiarch
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | tassiebiarch
Coke question got me thinking!

my children eat anything and everything

they eat anything they want i have no boundries at all

the only things we don't cook is broad beans brussell sprouts thats it yuk

 



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mumof1girl
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | mumof1girl
Coke question got me thinking!

answer to part a, i always give my daughter the foods that i love or like to eat and what i don't like to eat. She loves some of the foods i don't like to eat, which is a good thing, and she eats some of the things my partner ( her dad ) don't like either, and both of us adults don't like either, but i still buy it for her. Why should she miss out on something if we don't like to eat it? I'll still cook it or prepare it for her.

b, I always go out of my way to cook something for my partner and daughter if i don't like it. We all like different types of food. i don't mind doing it

c. I always make sure my daughters always got fresh fruit and veggies and meat in the house.

Hope this helps you out.



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MadMel
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | MadMel
Coke question got me thinking!
What dont we buy...

Eggplant
Turnips
Radishes
Squash
We buy all the basic veg broccoli, carrots, peas, corn, spinach things that I eat and enjoy. I wouldn't even know how to cook the other things lol

I didn't buy bananas when they were $20 a kg... that is just too much for me to be able to afford.

I dont buy roasts very often cos I cant be bothered cooking it. And I wont buy potatoes often.

i wonrt buy anything like custard, icecream, yoghurt and flavoured milks because Jaidan cant have dairy. We buy soy milk and their dad brought them a treat of So Good Soy Icecream the other day and they loved that.

I wont buy chocolate, chips, frozen chips, lollies, unhealthy stuff cos if its not in the house we wont eat it.


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      kiarasmom2005
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | kiarasmom2005
Coke question got me thinking!

If you don't mind I would like to make a suggestion. The best thing I ever found for cooking with usually very little prep time fuss time and being over a hot stove was a slow cooker. My husband was bragging because He was actually getting real meals. I tried putting a roast in the slow cooker and I was pretty pleased with myself (I had never made a roast before) It actually came out tender and juicy and I didn't have to mess with it!!! I prefer leisure cooking if I can get away with it because If I try to cook meat veggies and potatoes all seperately gauranteed one thing will be cold or undercooked!!

SLOW COOKERS RULE!!!!!!!!!!!!

 



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           MadMel
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | MadMel
Coke question got me thinking!
Thanks for the tip! I will get one tomorrow!! i want to cook them but i just cbf lol


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madchanny
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | madchanny
Coke question got me thinking!
I myself dont eat any seafood at all, but Koen still eats it, every once in a while ill buy the fish and Daz will cook it for Koen and himself, so Koen still gets to eat what i eat plus more.
i think i would allow Koen to eat pretty much everything( minus the sh*T organs from animals eg. tripe, kidneys, brain, tongue, etc etc)

I dont give Koen lollies either, maybe a chuppa chup once a month if that. Koen loves his peas! just like me, i tried to avoid bananas when the price was sky high, but thats about it,

once when i couldnt be bothered to cook, i went and got maccas and got Koen a Pasta Zoo happy meal, and he wouldn't eat it at all.

xx channy


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wolonfab
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | wolonfab
Coke question got me thinking!
A) okay so foods i hate and i dont buy .....are onions, chokoe, radishes, eggplant, orange juice or oranges, kidney, lambs fry, tofu

i dont buy yoghurt, icecream, custard, cream as my daughter cant have it so we all dont have, i do buy milk as i like my coffee, i dont like cordial, or soft drink, i dont buy  seafood (but will buy crumbed froan fish instead)...we also dont eat foods with nuts cause of allergies,

B) There isnt alot of food i wont cook.... i dont like the cakes in a box...id rather bake from scratch... and i hate the frozen meals

c) red meat i cant be bothered paying the price for esp when the kids wont eat it........and i wont pay the price for organics...... bananas had to come back down to $3 kilo for me to buy them again.....i hate the cost of dried fruits, and fresh juices, 

i think thats it.....and good question

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Deborahsc2203
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | Deborahsc2203
Coke question got me thinking!

I can just tell you what i dont give bubba cause i dont want him to have it or just cant stomach it myself ,,

brussel sprouts, choko , liver , kidneys .cooked cabbage ,

soft drinks , now not even ribena , just water

fish but thats all so far in the seafood department the smell makes me throw up .

other than that i give him what we eat and also fruit , bananas grapes mango peaches cooked apple ,and he dosent mind all the other vegies , loves mashed potato and carrot .



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      emmysmum
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | emmysmum
Coke question got me thinking!
lol i don't blame you abut the liver and kidneys part hey....we don't eat them here either....i think it's gross!
although emily has tried brains and when i found out i went really cranky.....but then remembered that it's good for neural activity!


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MummaBear
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | MummaBear
Coke question got me thinking!

To break it down.  Foods I don't feed my child because:

a) well, I try to get her used to things even if it's something I don't like because I'm raising her to enjoy food for what it is. I don't like cabbage, but gave it to her in her first year to get her to like it.  I still don't like it, but I put up with the taste for her to have it.

b) I'm a vegetarian.  I won't cook meat.  Having said that though, she has red meat at daycare and I do buy her tuna because she loves it and I don't need to have anything to do with it other taking it out of the tin and putting it in a bowl for her.  Also, she loves salmon and avocado sushi which I buy for her each fortnight so she's not denied meat, I just won't buy it except in tuna form.

c) ok I've seen some fruits and veges that are a rediculous price.  I don't like us to try something I've never seen before if it'll cost us an arm and a leg, but bananas and avocados are a favourite in our house and I still buy them when they are expensive. Just not as often as when they're cheap.  I tend to go shopping twice a week, at different places, and buy what's on special that week.  I go to the markets and buy the organic stuff which doesn't cost any extra but doesn't have pesticides etc on it. So if an eggplant was to cost $11 I would leave it there and come back when it's cheaper, we can live without it for a while.

Hope that answers your question.



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      emmysmum
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | emmysmum
Coke question got me thinking!
thanks for answering honestly!
It's good to know that people can answer these questions without feeling attacked! I know there are certain things i won't allow for my daughter to have until she is older, and also cos i can't stomach something when it's cooking .....but fruit and vege wise she has a decent range, with some vegies i don't eat, and a bit of fruit i won't eat!


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lucky321
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | lucky321
Coke question got me thinking!

theres only a few thing that i want aloud ny kids  and there are thoses  sports drinks ,coiral,musial bars, coffee and tea  two of theses can reunion there teeth  if they are given to much  and not clean probly and that means flossing after eating musial bars . i myself want cook cornsilver side as  the smell mades  me feel sick  other wise they can have what they like .

one rule in the house is  breakfast fast or junk food though the day 



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      emmysmum
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | emmysmum
Coke question got me thinking!
hang on....go to this site..... they make muesli bars and i can tell you now, they're muesli bars are far from unhealthy! They have gourmet nuts and seeds through the muesli and the muesli flakes are untoasted with honey flavour!
These muesli bars are a great source of protein which is needed to stabilise blood sugar levels and balance neural activity too! we have these every day as recommended by nutritionist!


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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | Jessgore
Coke question got me thinking!
there are only two things that my son won't eat unless someone else cooks it for him because the smell makes me sick... Seafood and mushrooms other then that I will give him every thing even if I don't like it....


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kiarasmom2005
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | kiarasmom2005
Coke question got me thinking!

hmmmm.............. well I am probably one of those parents. There are certain things in my house that I absolutely refuse to cook because i don't like them...for example liver. The hubby loves it but he can go out and buy it if he wants it. I know it's good for you but the stuff groses me out (sorry liver lovers).  I think there are alot of things that I don't cook not because I can't be bothered but I am still learning how to cook meals that don't come out of a box. I try to buy as many veggies and fruit that will not go bad in my fridge. My little one loves bananas and apples and cut up cucumber and tomatoes and I try hard to feed her things like that instead of crackers even. I am still in the learning process of all of the nutrition and healthy meals and stuff. I was a bachelorette for a long time and for the first year and a bit my hubby was always on the road so I only had to fend for myself. All a big learning process.

However there are things I refuse to by (other than some treats for lunches for my hubby).  In my grocery cart You won't see pop chips chocolate or things that I consider to not have alot of nutritional value. I think that having those things at our constant fingertips can be tempting. I just go to the store once in a while and get it if I have the munchies.

 



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      kiarasmom2005
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | kiarasmom2005
Coke question got me thinking!

oh ps sorry had something to add

I do plan to start trying more things that I have been known to turn my nose up at. like brusself sprouts and sweet potatoes, and squashes because I too think my kid should atleast try them. I try not to let too much of my dislikes rub off on her.

 



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RebeccaDorant
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | RebeccaDorant
Coke question got me thinking!
hehe i absolutly will never buy cut up or go in the same isle at the shops as capsicum, the smell just drives me nuts!!!... concequently if logan knows somone has capsicum even on pizza (fav food) that he's forced to eat (not by me poor thing) then he makes like hes gonna barf....lol... also fruitcake cant stand that either but logan likes that one because it's cake...:)'s for a cool question.


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rockclimbr4400
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | rockclimbr4400
Coke question got me thinking!
I don't like certain types of food, but I try to get my daughter to eat them anyways. I don't mind cooking anything, as long as someone will eat it. I will pay any amount for healthy food, I think it is worth it.


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MzKris
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | MzKris
Coke question got me thinking!
Im pretty lucky, my kids eat most thing i dont, most thing hubby doesnt and almost all the thing we DO eat, however i have to admit there are things i havent introduced to them like squash, choko, and some meat products like liver and such, but they havent been getting as much vegies lately...as my freezer decided to die  but i try to make up for it with fruit


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      emmysmum
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | emmysmum
Coke question got me thinking!
emily is offered those vegetables but she generally won't eat them unless they are mashed with potato and pumpkin lol (can't blame her they are awful)
and i don't offer emily liver because i can't stand the smell of it cooking....i also don't know how to cook it lol! But emily gets most meat products except for liver and stuff like that!


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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | hermy
Coke question got me thinking!
honesly ....yes we buy plenty of fruit and vegies but i have to admit that there are certain vegies i dont buy.....just a few because, i would have say all of us won't eat them....so the younger ones are not being introduced to them....bad bad


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      emmysmum
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | emmysmum
Coke question got me thinking!
hehehe at least you can admit it hey! I think the only thing i won't be introducing my daughter to until she is 5 yrs of age is peanuts and other nuts....and that will be upon her request!
Simply because nuts and peanuts are so touch and go with allergies....and because i have allergies i am afraid she will get them too!


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           MummaBear
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | MummaBear
Coke question got me thinking!
Definately if you're allergic to ANYTHING hold off giving it to your child. Hannah won't be having nuts because I don't know her father's family history with allergies.


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lilysmom
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | lilysmom
Coke question got me thinking!
I try to feed my daughter everything, including things i HATE like onions and green peppers and mushrooms. I guess I propably should feed her more cooked things, but my diet consists of mostly raw foods, because I'm a horrible cook. Wouldn't it be nice if a nice meal of meat and veggies cost less than a frozen pizza? LOL


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      kiarasmom2005
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | kiarasmom2005
Coke question got me thinking!

I always thought the same but I recently had one of my friends mom take me grocery shopping and teach me (i was on a strict budget and what I was doing in the past has not been working) She showed me pound for price ratio and here all this time I thought those expensive roasts weren't a good buy.  It turns out for my little family I can cut it up and that $14 dollar roast created 2-3 meals at 5-7 dollar meals!! sometimes it takes asking for help i guess

 



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           MadMel
April 2007 | MadMel
Coke question got me thinking!
wow can she take me shopping too lol

Maybe you could write up some advice on your shopping trip to help others out. I would love to hear more about it :)


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