Bedtime. What did you do with your one year old?
hi there
i had the same thing with my son. excect at bedtime he would scream till he threw up! ( still does occasionally) Kobe wouldnt sleep during the day for a while, which made night time crazy, as he was over tired and would be so cranky.
i had to do the controlled crying. i would even just give him up to 5mins crying then i would walk in the room, lay him back down in his cot and just sit on the floor in his bedroom. dont look at him ( read a mag or something to help pass the time, thats what i did) and dont sit close enough for him to touch you. just sit there for a few minutes until he calms down( when they see you there, it can help ease the stress for them), then quietly walk out of the room. you may need to do this a few times each time you put him down. Each time you do it, try move a little bit further away from him. and hopefully, eventually he will just go to sleep when you put him down.
Also, he may have developed a bit of a fear of the dark? a small night light can help as well.
i hope this helps. it take patience, but it worked for me. My son is now 2 and in a "big bed" so its fun trying to KEEP him in there at bedtime hehehe, thats a whole different thing though
take care
jade
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