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Britt
Britt | April 2007

upset!!!!

mark and i haved i  been trying for another baby for 4 months now and i cant seem to fall, should i be worried it only took one mishap to fall with sienna everytime i am late or do a test my hopes go up and then come crashing back down whats wrong with me and advice please help!!!!



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atacj05
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | atacj05
upset!!!!

I understand where ya coming from hun. don't stress yet. the dr's say give it 12 mnths before the do anything any way. There is nothing wrong wiht you and could ossibly be just that you are placing to much preassure on your self to fall preg.

I know of the ups and downs. I have been trying for more then 3 years now, Have been on fertility treatment,  had a misscarriage last year and now my dr is putting me in hosp for a laproscopy to find out what is goin on wiht me.

Don't write yourself of yet hun. like I sadi the Dr's wont do anything or even say there could be porbs till 12 mnths is up.

tyr to reax and stop stressing dont put to much pressure on your self to fall casue it wont work ok

if ya want to chat just send me a message.

I know all to well that it is very hard not to get upset and stress I ahve been doing it for like I said more then 3 years now and i can tellyou it is getting very heatbraking.

chin up keep smilling and good luck darl



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melilbrad
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | melilbrad
upset!!!!
stressing about it is most likely your problem. my mum tried for years and years and couldnt fall but as soon as they calmed down went on a holiday and didnt think about it, it happened  she ended up having four kids.


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jmrmumstheword
April 2007 | jmrmumstheword
upset!!!!
i truly know how u feel i get pregnant only days off the pill and so far my hubby and i have been trying for 11mths, 12 next mth, i have planned pregnancies before and the longest it took me was 2 weeks so yes it gets you scared thinking that maybe you can't but you have to keep going, take it from me i have 3 girls and two out of 3 were planned but this time it's really hard for some reason, the dr's won't even look at you until you have been trying for at least a year, sucks huh but it's life i have been for tests to see if i have endometriosis or anything along those lines and nothing i have had some freaky things been done lol but i wanted to know just like you but it worked out there was nothing to worry about and right now there is a huge chance i could be but i don't get my hopes up anymore due to too many false alarms you know
all you can do is try not think about it, i know how hard it si, and just don't take precausion, and don't stress you will be pregnant soon enough it might just not be the right time for your body yet
good luck sweetie i know it's hard keep smiling you'll be celebrating soon enough mwah Nikki xx


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HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
Don't worry!

You don't need to worry until after trying for 1 year.  The odds of getting pregnant when there are no interferring factors are really quite slim.

Each month a couple attempting to get pregnant naturally go through a range of emotions, that may end with frustration, anger and sadness when the woman's period arrives. About 50 per cent of couples will achieve a pregnancy in six months and a further 30 per cent will reach their goal in the next six months, leaving about 20 per cent of couples not pregnant at that stage.  Infertility is defined as a couple not conceiving after 12 months of regular unprotected sexual intercourse. (this information taken from mivf website).

If after a year you are still having troubles getting pregnant, then I would consider seeking advice from a fertility specialist.



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Britt
April 2007 | Britt
upset!!!!
thankyou all for your advice i will try to realax more lol, thanks so much for the advice it has eased my mind Brittxx


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Kirsty81
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | Kirsty81
upset!!!!
Sorry that you're feeling upset!  It was the opposite with me and my husband, my first baby took 10 months to fall, but this one was almost straight away.  And do you know what I put it down to?  All of the months of being upset, and stressing that there was something wrong with him or me, and charting everything down to the tee, and taking test after test after test, all with the negative result.  You've already got one beautiful baby, my advice would be to just relax, enjoy family time, and make a conscious decision to just let 'be what will be'.  Worked for me!!  All the best.


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toosh
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | toosh
upset!!!!

What everyone else has said is very true. It took us 12 months to fall pregnant with our first. My period was late every month, I did a test every month & got upset & stressed when they were negative. When I relaxed about it it happened! We were toatally relaxed with number 2 - if it happens it happens - and it happened instantly! Good luck!



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mumof1girl
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | mumof1girl
upset!!!!

Don't think about wanting a baby. It'll come naturally, and when you least expect it. Good luck in trying to concieve.



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RebeccaDorant
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | RebeccaDorant
upset!!!!
destress about it... babies come on their own timetable... i had the same feelings when we were trying for rhiannon but after 7 months i realised this, stoped stressing and it worked 2 weeks later found out i was pregnant. also (havent read the other posts so not sure if someone has already said this but...) if you save up having sex till you know you are ovlulating the sperm is more potent... be nice to your man though only leave it for 4ish days lol k :)'s


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kseers
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | kseers
upset!!!!
Hang in there - it took us a couple of years with my first!  Just try not to think about it too much and it will happen.  Most doctors won't consider it an issue until you have tried for twelve months (unless you are over 35).


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kastol
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | kastol
upset!!!!

Honestly dont worry.  Just relax and let it happen.  My husband and I tried for along time too.  One day we just decided we were concentrating on it too much and must relax more.  When we did "Hey Presto".  Good Luck

Kastol



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