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atacj05
atacj05 | April 2007

wetting and pooing

my 3 aand a half yr old daughter has been day ad night trained for a few mnths now. she was goin really well wiht both day trained for about 6 to 10 mnths now and night itme for 3 mnths. she hardly ever wet her pants day time and have ahd more dry nights then wet ones thankfully. but she never pooed herself. since my oldest boy was hme during the hols and he went back to his fathers a week ago she has been wetting and pooing herself. Huby asked her why the other day and sshe told him it is beacuse Ashley (my boy) is not here he went away again. the poor little darling is so insecure atm thinking everyone is gonna leave her to.

my Question is how can I help ehr to feel secure again and stop wetting and pooing i think if she dfeels more secure that might stop?

I also want to get her into daycare as she is very  loney but since this has started hubby is worried that if she has an accident while there she will get embaresed and teased and won't want to go back again. I am hopeing this to will help her settle...

help  any advice would be apreciated thanks



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atacj05
April 2007 | atacj05
wetting and pooing
thnks ladies for your advice and  Shamali she does know where Ashley is as we have told her and she comes wiht us to pick Cody up form theeire fathers place


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MummaBear
April 2007 | MummaBear
wetting and pooing
Oh the poor baby! My girl did that after she met her 1/2 brother and sister and then didn't see them again.  She was just over 2 at the time and went that way for about a month.  I put her back in night nappies but left her in knickers through the day.  Could you possibly make time for just the 2 of you, or maybe take holidays for a couple of weeks from work? It's a hard one but just show love and commitment and hopefully she'll get back on track soon enough.  Does your boy stay with you often? And has this happened before when she's seen him?


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emmie
April 2007 | emmie
wetting and pooing
you and your hubby need to show her as much love and attention as u can its ok to ask her questions your her mummy she trusts you and will tell you what is bothering her she will settle down just takes time


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Shamali
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | Shamali
wetting and pooing

I wouldn't stress too much about her getting teased at daycare, in my experience carers are normally discreet if they feel the child has insecurities and I haven't yet seen a child of your daughters age get teased as there are quite a few who have accidents aswell. As for her insecurities explain to her where Ashley is and why, reassure her that you are not going anywhere or anybody else she cares about. Use it in words she'd understand like ashley is on holidays. She'll get past it. If she tries care and gets distressed be careful that this doesn't increase her insecurities as my daughter was fully toilet trained and went backward when she unhappy in care, changed centres and she went back to normal.

Goodluck.



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