Did you know Viagra works for women too?

Have you tried dates ??

A weekend away ??

Its amazing how all those things can make you feel sexy & in love again !

Are there certain clothes that make you feel sexy?  Or certain foods or places?  Sometimes I think that your libido suffers because you aren't feeling good about yourself.  If you do something to make yourself feel good, then you might feel like getting a bit of er lovin... After all, sex is just the icing on the cake in a good day. 

Don't worry about it, unless your hubby is...  Does he need to get some sexy new look?  Do you need to go silly & get a sitter & go to a naughty shop or a drive in?  Have you discussed it together?  You might feel better if you do, like most things, a problem shared is a problem halved.

I think we all experience this at times.  Sometimes it is simply the boredom of our own lives.  I mean how horny can a girl get after looking after a house hold of kids.  And sometimes our men tend to get into the rut of the "nudge nudge, wink wind, are you ready..." and forget that we need a bit more foreplay than that.

And then sometimes, it can be a hormal issue.  Certainly would suggest talking to your GP about it.  Could be easily fixed.

after i had my son my libido went completely, thank god my hubby stayed as it was like 5 months with no sex.

Now hubby and i have a date day (have no one to have the kids at night time) where we spend the whole day together. we go see a movie if we can afford it, lunch and sex (but not always) if you have hubby at home at night sit and watch tv together or get a movie and hug, snuggle up. if you can get the time go away the 2 of you. it might be due to kids (i am asuming you have them and or are pregnant) you might just need to re-light the fire so to say.

good luck and let us know how it goes.

i'm afraid i don't have any advice for you but i do sympathise with you, i too at times feel like this, it seems to flucuate with me, i find my libido diapears when i'm tired which is nearly all the time sigh!, life is just so buisy who has time to think about geting in the mood, it takes time to get in the mood once you have kids, the only thing i can suggest is alone time with your partner, and not just for a few hours as that really puts the presure on as you know what the alone time is for lol, you really need to spend a good day doing some things together that do not involve sex or the intent to do so, which will relieve the pressure, then once you have relaxed and enjoyed each others company how you feel will change, we are not robots and when we are tired we do not feel like doing it, well i don't anyway, i like to feel relaxed and i like it to be spontanious not planned otherwise i feel under  pressure, i like to warm up to it, well thats just me anyway