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angieh
angieh | May 2007

Relationships and Body Issues Groups (not a parenting question)

Hi every one

I would like to encourage everyone to use the Q&A more for parenting issues.

For body issues, please use the Body Issues group this is a private group to talk about body issues, so you will need to request to be a member.

For relationship issues, please use:
* Relationship Issues - http://www.minti.com/groups/40952/Relationship-issues/ --> This is a public group, so obviously please do not post here if the issues are quite sensitive

* Private Relationship Issues - http://www.minti.com/groups/40953/Private-Relationship-Issues/ -> This is where you can post about relationship issues that need to remain private and are possibly sensitive issues. This group is a private group, so you will need to request to be a member.

* Christians and Relationships - If you are a Christian in a relationship and would like advice from other Christians, please use this group

* Divorce of Separating - About divorce or separating

* Dogs and Storks - About children and dogs

* In Laws and the Step Siblings - about in laws and step siblings

* Monster in Laws - about In laws who are monsters



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matthew
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | matthew
Use of Q&A

Hi Folks, 

Just to clear things up a bit.  Angieh is a Minti employee not a regular member but still a regular person like all of us at Minti 

This Q&A post was more as a suggestion or encouragement to try to get the Q&A section more focussed on parenting and raising your kids - it is not trying to police anyone or force you to post into areas where you feel you will not get an answer.

On reflection I am sure we could have expressed this a little differently and I would like everyone to use the Q&A section as they like, bearing in mind that we would really appreciate attention towards parenting issues as much as possible    

There is a huge "grey area" which sits at the boundary of parenting issues and we are pretty open in our interpretation.

So... don't hold back - and particularly if you feel you are not getting a direct answer to your query in other parts of the site then come here and post you query - let the conversation continue !

all the best

Matt  

 



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      BrightonBelle
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | BrightonBelle
My mistake!
I apologise if my comment came over as too strong and I was not aware that Angieh was an employee of minti and glad fully admit my mistake. It did feel however that this was a telling off and I think that is what got peoples back up.


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           MadMel
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | MadMel
My mistake!
good way to tell is the sheild is gold with a red cross... that is admin


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BrightonBelle
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | BrightonBelle
Can't police Q&A!
I didn't even know that these other groups existed and to be honest I don't think trying to police Q&A is such a good idea ( I know from experience) and I feel that if non parenting questions are causing such a problem (????) then it should be down to Rachel, Clay or Matthew to be suggesting we use other groups not general members. I like it the way it is and the fact that their is such a variety of Questions being asked in one place, I feel that a lot of issues would be over looked if it was segmented into topic groups and after all the majority of us are parents so all the worries we have are parenting worries!


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rach
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | rach
Q&A

I agree with every1 really. I enjoy reading and if i can giving advice in the Q&A. i dont really wont to go into a special group for everything. i dont get much time on the computer each day so its easier for me to just go straight to Q&A and read all different problems others have. Sometimes i to have that same problem, the advise that has been given for that Q then helps me as well. If i had to go into different groups to view all different Q, sorry but i just dont have the time in my normal day. I to believe that children sense everything through their parents, this site has been a life saver for me since finding it a short time ago. please leave it how it is.

 Rach



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mumof2b
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | mumof2b
Relationships and Body Issues Groups (not a parenting question)

This is really hard as some questions/ideas would be better off in a blog or in a particular group but there are also questions/ideas that really need to be in Q & A whether they are parenting/child related or not.

If the person is frantic or stressed about something then I don't see a problem with it being in Q & A, as that's where they are more likely to get a better response.

Maybe another section needs to be made on the Homepage for miscellaneous.......just a thought........

Amanda



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natelz1
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | natelz1
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i understand your point, but i think its sad as this is where i look for advice and to give it. perhaps if its a problem you could set up the same thing on the same page but have a different title . Cheeky i know but it seems to me noone really has a problem withthe way it has been going.

just my thought

natz



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mum2four
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | mum2four
NOT PARENTING

I would like to add that if we are not happy in our selves  or a problem in our marriage /relationship and have children, I do believe it is then a parenting issue ,because the children no matter how small ,even babies sense  and know when the parents are tense and upset about something and can suffer too.

Yes there may be some Questions that may not relate to parenting but as some newer members aren't quite sure where to ask such questions ,and to know that a question is going to be noticed  and answered the best place is Q&A.I know I have put things in my blog and have not even been visited and  when I want a now answer when I have  real problem whether it be direct parenting that is where I think it is best place to put it.Also not everybody who needs help are able to use a computer  as well as others and in sheer desperation have just tried to find a site where they might be able to recieve advice on particular problems they are having at the time.

I think sometimes unless you have been a long time member and have gone up the ranks  of popularity you become invisible to some people  and in Q&A you get  more of a response to a question if it is placed there rather then in your blog or in a group.

Nobody has to agree with what i have just said ,as these are just my personal thoughts and opinions and things I have noticed  since becoming a member since Feb this yr.

                                             Cham



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crystalmoon
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | crystalmoon
Good Point
how ever, Some people either do not know how nor want to get into these groups.....this facet of Minti gets most of the member viewing as well.I have had members that have questions in their blog as they do not understand how to use the sight.I would really feel terrible if some one got tipped over the edge cause they could not get a quick response to their some times urgent questions.I sometimes feel also that most of the points you mentioned above do tie in,in some way with parenting.Just my opinion regards Crystal  
 


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      angieh
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | angieh
Good Point
People can find groups by clicking on Groups (on the green bar at the top) then searching for groups.

People are more than welcome to use their own personal blogs for questions as well. Not all the Q&A posts do tie in with parenting. Some of these groups are groups that people have made themselves. The groups used to be quite active before Q&A was added to the Minti website.

The decision of where to post lies ultimately in the poster's hands. We are merely encouraging people to use the sections of Minti that are more relevant to their needs.


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           crystalmoon
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | crystalmoon
Cool
I understand all that,I was merely concerned for the members who for what ever reason do not understand how to use the site.And may be discouraged from using this section to post important questions.I have had a few(personally)that say they do not want to necessarily join a group to post 1 question etc.But as you say it is in the hands of the poster.Oh yes nearly forgot......I know we can post questions in our blogs,however I had one member minti mail me asking what to do in regard to a question that she had in her blog that had gone unanswered for days.She also did not want to join a group,it was a one off Question. regards Crystal


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tassiebiarch
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | tassiebiarch
Relationships and Body Issues Groups (not a parenting question)

yeah thats fine but i think there isn't really enough questions as it is i am on all day everyday and i love when there are heaps of questions there just isn't enough parenting questions as it is

thats just my point of view



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      angieh
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | angieh
Relationships and Body Issues Groups (not a parenting question)
Perhaps, but we really would like everyone to consider using Q&A for parenting /children questions (since this is a site about Parenting/Children) and Groups more for talking about other things.


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           tassiebiarch
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | tassiebiarch
not parenting

yeah i understand,but take all of the non parenting questions out and how many actual parenting questions would you have /day.not many i am on here all the time and i feel even now there isn't many questions i sit here and wait for a question sad really lol

 



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