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pitomoosey
pitomoosey | May 2007

I need help/advice fast...

This is a rather sad post, but, I have searched the web, and am not happy/satisfied with anything i have as yet dug up.

  My eldest daughter passed away unexpectedly on Monday, and all I am trying to find is a nice song for the service, she was 14 years old, but had severe disabilities.

 Please if any mums or dads know of any good/appropriate music please let me know.

 I have looked/listened to a couple but they just dont seem right.

   Looking for help here guys, nothing is silly, please let me know, so I can check them  (the songs) out.

  Thanx  pito



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mewannaboy
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | mewannaboy
im sorry for your loss

The songs i would pick would be "you are my sunshine"

                                                   or "You are the sunshine of my life" by Stevie Wonder ,im not sure who sings the other one." you are so beautiful to me " is another lovely song  or the "Green sleeves". Hope this helps im so sorry again for your loss and give you all my blessing and strengths.



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sosboots
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | sosboots
I need help/advice fast

this my not be the right song for you but the song that was played for my wife live with bagpipes in the back ground was a song from green day called "Time of your life"



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cozmo
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | cozmo
wind beneath my wings

sorry for the loss the song that i heard is wing beneath my wings by bette midler.

michelle



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Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | Marglr
Dearest pitomoosey
You have not left my mind. I hope you get through the next few days,I know you will for you will be there for your wonderful family. I am so sad you have to go through this horrible time. You have the hearts and prayers of a lot of people and I so wish there were words to aid,but know you are thought of.


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skylee
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | skylee
Celine dion's Fly is the most amazing song i have ever come across

Celine dion's Fly is the most amazing song i have ever come across, it is a song about releasing your loved one to fly on to the next world, it's so amazing.. i am happy to send you a copy of it by post free of charge if you like, just email or call me (will privare msg my mobile number) if you would like me to or better still PM me your number and i will play it to you over the phone..

No words could possibly express the pain you must be feeling... My thought are with you and prays are with her

Love Skylee



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vlooi
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | vlooi
I need help/advice fast...
I am so sorry for the pain and sorrow that you are now going through and for your loss!  Eric Clapton's "Tears in Heaven" has always been very moving to me.  You have some very good suggestions from all.  My thoughts and prayers will be with you on Friday.


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lisasmith140483
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | lisasmith140483
i need advice

i have no words that can take your pain away the song i could suggest along with other mums is tears in heaven by eric clapton as it is about the loss of his son.  Anything that made her happy would be fitting.

My thoughts are with you and your family and i send you all the strength i can gather.

Much love



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Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | Marglr
I need help/advice fast...
I have no song to offer but lovely ones have been suggested. I am so sorry for you and your family,such a sad heartbreak. Take care of yourselves and best wishes to you.


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Deborahsc2203
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | Deborahsc2203
play what she likes

what song made her smile laugh or anything that got her intrest , dont even worry if its the wiggles or even a song that dosent seem right for a funural , pick something that she loved no matter what it is ,, im sure she will be listing,,,( something that resembles her life )

all the best to you hugs and warm wishes to your family , Debbie



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Shellshell
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | Shellshell
sorry for your loss

My thoughts are with you at this time

Prince's  "The most beautiful girl in the world", my sister lost one of her best friends nearly 10 yrs ago, she was only 11, and this was played at her funeral.

Goes something like:

could you be, the most beautiful girl in the world,

plain to see, you're the reason that god made a girl

Hope this helps, take care



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cariad
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | cariad
music suggestion

Dear Pinto

I hope this isn't too odd a suggestion but 'into my arms ' by nick cave and the bad seeds is stunning,very soulful,soft and the lyrics are simple and loving about there being some kind of heaven and a journey being taken

My heart breaks for you and your family, but i'm sure no where near as much as your is broken.

Many thoughts go out to you. x



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      Libby24
3.00 (Average) | May 2007 | Libby24
music
this is mine and my hubby's song. lol


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bellachell
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | bellachell
I'm sorry for your loss
I was going through some songs on our media player and found a few that you might like. Miss You In A Heartbeat by Def Leppard is a lovely song, as is Tears In Heaven by Eric Clapton. I'm sure any song you pick will be perfect for this sad occasion. You are in our thoughts and prayers.


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Libby24
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | Libby24
I need help/advice fast...
firstly i am sadned to hear of your loss. Huge hugs to you and your family.

did she have a favourite song? my friend when he died we played his favourite song but we also played sweet child of mine by guns and roses (i feel too rock for a sad accasion)

the ceilen dion song i have not heard but i do love her music as it is very spiritual to me.

good luck with finding the right music.



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mumof1girl
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | mumof1girl
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So sorry about your loss. It must be a rough time for you at the moment. Hugs for you all. What about one of her favourite songs or one by Eric Clapton ' Tears in Heaven "



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mel-thom-coop
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | mel-thom-coop
beautiful song

the most heartfelt song ive heard would be on the album celine dion recorded to accompany an anne geddes book called miracles. it is just a gorgeous collection of songs, she even covers a couple of classics. my heart goes out to you and your family.

melinda



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angieh
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | angieh
I need help/advice fast...
This is a little uh, unusual, but how about playing one of her favourite songs that you think she would loved to have been sent off to?


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bittenbythelovebug
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | bittenbythelovebug
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There is a beautiful song by Mariah Carey called FLY.

My thoughts are with you

Lots of love and big hugs and kisses XXXOOO



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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | Ngairi
May the Angels look down on you

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, I pray for the angels to look down on you and your family at this time.

My suggestions would be

In the Arms of an Angel - Sarah McLanahan

Bright Eyes - Art Garfunkle

I'll Be Missing You - Puff Daddy and Faith Evans

Who You'd Be Today - Kenny Chesney

You can find the lyrics for these songs at http://www.nextgenmemorials.com/%20memoriallyrics.html

Hope this helps. If you need the songs let me know and I will see what I can do for you. I have a couple of these already.

Leisa



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grendal
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | grendal
hope this helps abit
hey im am so sorry for your loss but i was touched by your story maybe wind benith my wings by bette middler, always there kate alxea or i that they are more of a heavy band but it is a beautiful song as we used it last year for my young brother it is by disturbed and its called darkness or one sweet day


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jenlemen
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | jenlemen
so so sorry
this is very sad news!  please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
i don't have any strong suggestions for songs, but once i was asked to sing "tomorrow" from the musical annie at the funeral of a young man with disabilities.   i hope you find the just right song asap.


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crystalmoon
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | crystalmoon
THOUGHTS WITH YOU
This is rather an old song and I cannot for the life of me remember the group/artist.......Wings of an eagle.Some one may know who sings this.You may not find this approriate,I just always have felt strong and uplifted when listening to it.Light and love Crystal


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rach
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | rach
SORRY 4 UR LOSS

Hi Pito,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My heart is with you at this very difficuilt time.

If you wont to listen to some songs, i have a song download site - www.limewire.com it is totally free. I highly recommend it.

I agree with the song idea from nell18-3. Mariah Carrey & Boyz 2 men- 1 sweet day. this is a beautiful song.

I will go thru all my songs and let you know if i find something that i think you would like.

 Rach



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dcsmom
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | dcsmom
I need help/advice fast...

There's a song Eric Clapton wrote when his son died... I think it's called Would you know my name???  It's very pretty.

Sorry for your loss.



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      TheMentorMom
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | TheMentorMom
Song
I think it is called "Tears in Heaven" and you are right, it is a beautiful song.  Good call.  Here is a link to the lyrics:

http://www.lyricsfreak.com/e/eric+clapton/tears+in+heaven_20051574.html

And, pito, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your daughter!  Please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. 


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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | nell18-3
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I am so sorry to hear your news
At my funeral I have it written down I want the song played
Mariah Carey and Boys 11 Men
One Sweet Day
Hope everything goes well for you
Here is the link for you to read the lyrics
www.seeklyrics.com/lyrics/Mariah-Carey/One-Sweet-Day.html


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      pitomoosey
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | pitomoosey
thank you
Its  perfect, thank you so much


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           nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | nell18-3
thank you
I really feel for you right now
Take care
xxx


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                pitomoosey
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | pitomoosey
Thank you all so much

The past few days has been a blur, totally surreal, but as a mum, I want to get things perfect for my girls goodbye. I cannot thank enough all the caring members that have both sent there thoughts and prayers/wellwishes.

  Its nice to know there are so many caring people still around in our world. The amount of times I have blinked back tears to read ur posts is a credit to you all and I thank you.

 Now I have to find a pen to check out all the songs, I have gone with Mariahs "one sweet day: for the service and "tears in heaven" for the burial, if I find one that suits better, thanks to all your suggestions I will use it.

 Thank you all so much, and ty to minti for providing me with somewhere to search : ), I was having a mental battle trying to find something appropriate for my little girl.

 fondly Pito



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